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I have a really good friend that is going out with a boy three years younger than he. She is 18....

She loves God and lives everyday by the bible, and tries to be a good example of Jesus. The boy she is going out with, he also loves God, and lives for God. His dad is a minister.

Is it wrong? This boy is the same age as her little brother.

I dont know. I dont know if I should say anything

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I don't see a problem unless they're getting physical with one another.

Right

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It isn't up to you to say anything at all its between her and her parents and if they are ok with it and if his parents are fine with it then thats all that matters.

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I'm going to second Mizzdy here, stephobell. It's not your place to say anything here but ....well, I hate to state the obvious (but I will). If, at any point, this becomes more than a platonic relationship your friend becomes a child molester and could go to jail. It doesn't matter that she is only three years older; she's an adult and he's a child. You might mention this to her if you can do it in a nonconfrontational way. Humans will be humans and our biological urges are powerful things (God made us this way to ensure than man would 'be fruitful and multiply'.)

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I don't see a problem unless they're getting physical with one another.

Man covered it pretty well, the key word is physical and that is a place your friend should not want to go.

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thanks all. I dont think they will get physical, not until they get married :) if they get married :-S

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