carant2000_2001

Bless your heart, honey you do whats right! Maybe your parents dislike this so much because deep down they know the way they are living is wrong and your life and love of God makes them unable to ignore it! God loves you so much lostgirl and he is there waiting, just call his name. you should pray for your parents that God will send someone to help you witness to them . christians have always been hated by the world Jesus Christ was spat on, beat and called names, but still he loved them. God will give you the strength. If your church doesn't except you find another, seek the help of the pastor, your family(christian family) should love and pray for you. But stay in the faith, pray and fellowship with other christian. the devil will use everything he can to get you away from God don't let him win. read your Bible daily. in my prayers, in Christ, carolyn

i agree you should call and report the man. as far as putting your mail on the chair, i was told that they are not allowed to put mail anywhere but the box. something to do with federal laws.

Cutie pie i agree with Duane65, you have to let go and let God. Just give it to God and claim the victory. Christ already paid, give it to God. Make sure you read the word of God. God bless you, in my thoughts and prayer, Carolyn

2 corinthians 6:14 read eph 5

cutiepie, the lord will always be there for you. satan lies,he tries to make you feel guilty, really to separate you from fellowship with other christians, the bible is our sword our written word from the lord above. praise the Lord God above. think when you are talking to christians you are talking to family,your family in Christ. your friends(family) love you with the love of the Lord. God Bless You carolyn

thank you for your prayers god bless

thank you i believe God led me to this site because i needed to talked to fellow christians. i know that i had had a great release just talking to you all. thanks for all the love prayers and all your thoughts. God bless

If you are married to an unbelieving spouse here is what 1 Corinthians 7:12-15 says: 12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. 13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. and you also ty again God bless 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy. 15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hi thank you my husband lives a life apart from us because he chose to. i didnt ask him to leave. and do believe that i worked hard,to save our marriage but i cant put the kids though this anymore. my son is 15, he needs a father to talk to that listens to him. my son has a very tender spirit. my husbands answer to every problem is physical and emotional abuse towards him. my weight has soared in the past years my fault i know. now that he has left i have emotional times when i miss him so very much. but i pray for comfort of God to see me though those times. thank you for the verses. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> You are very welcome! I have been in a similiar situation. So, I really do understand what you are going through. May the Lord bless you & your children with much peace & joy. <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

If you are married to an unbelieving spouse here is what 1 Corinthians 7:12-15 says: 12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. 13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy. 15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hi thank you my husband lives a life apart from us because he chose to. i didnt ask him to leave. and do believe that i worked hard,to save our marriage but i cant put the kids though this anymore. my son is 15, he needs a father to talk to that listens to him. my son has a very tender spirit. my husbands answer to every problem is physical and emotional abuse towards him. my weight has soared in the past years my fault i know. now that he has left i have emotional times when i miss him so very much. but i pray for comfort of God to see me though those times. thank you for the verses.

i thank you for your thoughts, my husband is not a christian. we have tried to show him that he does need God. his reply is i am not a christian i am catholic tried to explain christian means christ like,but no go he believes their some difference. the last 17 years of my life have been rough but i thinking like you thought this is what God wants for me. thus is why i feel i have failed but not because i didnt try but because he never got the relationship with God i hoped for. my children are the best thing that came out of my marriage. my husband has been seeing someone else he is riding to work with her. i dated 2 years before we married and my mother who is now deceased tried to tell me that he would never change, so i had to prove her wrong,needless to say she was right i was to blind to see. i love my children very much and they believe very much in God. we pray daily and their dad is on their minds. but i am proud that my children turned out the way they did they will be strong believers. no i do not put my children in the middle of this he is still their father and why he is doing this i dont know but blaming him, never enter my mind. i believe that marriage is between two people who become one but that is two christian i tried to change him. i couldnt he has the seeds that were planted by me and my children not to mention the other christians friends he always thought were nuts. you know i came here for comfort because i believe that God ment for us to fellowship, i've never been to a chat room before this one. but i will say this has made me open up. i am very sad i feel like my husband didnt care for us, you see you only got part of what i am going thru in july my husband left, my bills are no longer being paid by him thus my children and i are going with out the things you take for granted do i want you to feel sorry for me no. we have no air conditioning because july 31st it went out we have no washer because its now not working, its cold now guess what no heat either. but you know what i get a check next month my first disabilty check and even though we will be behind i have faith enough that God is going to be there for us even though my husband is not. so no i am not blaming him. i am hurt that when i needed him he was not here. thank you again for listening.

thank you all for giving me the time to talk and thank you for your prayers

ink spot, not sure if i am qualified to give advice but this i do know at 15, i think you should be praying for Gods guidance in life. and dont worry when that special person God has in mind for you comes along you'll know because you eyes are on the lord above. some look at what we want in life not what God wants for us, give it time you need time to grow in the lord, and be willing to wait upon him. know that God knows you are his child and he wants good things for you. may God bless you

the tranmissiom went out on my car, without a job was unable to fix, husband refuses to pay bills, we are struggling, but i do believe everything happens for a reason. no to answer your question we are not attending church the moment we live in the country and everything is far away, but i am trusting that we are in Gods hands. my children are ready to go back to church, we still pray all the time and ask for his guidance in this time. its hard not having someone to talk to though. i answer questions that my kids ask if i know the answer but how do you get my question answered i love God and thought our marriage would last.

i am divorcing after 17 years, my children are with me. i love their dad very much but i am so hurt, that he wants the divorce. the children on the other hand i think feel at ease about it. you see many years we tried to get him to go to church with us,and he did a few times. but all though the years he has always been really hatefull toward my son not my daughter, he hated when anyone tried to show attention to my son, but he never would so my son now 15 thought my husband hated him. i never found that out till last smmer we were discussing something and this poped right out why does dad hate me so much, my reply was he doesnt he loves you, he said mom you love me. we were talking after my husband left he has he said he doesnt care if he ever see him again that ripped my heart out. i told him he will always be your dad and he does love you very much. he only 15 and to have this much pain, where was i. i am sorry to keep going on i am hurting and i need to talk. thank you all for listening.

i feel like i have failed. my husband of 17 years has decided he wants a divorce we did everything together we have two really great kids, but i lost my job in jan2005, i have stood by him in alot of though times. we began arguing about finances ect... dont know what i want just need to talk