thomasabishek Posted January 4, 2015 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 16 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/04/2015 Status: Offline Birthday: 03/09/1987 Share Posted January 4, 2015 (edited) Hi there! My name is thomasabishek and I'm new to this forum...I was born a christian, but was very far from being one. I recently started my walk with Christ and am working towards being a better Christian My first question here isn't about anything specific in the bible, but, nevertheless, I require some spiritual guidance. I fell into sin by developing a relationship with an unbeliever (atheist to be exact). I even ended up engaging in pre-marital sex with her. After a year of dating, we broke up because she had commitment issues and I think there was another man involved. It's been almost 4 years since the break up, but we've managed to keep in touch. I have asked God for forgiveness for my sins and he has also been helping me through the break-up. Of course, it hasn't been easy and I still do occasionally have some thoughts about her, but I would confidently say my guard is up. In fact, I even refused to get back with her once, though she asked me to. My question here is, should I continue being friends with her? I'm still getting over her and I've accepted that I cannot get back with her for my own spiritual well-being. But, I feel sorry for her sometimes because she's been through some tough situations and that is part of why she is the way she is. Also, I still have a general sense of love, concern and care for her. Extra Info: I've also set very strict guidelines regarding our interaction. I've told her that communication will only be through phonecalls and brief physical meetings once a year. She lives 400 kilometres away so, hopefully, that won't be a problem. She is, as of now, dating another man. Though it upsets me mildly, I'm pretty much okay with it. Anyways, would love to hear what you guys have to say about this. Maybe God will talk to me through you people. Looking forward to your replies. Edited January 4, 2015 by thomasabishek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ncn Posted January 4, 2015 Group: Graduated to Heaven Followers: 6 Topic Count: 406 Topics Per Day: 0.09 Content Count: 5,248 Content Per Day: 1.12 Reputation: 1,337 Days Won: 67 Joined: 08/07/2011 Status: Offline Share Posted January 4, 2015 Welcome to Worthy This forum is the Welcome Forum, designed for new members to say Hi and to introduce yourself. It is not a place for a discussion on specific questions, suggestions or requests. Once you make 5 posts you will have access to the rest of the forums and will be able to start threads on other forums within WCF on topics that interest you. God Bless, Nigel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thomasabishek Posted January 4, 2015 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 16 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/04/2015 Status: Offline Birthday: 03/09/1987 Author Share Posted January 4, 2015 Ok, sorry about that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubba4J Posted January 4, 2015 Group: Royal Member Followers: 6 Topic Count: 155 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 6,075 Content Per Day: 0.94 Reputation: 471 Days Won: 3 Joined: 08/05/2006 Status: Offline Share Posted January 4, 2015 Welcome Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneLight Posted January 4, 2015 Group: Royal Member Followers: 22 Topic Count: 1,294 Topics Per Day: 0.21 Content Count: 31,762 Content Per Day: 5.22 Reputation: 9,763 Days Won: 115 Joined: 09/14/2007 Status: Offline Share Posted January 4, 2015 Welcome! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trahi Posted January 4, 2015 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 13 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/03/2015 Status: Offline Share Posted January 4, 2015 (edited) Thomas, Search the web for how to break unholy ties. What you are experiencing is not of this realm. You cannot fight it with logic, emotion or human strength alone. You need the Sword of The Spirit of the Living God. Edited January 4, 2015 by ncn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ncn Posted January 4, 2015 Group: Graduated to Heaven Followers: 6 Topic Count: 406 Topics Per Day: 0.09 Content Count: 5,248 Content Per Day: 1.12 Reputation: 1,337 Days Won: 67 Joined: 08/07/2011 Status: Offline Share Posted January 4, 2015 Thomas , I have moved your thread to this forum . Have a problem? Looking for advice. Members can now start to reply to your questions. God Bless, Nigel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Posted January 4, 2015 Group: Nonbeliever Followers: 0 Topic Count: 62 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1,342 Content Per Day: 0.35 Reputation: 712 Days Won: 4 Joined: 09/29/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted January 4, 2015 Welcome to Worthy thomasabishek!!! You'll have a AWESOME time here!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 5, 2015 Share Posted January 5, 2015 Welcome~! ~ would love to hear what you guys have to say about this.... ~ Praying~! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thomasabishek Posted January 5, 2015 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 16 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/04/2015 Status: Offline Birthday: 03/09/1987 Author Share Posted January 5, 2015 Hey guys! thanks for the warm welcome... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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