Baz Posted October 24, 2005 Group: Junior Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 11 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 89 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/28/2005 Status: Offline Birthday: 01/07/1988 Share Posted October 24, 2005 There's a girl at school, who I find attractive. I think she's new. I don't know her at all, so some advice would be great! How should I approah her and what should I say? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mikeyjay Posted October 24, 2005 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 74 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 665 Content Per Day: 0.10 Reputation: 6 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/20/2005 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/10/1978 Share Posted October 24, 2005 There's a girl at school, who I find attractive. I think she's new. I don't know her at all, so some advice would be great! How should I approah her and what should I say? Just be yourself Baz...if you pretend to be something you're not or put on an act, or she would one day discover that you were a fake...a fine girl would like you to just be real! try not to be too nervous...you are not on stage or makeing a performance...you are just being yourself...right? i hope i have helped you Baz... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baz Posted October 24, 2005 Group: Junior Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 11 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 89 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/28/2005 Status: Offline Birthday: 01/07/1988 Author Share Posted October 24, 2005 Thanks for the great advice. But, I KNOW I need to be myself and not be nervous. What should I say to her and where should I say it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Giaour Posted October 24, 2005 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 179 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 3,941 Content Per Day: 0.55 Reputation: 3 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/28/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/08/1964 Share Posted October 24, 2005 Just say HI! Introduce yourself. Ask her questions about her. Girls love to talk about themselves. Ask her what classes she is taking. Ask her if she likes it there. Tell her that you know how difficult it is going to a new school and that if she wants to, she can have lunch with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baz Posted October 24, 2005 Group: Junior Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 11 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 89 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/28/2005 Status: Offline Birthday: 01/07/1988 Author Share Posted October 24, 2005 Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Giaour Posted October 24, 2005 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 179 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 3,941 Content Per Day: 0.55 Reputation: 3 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/28/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/08/1964 Share Posted October 24, 2005 I don't think complimenting here on her hair or clothes or smile is appropriate at this part of the relationship.. He has never spoke to her before. If a guy came up to me and the first thing he said was "You have beautiful Hair", I would think that he was superficial and only wanted one thing. Compliments are fine, just not on her appearance. At least until you get to know her a little. Women want emotions. Let her know that you understand how she feels. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
disconnected Posted October 25, 2005 Group: Junior Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 19 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 121 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 1 Days Won: 0 Joined: 08/28/2005 Status: Offline Birthday: 12/16/1976 Share Posted October 25, 2005 Do not forget to pray and ask your Heavenly Father about this too. While you like her and find her attractive, His plans are what matters. You may be needed to be just a friend, a witness, or perhaps the Lord has sent you a nice girl who loves Him to be with. The best way to find out is to ask Him. Whatever His plan is, it will be the best for both of you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gerioke Posted October 25, 2005 Group: Royal Member Followers: 3 Topic Count: 97 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 5,850 Content Per Day: 0.84 Reputation: 128 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/19/2005 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/11/1911 Share Posted October 25, 2005 Make her laugh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fiosh Posted October 25, 2005 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 73 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 3,663 Content Per Day: 0.53 Reputation: 5 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/20/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted October 25, 2005 There's a girl at school, who I find attractive. I think she's new. I don't know her at all, so some advice would be great! How should I approah her and what should I say? How about, "Hi, I 'm Shane. Are you new here? I don't think I've seen you before. Where ya from? How long have you been in town. Do you like it here? Do you have Mrs._________ class? what do you think of her. I really love biology. How about you? That should get things started. And......listen to her answers. Focus on HER, not on what you will say next. "We" really like it when you guys listen. Peace, Fiosh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HisWordIsSufficient Posted October 25, 2005 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 13 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 342 Content Per Day: 0.08 Reputation: 1 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/18/2012 Status: Offline Share Posted October 25, 2005 Thanks for the great advice. But, I KNOW I need to be myself and not be nervous. What should I say to her and where should I say it? Do you have a class together? If yes your work will be a bit easier because you can get to know her a little slower at bell time each day. If you don't share a class, then you are going to have to be creative and try to talk to her at the locker or at lunch, or a pep rally. What on earth is a "pep rally"???? Im from Australia, and whatever that is, its not here heh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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