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I would not be so bold as to call him on it yet. I would first point it out to your family members and give them the chance to observe it for themselves. Unless you have a second WITNESS it is your word against his. Once you have two confirmed witnesses you can both confront him. I find that I now have a hatred for lies and adultery. Such things should not be allowed to persist. We are called to forgive those who REPENT. No matter how many times they ask for forgiveness we are to forgive them. We do not have to be shy about pointing out sin and calling it by its name. By no means should we IGNORE evil but in the name of God pluck it up like the weed it is. If indeed we do have love for a person we should be compelled to make such observations known to them. Again I say that you should not be alone in your observations but to have at least two witnesses. The two of you can then tell this person what you have observed that he may know that what he is doing has not gone unnoticed. If he is truly repentant he will seek Gods help in dealing with his sin. If he does not repent you should turn away from him and no longer associate with him. Its amazing how the truth of Gods word "rings" when we listen.

I am about to move to my new apartment today. I cannot sleep and I cannot get this situation out of my mind. Over two years ago I helped the son of a "friend of the familiy" get a job where I work. Since he made his 90 days he has been stealing time from the company in one fassion or another. Over these last two years I have made many observations and pointed them out to management. So much so that I am now the proverbial " boy who cried wolf ". Yesterday while management was tied up in meetings and anniversary dinner preparations, the same co-worker was at it again. He spent half an hour in the secretaries office sharing a pizza, later to leave the company property in his personal vehicle for an hour. Thats an hour and a half not working. In recent weeks he has been hiding his time card for obvious reasons. He just happened to leave his time card in his slot during the company dinner and I took a quick peek. He had not clocked out for lunch at all. This bothered me so much that I left the company dinner early. I wanted to pull the owner to the side and tell him everything. But, I did not want to ruin the dinner for anyone. I have been watching this kind of stuff going on for the last two years and every time I say something to management I am told I should mind my own buisiness. I like the company and would not be in any particular rush to leave were it not for this one co-worker. My immediate supervisor and the branch manager only want to sweep it under the rug and pretend its not happening. My question is: Should I ignore everything and keep doing my job until I can find a better one? Or should I go above the Managers heads and tell the VP or Owner? I don't wan't my co-worker fired, I only want management to pay closer attention and stop him from cheating the system. I took my problem to God in prayer tonight. I am hopefull it will all come out in the wash. I simply do not wish to loose my job for doing what I think is right.

See what I mean? So why pray-tell would anyone want a car that COULD do 140 mph when the maximum legal speed limit in the entire United States is 70mph? Don't you think if they concentrated on making cars more efficient rather than bigger and faster they might have actually accomplished something? Meanwhile they are giving countless BILLIONS of dollars of your taxes away to other countries. Part of this "aid" is given away in the form of military weaponry and technology. Its sad really. In the face of American Jobs going overseas, manufaturing and production jobs alike, and an educational system that is becoming increasingly obsolete, they continue to give your hard earned money to countries that squander it. I don't mean to seem greedy. I would prefer if our taxed were being used more efficiently. Sometimes I think our government, given the choice, would prefer to mine the moon, than to provide shelter, food and jobs to the people of our own nation.

Western Demand? What about China? I have no doubt that there are technologies that many governments have shelved that may soon find their way to production in the near future. I never considered it before but any technology that is brought into the open today is likely to be put in use world wide in a short time (if its any good). Just Imagine if the had a carburator that did get 100 miles to the gallon. What effect would that have on the world economy? THATS the way the Politicians think. Without world demand for something they control where would they get their MONEY?

Sounds like another way to waste tax-payers money. I can see where it might help in town. But as far as the interstate is concerned they might as well make cars that can't go faster than the speed limit? I personally can't understand making a car that can do 180 mph when the speed limit on most of Americas interstates are 70 mph. Do you think its possible they WANT you to speed since traffic fines ARE a part of each states income? My point is I don't need or wan't a car that can even do 120 mph if its illegal to drive it that fast in the first place.

I don't know how long this will take. But when its all said and done I have no doubts that Hamas will continue to kill Israelis. This "Palestine" state will have to be formed before the "peace treaty" can be signed. Three years atter that treat they will proclaim "PEACE, PEACE" and then sudden destruction. Like it or not, things will happen in a certain way as they were meant to. The most we can do is to keep planting the seeds by spreading the Gospel and love all unconditionaly.

How long, brother, do you think we have? How much longer do you think we have before an Islamic ruled country has a nuclear weapon? Once they have such a weapon how long do you think they will be able to resist waving it around or even using it? Even the govenments so called "think tanks" have calculated that we have less than 10 years before a nuclear weapon is used on a civilian population. So all the wars and rumors of wars, the earth quakes in various places, the death and famine are just coincidences? I can understand your not wanting to get "alarmed" and trying to use fear as a tool to bring people to Christ. But, would you have us ignore the obvious because those things are not "happy thoughts"?

Another 1000 years? Not even remotely likely. Were it not for Jesus going to the cross for us we would not even be having this discussion. In the time that Jesus was crucified only God could destroy the world. Now we can do that for ourselves. Its just a matter of time. With countries like North Korea and Iran racing to find a bigger stick to wave at their neighbors, how long do you think we really have?

I am glad she is not angry with you. I think some folks might take the "girlfriend" reference out of context. After I looked a little deeper I can see how this might pose a dilema for you. Understanding that you care about your friend I am sure you don't want to ruin any chance there might be to bring her to Christ. Perhaps har daughter will play a big part in cultivating the seeds that you have planted. I am sure when the time is right God will tug at her heartstrings to tip the balance as was with many of us when we ourselves were saved.

Your friend has a point. And we wonder why a large portion of our nation is seeking to remove symbols of God from their daily lives. I mean what have we as Gods representatives done for them? They certainly can't know Gods love for them or ours when we are too busy wagging our finger at them. I made a similar observation months ago. I could not comprehend how the Churches could spend so much time knocking on doors when, in truth, it was their aproach that was flawed. I am reminded how Christ collected so many followers. He did not chase them down wagging a scroll at them. He spoke to those that would listen. After a short time a crowd would gather. Soon many would speak about what he said and more would come. Obviously this can only work if what is being said is something people want to hear. My point is, we shouldn't have to SELL Gods love. We only need to get out there and give out samples.

I have recently found/noticed how easily I am brought to tears these days. Every time I am reminded how much I am loved, I think of how undeserving I am, and I cry. Its as much sadness as it is Joy. I know the things I have done and said and even after all that. My Father has not forsaken me. His loving me is that much more humbling. Its only in those moments when we can truly understand why we should love our enemies. Talk about humility. 1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. I miss the way I was as a child. I was a very emotional person. Over the years I could feel the love and life in me going numb as I succumb to the pattern of world being. I want to be a child again. I want my innocence back. Years ago a had an epiphany that lasted a week or so. I was very happy. I can honestly say I felt like a child again. I only wished I could share the feeling with others not unlike the way we wish we could share the Love we have for others. No words can describe it and if you put their hand to your heart they will not feel what you are feeling. We should be happy that our Father in Heaven knows what we feel for him. As Yomo said in another post....."is it just me?" How many of you can relate to feeling this way

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I understand what your feeling Yomo. Its a very hollow feeling. Like stepping away from the warmth of a campfire in the middle of winter. Some might compare it to driving into a tunnel from the bright warming sun at midday. Many of us as children felt this way when our parents would set us down for a moment, for one reason or another. Our Father in Heaven has not left you or forgotten you nor will he ever. Only when we are set down are we able to exercise our spiritual legs. I can tell you that my spiritual legs are just now strong that I can walk. But I have a HUGE smile on my face as I walk towards him. Think of the joy we will all feel when we are back in our Fathers arms. Never EVER doubt or question his love for you. Thats one thing that will never change. Your brother in Christ, Joly

I sounds like she did make the decission. More to the point, she made the most important decission of her life and chose wisely. I can only wish that I could have seen the light when I was so young. People seem to be unaware of how things were back when Christ walked the Earth. Though its rare now, girls were being married and having children at that age. Boys of that age were and do tend their own flocks of sheep and goats. I think her age is not as important as the decission she made. John 10:25 Jesus answered them, I told you, and ye believed not: the works that I do in my Father's name, they bear witness of me. 26 But ye believe not, because ye are not of my sheep, as I said unto you. 27 My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me: 28 And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand. 29 My Father, which gave them me, is greater than all; and no man is able to pluck them out of my Father's hand. 30 I and my Father are one The parents might not like it, but this is one decission that was never theirs to make.

I think I would be stretching it a bit to presume that these live8 groupies resemble the same kind of folks likey to be suckered into the Antichrists' rhetoric and lies. But the time is comming when, I have no doubt, the antichrist will mask his dark objective with a seemingly noble and worldly message. We must remain vigilant and aware so as not to be decieved into doing anything contrary to Gods will.

Thats actually sad. I fell into that trap as a teen. I never dressed like a mannequin but I did watch all my "friends" and imitate them. There is a guy at work who refuses to brush his hair when he gets up in the morning. I often offer him my comb and he says his hair is the style. Its quite sad. The folks adopting the outfit you put on a mannequin, no matter how ridiculous, lack any sense of individuality or good taste for that matter. I would like to here of other hilarious outfits you have put on a mannequin that people have tried out so naively.

"going to the mountain" days. I like that idea. A while back I keapt thinking how nice it would be to go to the park and sit under a tree reading or listening to the Bible on CD. But then I think how much more enjoyable it would be to have a few friends there with me. Either way I like the whole idea of getting away, even from the things of man, for a spell and give yourself over to him completely.

Its been nearly 9 months since our Lord and God saved me from myself. Delivered from my path of self destruction I have been freed from the bonds of almost all of my sinful habits and addictions. Having a large portion of my income restored to me as a result, I will soon be getting an apartment of my own. I am most thankful for all the blessings God bestowes upon me. I have been going to a Bible study twice a month since I was saved. My dilemma is that I would like to (feel the need to) study in groups more often. I am no longer even satisfied with my Sunday School class on a weekly basis. This being the case I am debating starting my own Bible study, possibly twice a week. I was hoping that some of you have your own Bible study groups already going and might have some advice to offer. Being a single man I am not sure if I should make a Singles Group or not. I understand that one of the local churches has a pretty good singles program going and I may try to participate in some of their funtions. But ultimately I am more interested in studying Gods word with others than shopping for a possible mate. I have no doubt that God will provide me with a worthy partner when he is ready. Anyhow, any advice comments or otherwise is greatly appreciated.

There are many errors in the NIV translation beyond what Bon22 has posted. But its not only the NIV that has discrepancies and uses words that deviate from the true meaning. In all the efforts to translate the Bible to modern language many mistakes have been made. Some are even of the opinion that these mistakes are possibly intentional. I would not recommend a "beginners Bible" as it were, but I would recommend diligent Bible study GROUPS. Your friend may also buy the KJV or NIV/NLT dvd bible at Wal-mart of all places. You can read along with the narator and pause when needed to make notes or highlight in your study Bible. I guess the version you begin with is not as important as ones devotion. The BEST and most important thing for a fledgling Christian is being with other Christians. Obviously fellowship cannot replace hard study, but knowledge is not wisdom, and we all need a regular dose of seeing the word at work in the lives of others. I wouldn't think too hard on what version is the best. Have faith that whatever version/translation you are reading , the Holy Spirit will be sure you see only the truth and you will not be able to be mislead when you trust yourself to his care. Your brother in Christ, Joly

I was just curious if anyone knows. As I understand it they feed steroids to the cows to make them grow bigger faster. If this is indeed the reason children these days are developing faster then couldnt it also be a major reason for obesity? Just thought I would throw that out there. Thats part of why I avoid red meat. I understand that that we have a place localy that I can buy meats that are GRAIN fed. I will have to see what thats like. I'll bet it tastes......NATURAL.

I am not a vegitarian, but I do respect what you hope to achieve in becoming one. My diet lately has been a roller coaster. I soon will be moving into an apartment of my own (without roommate) and will resume my new lifestyle. I still eat meat though I am trying to stick to fish and poultry. I love my steamed vegitables and even a couple hard boiled eggs once a week. I try to avoid fried foods (except french fries) as often as possible. I have found that I can now smell the grease in the food and can't bring myself to eat it. Many of my meals now consist of grilled meats and steamed vegies. My biggest vice right now are baked foods....I.E. Cake...cookies and the like. Once I resume my (optimistic) diet I will again be eating alot of popcorn and drinking alot of water. One tip! Try drinking a full glass/cup of water before each meal. It leaves less room to put food and will promote faster digestion and better absorbtion. It worked when I was in the military.

I do not have as much trouble with KJV as most and at times prefer it. I have also found some of the more modern translations a bit more in line with my interpritations of other translations. When I was first saved a promptly went out and bought an NIV. After reading some disturbing things about the translation I soon replaced it with a KJV. Being that my KJV has thumb tabs, it is usually the one I carry on Sunday and to Bible study sessions. I recently was awarded a gidt certificate to Barnes and Noble with which I went and bought yet another version. I looked at several different translations when I found two that I liked. I decided to compare the two translations and so I picked a verse and turned to it in both. Both were easy to read and translated similarly. I was partial to one but was still unable to decide. I put them both up and shopped around. I went back twice more to read from the translation I had chosen. Each time I went to read from this bible I turned directly to a chapter in Mathew I believe. I vaguely remember what the chapter pertained to. It was about maturing in Christ and assuming our place in the body. I was quite moved by it, especialy after having turned directly to it twice after having set the book down twice. I took it as a hint and bought it. This translation has to be the most straight forward and basic bible I have found. Its called the Every Day Study Bible - New Century Version. Take your friend to shop for one and let him/them chose. Thanks be to God that your friend has seen the light. I am thankful every time I witness the spirit moving in someone. It gives me hope as I battle to purge my life of sinfull behaviors.

Just think how interesting it will be when video phones "arrive". We have phones that take pictures. Shouldn't be long now. Maybe then they will finally outlaw them while driving. No doubt thousands of people will have to die as a result before lawmakers find a need to outlaw them. When I was stationed in Spain i was told that the "Guardia Civil" (police) could shoot first and ask questions later and that drinking ANYTHING while driving was illegal. I tell you, at this point I will be happy when SUV's go the way of the DoDo. These vehicular monstrosities don't belong on the road. I drive a full sized car and still I am fearfull that somone will run me down because they were too preoccupied with their cell-phone. These days I finbd myself counting the number of people i see chatting on the cell phone while I am at red lights. At least once a day I see one of these same people blow through a red light trying to catch the yellow. The way I see it. All I can do is pray these people will be blessed with more sense that they might understand the risks they are taking.

I have noticed that some people think that Hell is the "lake of fire". I am still puzzled when people confuse the two. How can Hell be the lake of fire and yet thrown into the "lake of fire. Revelation 20:14

A month or so ago we had this same discussion in Sunday School. One of my classmates said she thought of herself and those with whom she fellowships as Holy. She proceeded to reference many of the verses used in the very same thread. I find myself troubled when my own thoughts do not sync with what the Bible is thought to be saying. This was one of those topics that troubled me. I cannot in good faith practice or promote any doctrine that I do not feel right about. I do not see how we can see ourselves as Holy and still remain humble. This same precept is applied when Jesus spoke to the blind man and said: John 9:39