sheya joie Posted February 17, 2011 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 13 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 2,054 Content Per Day: 0.29 Reputation: 351 Days Won: 2 Joined: 03/15/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted February 17, 2011 Brother, walk away and walk away now. Then wait and see, but don't get any more involved. This thing has already pulled you off track to a degree, in that you felt forced to lie, I told her I wanted them to make it if at all possible and that I had been praying for them before they got back together (though I was honestly praying she would have enough sense not to go back to him lol) and I would continue to be praying What is God to make of that? No judgment RGR, just an observation from someone far removed (sometimes with advice, a good place to be). Walk away and pray while you wait. Blessings (and I really mean that) Fez, you misunderstood. I wasn't praying for them to get back together, but I was praying for them....a huge difference. No, Fez knew that's what you were praying for. The problem is in the way you phrased it to her - you said it in such a way that she could (and probably did) interpret it as you were praying for them to get back together. That's the lie Fez was concerned about. And consider - if she thinks you were praying for them to get back together and then the reconciliation goes bad again - she may not feel like she can trust you, thinking you want them together. But, yeah, like ladypear said, be very cautious to keep all your time around your coworker very very public. Edited to add: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RGR Posted February 17, 2011 Group: Royal Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 512 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 8,601 Content Per Day: 1.13 Reputation: 125 Days Won: 2 Joined: 07/16/2003 Status: Offline Birthday: 12/04/1973 Author Share Posted February 17, 2011 Brother, walk away and walk away now. Then wait and see, but don't get any more involved. This thing has already pulled you off track to a degree, in that you felt forced to lie, I told her I wanted them to make it if at all possible and that I had been praying for them before they got back together (though I was honestly praying she would have enough sense not to go back to him lol) and I would continue to be praying What is God to make of that? No judgment RGR, just an observation from someone far removed (sometimes with advice, a good place to be). Walk away and pray while you wait. Blessings (and I really mean that) Fez, you misunderstood. I wasn't praying for them to get back together, but I was praying for them....a huge difference. No, Fez knew that's what you were praying for. The problem is in the way you phrased it to her - you said it in such a way that she could (and probably did) interpret it as you were praying for them to get back together. That's the lie Fez was concerned about. And consider - if she thinks you were praying for them to get back together and then the reconciliation goes bad again - she may not feel like she can trust you, thinking you want them together. But, yeah, like ladypear said, be very cautious to keep all your time around your coworker very very public. Edited to add: Okay, I see your point. I didn't intend it as a lie by any means but I see how it could be misconstrued. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 18, 2011 Share Posted February 18, 2011 Very Scary Stuff But I Know Someone.... Praying~! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RGR Posted February 18, 2011 Group: Royal Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 512 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 8,601 Content Per Day: 1.13 Reputation: 125 Days Won: 2 Joined: 07/16/2003 Status: Offline Birthday: 12/04/1973 Author Share Posted February 18, 2011 Very Scary Stuff But I Know Someone.... Praying~! Thanks, Joe!!! I know that Someone also and I know the best thing to do is turn the situation to Him!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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