I'm Offended That You Are Offended!

[Keith]

I found a great article on a Senior Friend Finders Blog... Enjoy!

I'm Offended That You Are Offended

Merry Christmas Anyway!

By Debbie Daniel

I'm on a "Merry Christmas" mission and I'm in full throttle. My little yellow VW Beetle has turned into a Christmas billboard with Merry Christmas written across the back window. Yes, I've decided to trek off to work everyday on the public highways with a message that seems to offend people. At stop lights, I even turn my music up a little louder, and to top it off, I sing along with it. Don't I know that stopping at a red light to roll my windows down only to share the joy of Christmas carols on public streets is a No-No? Don't I fear the Christmas Gestapo and those who would have me remove the written message from my car?

I'm sorry folks, but the only person I'm concerned about "offending" during this Christmas season is the Lord himself. LEAVE THAT MANGER ALONE! We've allowed the Baby Jesus to be kicked out of His lowly manger, and those offended by Christmas are still not happy. I refuse to let this happen. I'm going to do my part to make sure "Merry Christmas" doesn't become extinct. Because like it or not, if the believers in Christmas don't take a stand now, it's gone forever.

Listen folks, the Christian community has been underestimated before; we will have to show ourselves again. I walked into a Wendy's Restaurant the other day and was rather exuberant with my "Merry Christmas" greeting to the manager. He didn't have much of a response and I said, "Where's your Christmas spirit?" He said, "We're not allowed to use the words "Merry Christmas" when greeting customers. We can only say "Happy Holiday."

This morning I grabbed a quick breakfast at a Whataburger Restaurant. I noticed there wasn't a single decoration in the store. I asked the manager why they weren't decorated for Christmas. He told me the corporate headquarters decided not to send any decorations to any of their stores, and he didn't know why.

After I heard about all the Macy's and Federated Stores taking down their Merry Christmas signs, the Target stores not allowing the Salvation Army to "Ring the Christmas bells," and the many incidents of children, choirs, and bands not allowed to play or sing Christmas carols, I realized it was happening right here in my own little Texas town.

How can this be? Not Texas! We do, however, have a store, Hobby Lobby, that plays nothing but Christmas carols during the season. On Christmas Day they run a full page ad in our local newspaper. That ad is not to promote the store, but uses the entire page to tell the story of Jesus' birth. Now that's taking a stand. We need to thank them.

When I saw a news report the other evening of children being taught new words to a song we've sung for years - "We Wish You a Merry Christmas" was saddened to hear "We Wish You a Splendid Holiday."

I know now that it's just a matter of time that the "Merry Christmas" greetings will be gone. Look around your town. Notice the "Holiday" greetings and not "Christmas." It's happening right before our very eyes.

Start singing the songs; go down the streets of America singing to your heart's content. Get some of those wash-off markers that these kids use to write on their car windows when they're rooting for their hometown football team. It's easy to do, and if a torrential rain washes it off, write it on there again. We've got to get this message out. "Go Tell It On the Mountain . . . that Jesus Christ is Born." Sing it, speak it, be a billboard for our Lord. The story of this "Baby Jesus" alone has brought about more goodwill at this time of year than any other day we celebrate. How can we sit back and allow Him to be snuffed out of our lives?

Is it Jesus, or is it His followers that the "offended" don't like? What kind of revulsion galvanizes one to campaign so vehemently against the mere mention of His name, the mere singing of a carol, or the mere visual of a sign that says "Merry Christmas?"

I can listen to my own boss at work use some of the vilest words and follow up with, "Excuse my French." I may cringe inside at his damning of God's name, but I tolerate it. So if you don't like me wishing you a "Merry Christmas," I'll say, "Excuse my joy." You may cringe that I celebrate the birth of Jesus, but just tolerate it.

I cannot be concerned that "Merry Christmas" offends you. If I'm not careful, the day will come when saying I'm a Christian will offend you. I'm offended that you're offended. How about that?

When we get to a point that we can no longer take part in a tradition we hold dear, we have no choice; we either defend that tradition or we give it up to those who say NO. That's it . . . period. So, which will it be?

I'm not giving up my "Merry Christmas" joy to anyone. If I know of someone that celebrates another holiday during this time of year, I will be glad to wish them whatever holiday they want. Just tell me what it is and I'll shout it to the world and wish you a grand celebration.

Just give me Christmas. To you merchants: Stop being so hypocritical and "filling your tills" on the back of Jesus! Who do you think is the symbol of giving at this time of year? It was the wise men bringing gifts to the newborn Christ-child. You want your coffers full, but have ordered your employees to take down all the Merry Christmas signs. If that's the case, I'll buy gifts at a place that understands my joy.

If you're worried about offending someone, you just did. The most recent Newsweek survey shows that 82% of Americans believe that Jesus is the Son of God. So, in trying not to offend a few, you've offended many. It's okay to jump into the "Merry Christmas" spirit when it fills your cash register, but let's call it something else . . . and don't stop giving . . . and don't stop buying. . . we'll just change the name and you'll never know the difference." I know the difference and I'm feeling it greatly. It's hard not to be aware that townships across our country have actually banned the singing of Christmas carols because it might offend someone. And it's not just the religious songs; it's the secular ones too. No more "Jingle Bells" or "Rudolph, the Red-Nosed Reindeer" because they're associated with Christmas. Boy, aren't we getting sensitive?

If we're not celebrating Christmas for the hope it gives with the birth of our Savior . . . there is no hope!

I noticed a few years ago that we changed the name of Abraham Lincoln's and George Washington's birthday so as to be all inclusive regarding the Presidents. Hark, if we should recognize anyone as exceptional. Now it's called Presidents' Day. Well, if we're going to be so all inclusive, next month I'll have to refer to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Day as Civil Rights Leaders' Day. We don't want to exclude great Americans like Rosa Parks or Cesar Chavez, do we? And to think that Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton might be left out. We might need to change Mother's Day, Father's Day, and Grandparents' Day to All Parents' Day. Just lump them all together. It sounds ridiculous, doesn't it? So what's the difference?

My freedom to celebrate Christmas in the tradition of the Christian religion is as much my right as it is your right to be offended by it.

So what are we going to do? Did anyone hear me . . . what are we going to do?

Do we defend a person's right to go forward with a time tested tradition (how about 2000 years), or do we defend a person's right to end it all because they're offended? As long as we live in this great land and have the freedom to express ourselves and what we believe in, we will always offend someone. If we try to make everything right for everyone, we won't have anything for anyone.

May you always have Christmas in your heart!

[RustyAngeL]

Great post Keith..as usual. I still say Merry Christmas, and always will.

[ann2]

Keith , i agree with your post 100%.We christians have to stand up for the right to celebrate Christmass .if we dont keep saying it ,in time there will be no more public displayes of the birth of Jesus allowed.Merry Christmass to you and yours,joy to the world,and peace on earth.

[Guest yod]

Keith,

While I agree that you have the right to celebrate Jesus any way you want to, it's hard for me to get worked up over a myth.

This is like being a christian politician imo.

It's just not true that He was born on that date. Nor is it true that the magi were there at the manger and camels gathered around. It makes a nice story though.

I prefer saving my battles for things that are absolutely true. Yes, He was born and the angels proclaimed "Shalom on Earth...goodwill towards men" but I couldn't care less about defending the cultural christian tradition known as Christmas.

Do we really expect pagans to understand?

The only way to win that battle is to make more christians than there are non-christians. I'm all for that!!!

Not trying to be antagonistic though brother. Just offering another perspective on the whole "I'm gonna fight society in the name of Jesus" battle.

[Snow4JC]

Keith , i agree with your post 100%.We christians have to stand up for the right to celebrate Christmass .if we dont keep saying it ,in time there will be no more public displayes of the birth of Jesus allowed.Merry Christmass to you and yours,joy to the world,and peace on earth.

I agree! We christians have to stand up for the right to celebrate Jesus The Christ, before He is taken out of everything.

Joy to the World, Our Lord has come!

Snow4JC

[Can Do (Phil 4:13)]

Keith thanks!! I copied and posted this in a secular forum (Ebay Australia actually) so I thought I'd let you know. Hope it starts another interesting discussion where we can witness to the unsaved

[nebula]

While I agree that you have the right to celebrate Jesus any way you want to, it's hard for me to get worked up over a myth.

I totally understand and appreciate your point of view on this.

But consider this - it used to be that during December one could walk through the Mall or other stores and here Christmas carols (ones that spoke of Jesus).

Php 1:18 -

What then? Only that in every way, whether in pretense or in truth, Christ is preached; and in this I rejoice, yes, and will rejoice.

Maybe it wasn't much, but it always made my day to hear songs singing of Christ's birth and salvation being played in the secular world.

I miss this.

[Guest shiloh357]

Keith,

While I agree that you have the right to celebrate Jesus any way you want to, it's hard for me to get worked up over a myth.

This is like being a christian politician imo.

It's just not true that He was born on that date. Nor is it true that the magi were there at the manger and camels gathered around. It makes a nice story though.

I prefer saving my battles for things that are absolutely true. Yes, He was born and the angels proclaimed "Shalom on Earth...goodwill towards men" but I couldn't care less about defending the cultural christian tradition known as Christmas.

Do we really expect pagans to understand?

The only way to win that battle is to make more christians than there are non-christians. I'm all for that!!!

Not trying to be antagonistic though brother. Just offering another perspective on the whole "I'm gonna fight society in the name of Jesus" battle.

I hear you, bro.

It is true, that our modern nativity scenes and movies and other dramatic reproductions are a bit innaccurate.

But the point is not in defending those inaccuracies, but in standing up for the rights of believers to express their faith publicly. The inaccuracies are a different issue, and amount to nothing but an "in-house" debate.

The pagans may not understand Christmas, but that is not the point. The point is that they need to respect the rights of Christians to express their faith in Christ publicly at this season.

If we give this up, what is next? We have already given up so much ground it's insane. It is time to draw a line in the sand and tell the world, "no more."

If we allow Christmas to be put on the chopping block, then other religious holidays like Easter are next. After that, Jewish people will have to defend Hannukah. Right now, there are conservative nonbelieving Jews, like Don Feder for example, who are defending Christmas!! He is defending Christians' right to express their faith at Christmas.

[book_wirm]

Yeah...so....no one has tried to stop me from saying "Merry Christmas". If we're honest they haven't tried to stop you either. I try to understand sentiments like those expressed on the thread but I just don't see it. You're mad because the world will not solely recognize Christmas?

Christmas is not the only holiday celebrated during this time of year. Why are we surprised that those who do not believe Him to be the Christ also will not soley recognize His birth as the only legitimate "reason for the season"?

Just because you local burger-in-a-box doesn't wish you a "Merry Christmas" when you go to order your deep fat fried treat shouldn't in any way change what the season means to you...or how you celebrate it. If it does the problem lies with you, not the world.

In Christ,

Eric

[Scarletprayers]

Once again I feel caught between the "This is what we were told would happen" and the, but does that mean we just lay down now and let the world roll over us???