There are multiple interpretations held within Christianity on this subject, with scholarly work on it. But that’s all besides the point if you’re wanting to know how to put it behind you.
The first thing to know is that there is nothing wrong with you. Sexuality is a combination of nature and nurture. Everyone finds people attractive. You can’t really control who you find attractive anymore than choose what foods you like or what music you prefer. So don’t beat yourself up over it.
So I’m a heterosexual man. I don’t have any desires to be with a guy in a romantic or sexual way. I have no issues with the LGBT community and have friends who are in that faith, and friends who are Christians with thOse orientations.
So while we can’t control who we find attractive, we can control how we react. I see woman who at every pretty all the time. I see women who sometimes I want to look at. But I make the choice not too. I’ve disciplined myself to be more motivated by my principles than by my emotions or desires. You train yourself in what you want. Learn to not objectify men , or woman for that fact. Just because I’m attracted to women does not mean I can’t rose about it and have female friends. I’m happily engaged, and I still have female friends who are very important to me. So make friends. Don’t worry if you find them attractive or not. Don’t let your fantasies run away. Don’t objectify them. Develop the skills you need for for life