Hello Jrc, I hope you are enjoying your time here and have found the members to be friendly and helpful. I think I understand the basis of your question, and thus I am going to take a politicians approach and ask another question in lieu of the answer. What is it exactly that you seek? The reason I ask this question is very simple; God answers questions proposed to Him - remember God may not answer instantly...this is a great misconception; God answers when He feels the time is right. I will offer you a little advice too; over-analyzing situations can do more harm than good. When one over-analyses, one tends to overlook the true meaning of a situation and manipulates it to suit one's reasoning - I know this because I too am guilty of such. As hard as it may appear, keep an open mind and allow God to take the wheel and guide you in the right direction. Although this may not have answered your question, I hope you have found the information somewhat helpful and intriguing.