autumn8484 Posted October 12, 2010 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 31 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/22/2008 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/07/1986 Share Posted October 12, 2010 ok-so-i-have-2-kids-with-a-man-who-i-am-not-married-2...........i-know-having-sex-b4-getting-married-is-a-sin......however-they-are-here-now....so-my-????-is...my-kids-dad-is-divorced-we-havent-got-along-in-a-long-time-but-here-lately-we-are-good-friends-if-we-ever-got-back-together-would-it-be-a-sin-for-us-to-get-married-or-the-best-thing-to-give-our-kids-a-family??????sorry-about-the-lines-inbetween-my-words-my-space-bar-is-broken.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bella1958 Posted October 12, 2010 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 0 Topics Per Day: 0 Content Count: 4 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/02/2010 Status: Offline Birthday: 05/30/1958 Share Posted October 12, 2010 ok-so-i-have-2-kids-with-a-man-who-i-am-not-married-2...........i-know-having-sex-b4-getting-married-is-a-sin......however-they-are-here-now....so-my-????-is...my-kids-dad-is-divorced-we-havent-got-along-in-a-long-time-but-here-lately-we-are-good-friends-if-we-ever-got-back-together-would-it-be-a-sin-for-us-to-get-married-or-the-best-thing-to-give-our-kids-a-family??????sorry-about-the-lines-inbetween-my-words-my-space-bar-is-broken.... Hi Autumn8484. I was married just over a year ago. My advise to you would be that you should spend a great deal of time in prayer about this. Marriage is a very sacred covenant between two people and God. It is never to be taken lightly. Is your ex-husband a Christian? If he is not, then I would not consider remarriage. I hope this has helped. God bless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
autumn8484 Posted October 12, 2010 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 31 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/22/2008 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/07/1986 Author Share Posted October 12, 2010 ok-so-i-have-2-kids-with-a-man-who-i-am-not-married-2...........i-know-having-sex-b4-getting-married-is-a-sin......however-they-are-here-now....so-my-????-is...my-kids-dad-is-divorced-we-havent-got-along-in-a-long-time-but-here-lately-we-are-good-friends-if-we-ever-got-back-together-would-it-be-a-sin-for-us-to-get-married-or-the-best-thing-to-give-our-kids-a-family??????sorry-about-the-lines-inbetween-my-words-my-space-bar-is-broken.... Hi Autumn8484. I was married just over a year ago. My advise to you would be that you should spend a great deal of time in prayer about this. Marriage is a very sacred covenant between two people and God. It is never to be taken lightly. Is your ex-husband a Christian? If he is not, then I would not consider remarriage. I hope this has helped. God bless. he-is-not-my-exhusban-just-exboyfriend-he-was-married-to-another-person-b4-thats-what-im-asking-since-he-has-been-married-b4-but-we-have-kids-together-and-yes-he-just-started-going-to-church Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bella1958 Posted October 12, 2010 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 0 Topics Per Day: 0 Content Count: 4 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/02/2010 Status: Offline Birthday: 05/30/1958 Share Posted October 12, 2010 ok-so-i-have-2-kids-with-a-man-who-i-am-not-married-2...........i-know-having-sex-b4-getting-married-is-a-sin......however-they-are-here-now....so-my-????-is...my-kids-dad-is-divorced-we-havent-got-along-in-a-long-time-but-here-lately-we-are-good-friends-if-we-ever-got-back-together-would-it-be-a-sin-for-us-to-get-married-or-the-best-thing-to-give-our-kids-a-family??????sorry-about-the-lines-inbetween-my-words-my-space-bar-is-broken.... Hi Autumn8484. I was married just over a year ago. My advise to you would be that you should spend a great deal of time in prayer about this. Marriage is a very sacred covenant between two people and God. It is never to be taken lightly. Is your ex-husband a Christian? If he is not, then I would not consider remarriage. I hope this has helped. God bless. he-is-not-my-exhusban-just-exboyfriend-he-was-married-to-another-person-b4-thats-what-im-asking-since-he-has-been-married-b4-but-we-have-kids-together-and-yes-he-just-started-going-to-church If it was me, I would be asking myself several questions. Do I love him? Does he love me? Is he a good father and provider? Would he be a good husband? But first and foremost, I would be asking God to lead me and show me His will for my life and future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
autumn8484 Posted October 12, 2010 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 31 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/22/2008 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/07/1986 Author Share Posted October 12, 2010 ok-so-i-have-2-kids-with-a-man-who-i-am-not-married-2...........i-know-having-sex-b4-getting-married-is-a-sin......however-they-are-here-now....so-my-????-is...my-kids-dad-is-divorced-we-havent-got-along-in-a-long-time-but-here-lately-we-are-good-friends-if-we-ever-got-back-together-would-it-be-a-sin-for-us-to-get-married-or-the-best-thing-to-give-our-kids-a-family??????sorry-about-the-lines-inbetween-my-words-my-space-bar-is-broken.... Hi Autumn8484. I was married just over a year ago. My advise to you would be that you should spend a great deal of time in prayer about this. Marriage is a very sacred covenant between two people and God. It is never to be taken lightly. Is your ex-husband a Christian? If he is not, then I would not consider remarriage. I hope this has helped. God bless. he-is-not-my-exhusban-just-exboyfriend-he-was-married-to-another-person-b4-thats-what-im-asking-since-he-has-been-married-b4-but-we-have-kids-together-and-yes-he-just-started-going-to-church If it was me, I would be asking myself several questions. Do I love him? Does he love me? Is he a good father and provider? Would he be a good husband? But first and foremost, I would be asking God to lead me and show me His will for my life and future. at-one-point-we-didnt-love-eachother-like-we-should-now-i-think-we-are-getting-to-the-point-we-make-eachother-happy-and-yes-he-takes-his-kids-everyother-week-for-a-week-at-a-time-pays-child-support-and-works-full-time-as-a-RN-andgoes-to-church-now-i-just-dont-know-with-him-being-already-divorced-if-it-would-be-ok-or-not-but-iwould-love-to-give-my-kids-a-family-just-dont-know-where-to-start!-its-kinda-a-bad-place-we-should-of-never-had-kids-b4-we-married-eachother-but-we-cant-take-that-back-now-so-i-just-want-to-do-the-best-thing-just-not-sure-what-that-is! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
autumn8484 Posted October 12, 2010 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 31 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/22/2008 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/07/1986 Author Share Posted October 12, 2010 ok-so-i-have-2-kids-with-a-man-who-i-am-not-married-2...........i-know-having-sex-b4-getting-married-is-a-sin......however-they-are-here-now....so-my-????-is...my-kids-dad-is-divorced-we-havent-got-along-in-a-long-time-but-here-lately-we-are-good-friends-if-we-ever-got-back-together-would-it-be-a-sin-for-us-to-get-married-or-the-best-thing-to-give-our-kids-a-family??????sorry-about-the-lines-inbetween-my-words-my-space-bar-is-broken.... We do some very ungodly stuff before Jesus saves us from our dark lives.You are obviously repentant about your premarital relations and now are considering the right relationship God expects of you.Pray long and hard before making this decision because it is one that is life long. I suggest you both get some counselling from your church and be sure to make your union formal. yeah-i-think-we-need-some-because-we-both-have-alot-to-work-on-i-just-know-my-2-kids-should-see-that-mommy-and-daddy-are-married-because-i-dont-want-them-to-grow-up-and-end-up-having-kids-b4-they-get-married-because-thats-what-they-seen-of-us..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nebula Posted October 12, 2010 Group: Royal Member Followers: 10 Topic Count: 5,823 Topics Per Day: 0.76 Content Count: 45,870 Content Per Day: 5.95 Reputation: 1,897 Days Won: 83 Joined: 03/22/2003 Status: Offline Birthday: 11/19/1970 Share Posted October 12, 2010 Coming from a broken home, I cannot support getting married to someone you don't get along with. Getting married for the sake of the children may solve some issues, but it will create new ones. Yes, it hurts the children for Mom and Dad not to be in a married relationship, but it also hurts to be in a bad married relationship. I personally believe they will be better off with the two of you as good or decent friends who care about each other as friends than as the two of you in a fighting, bickering, etc. don't-get-along married relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
autumn8484 Posted October 12, 2010 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 31 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/22/2008 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/07/1986 Author Share Posted October 12, 2010 Coming from a broken home, I cannot support getting married to someone you don't get along with. Getting married for the sake of the children may solve some issues, but it will create new ones. Yes, it hurts the children for Mom and Dad not to be in a married relationship, but it also hurts to be in a bad married relationship. I personally believe they will be better off with the two of you as good or decent friends who care about each other as friends than as the two of you in a fighting, bickering, etc. don't-get-along married relationship. well-that-use-to-be-the-case-but-we-do-gat-alone-now-and-if-i-was-to-marry-him-it-wouldnt-be-just-due-to-the-kids-yes-ofcourse-that-would-be-a-reason-but-it-would-be-because-i-was-inlove-and-wanted-to-get-married-to-him-for-the-rest-of-my-life.............we-have-been-talking-about-getting-back-together-and-im-not-sure-where-to-go-from-here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
da_man1974 Posted October 12, 2010 Group: Senior Member Followers: 25 Topic Count: 41 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 726 Content Per Day: 0.14 Reputation: 575 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/22/2010 Status: Offline Birthday: 12/30/1974 Share Posted October 12, 2010 Coming from a broken home, I cannot support getting married to someone you don't get along with. Getting married for the sake of the children may solve some issues, but it will create new ones. Yes, it hurts the children for Mom and Dad not to be in a married relationship, but it also hurts to be in a bad married relationship. I personally believe they will be better off with the two of you as good or decent friends who care about each other as friends than as the two of you in a fighting, bickering, etc. don't-get-along married relationship. well-that-use-to-be-the-case-but-we-do-gat-alone-now-and-if-i-was-to-marry-him-it-wouldnt-be-just-due-to-the-kids-yes-ofcourse-that-would-be-a-reason-but-it-would-be-because-i-was-inlove-and-wanted-to-get-married-to-him-for-the-rest-of-my-life.............we-have-been-talking-about-getting-back-together-and-im-not-sure-where-to-go-from-here Are you not together now? You may want to try spending more time together b4 jumping to thinking about marriage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
autumn8484 Posted October 12, 2010 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 31 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/22/2008 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/07/1986 Author Share Posted October 12, 2010 Coming from a broken home, I cannot support getting married to someone you don't get along with. Getting married for the sake of the children may solve some issues, but it will create new ones. Yes, it hurts the children for Mom and Dad not to be in a married relationship, but it also hurts to be in a bad married relationship. I personally believe they will be better off with the two of you as good or decent friends who care about each other as friends than as the two of you in a fighting, bickering, etc. don't-get-along married relationship. well-that-use-to-be-the-case-but-we-do-gat-alone-now-and-if-i-was-to-marry-him-it-wouldnt-be-just-due-to-the-kids-yes-ofcourse-that-would-be-a-reason-but-it-would-be-because-i-was-inlove-and-wanted-to-get-married-to-him-for-the-rest-of-my-life.............we-have-been-talking-about-getting-back-together-and-im-not-sure-where-to-go-from-here Are you not together now? You may want to try spending more time together b4 jumping to thinking about marriage. yes-ofcourse-i-was-just-asking-if-it-ever-came-to-getting-married-would-it-be-ok-beings-as-he-has-been-divorced-.......we-were-together-for-5-years-and-split-for-a-year-and-a-half-so-i-know-we-have-alot-to-work-out-b4-we-could-get-married-just-asking-if-we-ever-did-would-it-be-ok Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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