missmuffet Posted October 2, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,996 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,693 Content Per Day: 11.68 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted October 2, 2016 This is a reply to the Love your wives thread. It takes two to make a loving Christian relationship that lasts as long as you live. What do you say ladies? What can you do to be the wife that God wants you to be to your husband? 1. Love him unconditionally 2. Listen. Keep the line of communication open. Tell him what is on your heart and be honest. 3. Make time for weekly dates. 4. Pray together 5. Be a giver and not a taker 6. Make him his favorite meal occasionally 7. Occasionally buy him a special little gift. Maybe a book he has been wanting to read or something pertaining to a hobby of his. If he asks you why just say "because I love you" 8. Make him proud that you are the mother of his children. 9. When something goes wrong and it is your fault, admit it. Do not be afraid of the word "I AM SORRY". 10. Since your husband is the Spiritual leader in your house submit to that. 11. Be his helper. 12. Bring him his favorite beverage occasionally without him asking.Coffee or tea. Even take it to him to bed in the morning. Any other thoughts ladies? Men.. What would you like to see in your wives? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted October 2, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,996 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,693 Content Per Day: 11.68 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Author Share Posted October 2, 2016 8 minutes ago, Yowm said: Still needs the 31 day routine that GoldenEagle posted to prove her love and devotion to her husband. LOL This is not a challenge. These are things a wife should be doing in her husband's life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted October 2, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,996 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,693 Content Per Day: 11.68 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Author Share Posted October 2, 2016 2 minutes ago, Yowm said: Right, I think that was Golden Eagle's first 5 points but then we gave the 31 day challenge which to be fair, your's is missing. Oh don't take me too serious, I'm just joshing some. Ok bro. Do you have any suggestions on what you think a husband can see in a Christian wife? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted October 3, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,996 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,693 Content Per Day: 11.68 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 1 hour ago, Yowm said: No. I don't play those marriage games. After 30 years of marriage we have learned to be fully dependent on the grace of God. What games are you referring to? You think the list I posted are games? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HisFirst Posted October 3, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 21 Topic Count: 315 Topics Per Day: 0.11 Content Count: 3,491 Content Per Day: 1.24 Reputation: 2,582 Days Won: 3 Joined: 09/25/2016 Status: Offline Share Posted October 3, 2016 Hi MM ? I think some folk think they don't need to be told, whereas others embrace all the help they can get!? Older, wiser,gentle, loving Christian women from Church are fantastic to turn to for advice but once again, take that advice and line it up against His word? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted October 3, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,996 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,693 Content Per Day: 11.68 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 17 minutes ago, HisFirst said: Hi MM ? I think some folk think they don't need to be told, whereas others embrace all the help they can get!? Older, wiser,gentle, loving Christian women from Church are fantastic to turn to for advice but once again, take that advice and line it up against His word? Exactly. Always compare what we are told to God's Holy Word. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HisFirst Posted October 3, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 21 Topic Count: 315 Topics Per Day: 0.11 Content Count: 3,491 Content Per Day: 1.24 Reputation: 2,582 Days Won: 3 Joined: 09/25/2016 Status: Offline Share Posted October 3, 2016 24 minutes ago, missmuffet said: Exactly. Always compare what we are told to God's Holy Word. And there's a lot of wise Christian women here on Worthy that are being a fantastic witness to online women, both Believers and non.?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted October 3, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,996 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,693 Content Per Day: 11.68 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 3 minutes ago, Yowm said: My opinion is that the rules are just games when Christ's love is not at the center. His love at Calvary should be the great motivator in loving one another. Did I say that Christ was not at the center? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted October 3, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,996 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,693 Content Per Day: 11.68 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 2 minutes ago, Yowm said: I didn't see Him mentioned. Jesus has been the central Person in our marriage. Anyhow, I started some comments in helpful fun, and I don't feel like getting dragged into an argument. I said "pray together". And I said "submit your husband as the spiritual head of the household". Now what is that? Perhaps you could give us some ideas of what makes a good Christian wife.  Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted October 3, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,996 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,693 Content Per Day: 11.68 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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