Amen, so many of us try to appear perfect before God and in the sight of others as well, but as we know in our hearts ... We are not!
God gives us the free will and choice to come to Him and open our heart to him even though He can see all that is in it already.
Though, by doing so, and making that 3 word statement that we just have so much trouble admitting... "I was wrong". And allowing the Lord to forgive us through our confession brings an unbelievable freedom to us.
I believe true maturity is coming directly to God in our weaknesses and failures unashamed and openly admitting the wrongs we have done after the convition of the Holy Spirit reveals it to us. By doing so, we actually propell ourselves further into the blessings of God and make those days, months, and years of going around the mountain, shorten drastically!
As soon as we are convicted of a wrongful doing we should immediately go to throne of God and repent and ask for forgiveness.
That is where true freedom in Christ is experienced.
Freedom from condemnation, guilt, and shame!