This is Dadofblondies wife, I'm hoping I can offer some help and encouragement here. I'm a very proud Momma of 5 here myself and I went through this not long ago myself. I also thought God was leading me to have more children, when infact, he was teaching me the viable lesson of submissiveness to my husband. This is one of those areas that you are going to have to pray long and hard about. For yourself first for God to show you what he needs from you here and second that God works on your DH's heart. Your desire for more children may not exactly be God asking you to have more children. Knowing that your husband has said no more children, that would mean that God would be going against His own Word and from what I know of God he doesn't do that. God never asks us to serve two masters, He will work it out. God is clear about wives being submissive to their own husbands, not sometimes, or when we want to, but in everything, so if DH says no more children, we have to listen to our hubby's. It's heartbreaking to do that sometimes, but God does know best. The best you can do is pray for your DH's heart to be changed to His way and pray for God to use you the way he wants to use you.