Shalom brothers & sisters,
We say “bless you” to each other a lot. But what is that exactly? Blessing the person is blessing them with… what? Um, blessings… Erm.. Nondescript from God… Err, you know, just a nice…. blessing.
I think blessing is actually giving selfishly, caring for someone or even just listening to them. You can bless a person with a gift, by doing something for them or helping them with something. We associate blessings with miracles, but that's how Yahweh blesses. As for us, we can give and help selfishly and freely out of love.
Maybe we have inherited our Father’s traits of being able to ‘make things be’ with our words. After all, we are created in His image. We can surely give someone a good day, helpful advice or make them smile with just words - so surely we can give our creative words to God as well.
So, why do we say “bless you God”? Aren't we just saying that to God without giving Him anything? But what can we give or do for the Master of the Universe? We can give him thanks, appreciation, recognition, words of love, adoration and share our thoughts with Him. These things we can give the Father freely and out of love, which He wouldn't have otherwise. We can “bless” Him with our words. Not giving him a gift per se, but our love creatively.
The sacrifices of the patriarchs and in the Levitical system were a gift to God. Not that He needed it, but it was the free will offering itself that counted. Have we stopped giving gifts when we just say “bless you God” instead of actually offering a true sacrifice of praise?
Well, what about when we say “bless you” to our brothers and sisters? “Bless you” and then no gift or warm, personal words to help. How is that a blessing? I think we have fallen into a bad and lazy habit here. Saying “bless you” or “blessings” does reflect our heart intention, but it fails to actually bless someone. We may as well say to each other “hope God looks out for you!”.
Instead of saying “blessing”, as if we're calling them down from God, we should DO the blessings for each other. We should give to each other, speak loving encouraging and personal words to each other, share each others burdens - physically and mentally. That's a blessing.
“Blessed is he…” the Messiah says in the beatitudes. That is to say, Yahweh will reward him with life, peace and fullness. That's a blessing.
So maybe next time we see a friend instead of saying “bless you”, we should say “is there anything I can do to help you?” or “it's such a joy to see you again!”.
Love & Shalom