I am firm about what I believe. But I am not so close-minded that I can't see and understand and appreciate another persons point of view. Have I changed my views and opinions with time and experience and age, or "flip-flopped" as you put it- yes but I don't go back and forth with the wind or to please people. I think, consider and study the issue, whether Biblical, moral. political and come to point of view or call it a draw.