SondraKaye2018 Posted September 21, 2020 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 26 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 33 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/21/2020 Status: Offline Birthday: 06/30/1968 Share Posted September 21, 2020 I have been working for a 33rd degree mason and his wife (daughters of Job) for about 10 years doing cleaning and yard work. I have felt even more creeped out by him lately. And, his hugs seem long and inappropriate. Making me feel violated. I pray spiritual warfare every time I go there. And, I share the gospel and my faith. Now I still owe him for a car that him and his wife helped me to get last winter. Note: He does not always post my payments and I have to watch out. He skipped my March 150 payment altogether! I should go keep working off the car (because I have no real job). But, I am feeling very spiritually sick to my stomach when he hugs me and says he loves me. What should I do?? 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steward George Posted September 21, 2020 Group: Steward Followers: 110 Topic Count: 10,465 Topics Per Day: 1.25 Content Count: 27,781 Content Per Day: 3.33 Reputation: 15,482 Days Won: 129 Joined: 06/30/2001 Status: Online Birthday: 09/21/1971 Steward Share Posted September 21, 2020 Shalom SondraKaye2018, Welcome to Worthy Christian Forums. Please feel free to browse around and get to know everyone. If you have any questions please don't hesitate to ask. As soon as you post a few times and after they are approved, it'll tell us that you are "real" person and not a "bot", you'll be free to post throughout our forums and join our chat rooms. Forgive us for this minor inconvenience, however, we've had issues in the past with Spammers as well as those who wish to post obscene photos and messages! Currently, if you just began at Worthy, you are in "Newbie" Status. Simply post a single post, as soon as it's approved, you'll be out of Newbie status and then you'll be able to edit your profile, as well as upload a profile picture. You may be interested in reading how WCF functions, and how the forums are set up, and other neat tricks to the forums. Read our insights into WCF. Let me share a little bit of my vision for the ministry in a parable. Let's say I'm throwing a big party and am inviting the world to the party (the forums) and I want everyone to have a great time, eating (reading through posts being fed), drinking (being encouraged to walk in His Word), and having fellowship with one another. In Israel, we have Shabbat meals -- and whenever you have 2 Jews -- you have 3 opinions -- it's GREAT to be opinionated. I encourage discussions ... but during our Shabbat meals ... we never ever get to the point in disagreements whereby food is being tossed and seriously yelling takes place! And if someone comes into the meal ... and starts throwing food ... and yells at everyone -- what do you suppose the head of the Shabbat meal will do? He'll escort those causing problems out of the house! Why? Because the whole reason for the gathering was to learn from one another ... to have a great time of fellowship! Some people like to constantly throw food and yell ... they won't last on Worthy ... because they missed the point of the party ... it's a prequel to the true party -- the Lamb's Supper! All I'm trying to provide is a place to allow true fellowship ... and discussions in love ... in the hopes it will be a catalyst for true REVIVAL based on REPENTANCE! I hope you have a blessed time at Worthy! Please use the REPORT POST feature (which can be found at the top right of all posts) any posts that you believe should be reviewed! We strive to have ALL members abide by our Terms of Service. While this message is "automated", please know that if you have any questions, feel free to shoot me off a private message which can be found at the top right to the left of your name. Your brother in the Lord with much agape love, George 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SondraKaye2018 Posted September 21, 2020 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 26 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 33 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/21/2020 Status: Offline Birthday: 06/30/1968 Author Share Posted September 21, 2020 George, my real name is Paige. Thankyou for being a devotional guide for a very long time. And, for laying down your flesh to be a voice for Abba Father!!!! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SondraKaye2018 Posted September 21, 2020 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 26 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 33 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/21/2020 Status: Offline Birthday: 06/30/1968 Author Share Posted September 21, 2020 Marathanah!!! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SondraKaye2018 Posted September 21, 2020 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 26 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 33 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/21/2020 Status: Offline Birthday: 06/30/1968 Author Share Posted September 21, 2020 Also, I have felt uneasy working for them for a long time. But, when I have prayed about it I have felt like I should stay and share my faith. I don't want them to go to hell. I choose to love them. Also, I have actually asked them if they believe in Jesus. They say yes but, my gut questions his answer more then hers. His demeanor changes when he heads off to a masonic meeting. Very creepy and I am surprised I have lasted this long. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SondraKaye2018 Posted September 21, 2020 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 26 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 33 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/21/2020 Status: Offline Birthday: 06/30/1968 Author Share Posted September 21, 2020 I probably shouldn't have posted this on welcome. I will continue to work off my car. It is the right thing to do. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debp Posted September 22, 2020 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 52 Topic Count: 1,021 Topics Per Day: 0.15 Content Count: 12,331 Content Per Day: 1.80 Reputation: 16,377 Days Won: 92 Joined: 07/19/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted September 22, 2020 12 hours ago, SondraKaye2018 said: I have been working for a 33rd degree mason and his wife (daughters of Job) for about 10 years doing cleaning and yard work. I have felt even more creeped out by him lately. And, his hugs seem long and inappropriate. Making me feel violated. I pray spiritual warfare every time I go there. And, I share the gospel and my faith. Now I still owe him for a car that him and his wife helped me to get last winter. Note: He does not always post my payments and I have to watch out. He skipped my March 150 payment altogether! I should go keep working off the car (because I have no real job). But, I am feeling very spiritually sick to my stomach when he hugs me and says he loves me. What should I do?? Hi and welcome! Learn to speak up for yourself. You do not have to suffer sexual harassment from this man. Do you know people can be sued for harassing you sexually on a job? Speak up, defend yourself. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coliseum Posted September 22, 2020 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 14 Topic Count: 133 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 1,123 Content Per Day: 0.66 Reputation: 2,055 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/07/2019 Status: Offline Share Posted September 22, 2020 12 hours ago, SondraKaye2018 said: I have been working for a 33rd degree mason and his wife (daughters of Job) for about 10 years doing cleaning and yard work. I have felt even more creeped out by him lately. And, his hugs seem long and inappropriate. Making me feel violated. I pray spiritual warfare every time I go there. And, I share the gospel and my faith. Now I still owe him for a car that him and his wife helped me to get last winter. Note: He does not always post my payments and I have to watch out. He skipped my March 150 payment altogether! I should go keep working off the car (because I have no real job). But, I am feeling very spiritually sick to my stomach when he hugs me and says he loves me. What should I do?? Knowing your boundaries and proclaiming them is what a person does when he puts a gate on his property. He opens the gate when he allows someone to enter it; he keeps it shut when he wants them to stay out. Many people get confused about when to open and shut the gate. The best book I ever read concerning it is called "Boundaries" by Cloud and Townsend. You won't regret it. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Henry_iain Posted September 22, 2020 Group: Royal Member Followers: 39 Topic Count: 34 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 24,723 Content Per Day: 5.76 Reputation: 20,472 Days Won: 161 Joined: 08/05/2012 Status: Offline Birthday: 01/30/1985 Share Posted September 22, 2020 Hi Paige. Welcome. Nice to meet you. You will get plenty of good advice here but ultimately you need to make the choice, so I will praying for you that God will guide your steps. Enjoy the forums. God bless 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SondraKaye2018 Posted September 22, 2020 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 26 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 33 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/21/2020 Status: Offline Birthday: 06/30/1968 Author Share Posted September 22, 2020 Hello everyone. Thankyou for your kind welcomes and advice. The advice for boundaries and the book are great. I have that book! I just need to find it. My husband says that when he starts to give me a hug, I should just step back. But, how obvious is that! Please pray for me to have the courage to do it and, to do it with love and grace. And, for His protection. I will be praying for ya'll too!!! There is some serious spiritual warfare when I go there. But, I believe I am covered in the blood of the lamb and nothing evil can touch me. So even when I work there, I aim to be cheerful and loving and do the best work I can because, I really work for my father. However, I just want to finish paying for my car and quit. Every time I educate my self on masonry, I do become uneasy and afraid to ever go back. But, on the day I am to go, the Holy Spirit helps me loads and loads!! I am excited to be here and have genuine believer fellowship. Many Christians I have met in my life were some of the most judgmental, self righteous and really mean people I have ever known. I stopped going to church because of it. I do not have tough skin and my spirit gets really grieved by these kinds of people. It makes going to church an anxious and unpeaceful event. But, my spirit longs for being around true, loving, good, born again, brothers and sisters. That kind of church does not seem to exist around here. And, now with the whole virus thing, many churches are only on line. God's blessing and favor to ya'll ! Love, Paige 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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