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I am sorry for your loss... One thing, it doesn't take but just a minute to ask GOD to save you... Who knows in the last few minutes of his life, that he didn't ask... Just comfort yourself with that... I lost a brother at 35 from a massive heart attack, and I wondered about him... But he lived, though in a coma for 10 days before he died....Who knows what transpired before he died.... We can hope.... God bless you and yours... Not to give you false hope, but we really can't say what happens in a person's heart and soul.... Some that we "just know" are saved, maybe not be...

Thank you all for your responses. I agree that kissing can lead to other things and quickly if it is allowed to. I think it is a sweet way for a couple to show affection to each other, but I think it has to be with caution... I realize that passion can flair quickly when you really love someone... GOD bless you each one... riel, I love your username. Great choice.

A friend of mine sent me this quesion to ask here. She said she was in a discussion with other Christian singles recently and the subject of kissing came up. One person stated he felt kissing before marriage was as wrong as premarital sex. What do you think about it? I agree with my friend that Kissing is just a way for a dating man and woman to show affection to each other. Now we agree that you have to be careful not to put yourself into a situation where kissing leads to other things. But I'm not talking about going that far. I'm interested in your thoughts. We also agree that kissing on a first date with a stranger is not a good idea, but it it's someone that you've known a long time there isn't anything wrong with it...Thanks.

Thank you very much HIS girl... I am really praying about this, and about the timing to talk to him... I feel it will be soon and I'll know one way or the other. Thank you for your kind replies and your prayers.

Thank you very much HIS girl... I am really praying about this, and about the timing to talk to him... I feel it will be soon and I'll know one way or the other. Thank you for your kind replies and your prayers.

I have to share this with you all since I had shared all the other stuff... I saw Jay, Saturday night, and we hugged and spoke... He (sings professonally--gospel) was busy with other people, so I went and sat down and waited for him to free up, I knew he would come to me... As he started over to where I sat, someone stopped him and he stood and talked to them... As they moved on, our eyes met, and he smiled the sweetest, most beautiful smile I've ever seen, (and he has a beautiful smile) and happiness and love just bubbled out all over him... The look on his face and in his eyes for me, was enough to make me swoon... He came straight to me and touched my arm and was going to sit next to me, when someone else caught his attention. I've known Jay for a lonnnnnnggggg time, and I've never seen love like I saw on him Sat. night... I was the object of that look and that love.... It was like he couldn't stop it, it just came bubbling out all over him... In his voice---every way... I've never seen any thing like that from him before... BUT, I sure want to see it again... I had on an outfit that he particuliarly likes, so I know he thought I looked good... Yall just keep helping me pray that it won't be too long... Thanks, I'll update ya as I can...

Aw, you're so right, I would have loved it, and you did great telling it... Thanks for sharing it with me. I do seek God, and I do put him first in my life. The love of my heart does too, I guess I'm just tired of waiting even though things are so much better with us. I'm ready now, and he says he is. SO what's the hold up? I guess only God can answer that. Thanks for all your replies.

Wow, what a wonderful testimony..... Ain't GOD good???? That was awesome... Thank you for sharing that, as I needed to hear the first thing written on the sticky note... GOD does NOT lie... WHOO HOO thank you, Ineeded that right this minute... Double duty is what your friend did... Helped YOU and helped me!!!!!

Rudy190, I really would like to have seen that, but for some reason, my system will not load... It just rolls and rolls and rolls... I can't watch anything on YouTube or any type of video... It sounds like it is something that I would really appreciate.... I've longed for a husband and family since I was a little girl... I can remember playing "house" with my dolls and all. I was fortunate to have a large room that was built for me, that was my playhouse... It was "MY HOUSE" and my parents have told me many times how I would talk about "My Husband." I try not to get ahead of GOD, but I am tired of waiting... I have met someone who I love with all my heart, and he allows me so close, and then he backs off.... GOD is IN this relationship, so I'm just waiting to see where it goes....

Cynthia McKinney does many stupid things to bring attention to HER!! I'm sorry about the supplies that didn't get to where they should have... Why was she even on board???

I thank you every one for your replies.... I will keep you updated... I feel really good about Jay and me now... It's been a long time coming, but many things have happened and there had to be healing to take place for both of us. And it is happening...

Jay told me he loved me, with NO prompting from me... We talked via email about two or three hours.. I feel much better about us now... much better.. Praise the Lord....

That is one of my pet peeves... It doesn't take but a minute to say, I'm praying. Instead of just the little smilie. That's not a personal against anyone..

I've seen my love several time recently and it's been good every time. Not only when we are together, but after we've gone our separate ways, we've talked on the phone, or emailed every day. I do praise the Lord for that... He knows the true desires of my heart.

Yes I believe that we can have this line of communication between each other as human beings, and with God in the spiritual realm. I can't explain why we don't get a instant answer when we pray or we immediately know what to do in a given situation, that is something I truly would like to know. I can tell when something is wrong with someone that I love, and not have talked to him for days. We live several hours apart but I know when something is going on that isn't right. It amazes us that I can sense that. We just have a spiritual bond that I've never shared with anyone before. With the Lord, we should have that same Spiritual Bond and if we don't we aren't walking where we should be. Or there is something that is hindering that bond... This is just my opinion. Be interesting to read what more Bible based scholars have to say.

Actually ROC, this is what I have been telling my friend. I am basically a happy person, and I don't "need" anyone to "make" me happy, but he adds to it. He completes that part, that I am not. I stay active where as my friend (that sent the email) stays at home and on her computer ALL the time. When she's not at work, or at church, she's on the computer. She has no real friends to go out with and to do things with. We don't live close to each other. Not even from her church. She is shy, but so was I at one time. I love people and I am very out going and I try to stay busy where life doesn't get me down. I stay close to the Lord, as best as I can anyway, but days like today do get to me. Most of the time I am content where I am and what I'm doing, but I am getting impatient. Sorry, but that's the truth......... I am very considerate of his time, and I don't ask for more, than he can give. I am not asking for that. He is a very busy businessman minister and I know he has a lot of demands on his time. I'm not demanding, but I would very much like a litte of his time. It doesn't have to be much, just to know that I am important to him, and that he is thinking of me.

I ask myself this a lot. I pray about it everyday. If it's not going to happen, I'm ready to move on. I've walked out of his life once, and God brought our paths back together, so I don't know what to think. When we are together, he acts like I'm the love of his life. Actually, in the last six months, things have definitely changed for the better for us, so maybe I just need to hold on a little while longer. This is one reason I want to hear from him today.

Yes, she is a Christian, just a discouraged one... She is in late 50's, and none of her family seems to have time for her anymore. She helped her mother for several years before she died and now she just wants a home with the man that she loves. She's got her head on straight and she's careful about what she does, she's just as I said discouraged... Even though she has given it to the Lord, it's still hard to wait, when she's waited for so long already. And I for one really can understand that. This is something that she and I have very much in common. I pray for her and with her, but I know exactly where she's coming from.

I got this in an email, but in some ways it describes me also. I thought I'd ask you all what you thought.. Why does love seem to pass you by, day after day, month after month, years after years

Thank You ALL for your advice.... I did approve her to be my friend, but I can't help but be cautious... I will never trust her like I did at one time... I have confronted her, talked to her, prayed with her, and for her, but nothing has gotten through... I've just put it in GOD'S hands, and let him work it out... Once again THANKS!

Since when are children allowed to miss school for religious activities????? Will this count against them??? I just imagine if one of say a Protestant child wanted to miss to attend a Protestant event, there will be all kinds of red tape, and probably a disciplinary action... That stinks!!!! A Christmas play in January????? Who ever heard of such a thing????

I think you're right... I just never had thought about that... I know there is only one unforgivable sin, and that is blasphemy against the Holy Ghost... Thanks for pointing that out for me tonight... Much appreciated... That perfect world that I've read somewhere else on here tonight... Praise GOD!!!!

I hope I am putting this in the correct place... It's a blog written by a friend... Monday, December 01, 2008 Lying Hurts I wonder why people think that it's so necessary to lie to others... WHAT do they think it will accomplish??? Are they weak and just can't face the truth or just don't want to admit it?? Don't they realize it hurts the one they lie to??? Don't they take the other person into consideration AT ALL!!! Maybe the truth will hurt, but hearing the truth sets us free... It lets us know where we stand with someone, or in a situation... A lie gives false hope and I think that is so wrong... I would rather someone spit in my face, than to lie to me... YET those same people EXPECT YOU to be truthful to them... It sounds like a double standard to me... Which side of the fence post do I stand on???? Which side of the truth do I give???? I try with ALL my might to be honest with everyone that I know, and in all things and in all situations...When I have to tell someone the truth about something that I know will hurt them, I try to do it in a manner that lets them know, that it hurts me too... It does hurt me to have to tell the truth sometimes, but I don't want them to come back to me and say that I lied... I take what people tell me as truth, until I find out that I've been lied to... That kind of begans to whittle away my respect for them too... Maybe no one else experiences this kind of thing, but I sure do... From many different people, from many different walks of life... NO one it seems is immune to doing it... I hate IT !!!!! NO, I despise it... I worry about their walk with GOD... GOD says there will not be any liars in Heaven, what does he mean you think??? That they aren't saved, or will they just not be allowed in??? Quite a thought there???? Just my mussings today...

A perfect world!!!!!! What an awesome picture..... We have so much to look forward to, don't we???? Praise the LORD!!!!!!

Old slewfoot isn't going to make it easy for Christians... He is going to make it as difficult as possible...IF he can stop the spread of GOD'S word, that's as good as he would have it... We have to remain strong and stay in the word and continue to do what we can for the LORD... TIME is drawing near, and we have such little time... GOD bless you all!!