anitarose Posted November 9, 2010 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 65 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1,066 Content Per Day: 0.16 Reputation: 26 Days Won: 0 Joined: 08/15/2006 Status: Offline Birthday: 02/02/1961 Author Share Posted November 9, 2010 at any rate, I am going to be "nice" to him...kill him with kindness, so to speak....make him feel guilty for, well....whatever he's supposed to feel guilty for.... Well I no longer have to worry about whatever he is to me, cause it's OVER....he's looking at getting a job with Raytheon on the polar ice cap. If he wants to get that far away from me, well I guess I ain't worth having....so I guess I'm single again...sigh.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swsavedbygrace Posted November 9, 2010 Group: Junior Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 5 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 100 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/07/2010 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/18/1984 Share Posted November 9, 2010 at any rate, I am going to be "nice" to him...kill him with kindness, so to speak....make him feel guilty for, well....whatever he's supposed to feel guilty for.... Well I no longer have to worry about whatever he is to me, cause it's OVER....he's looking at getting a job with Raytheon on the polar ice cap. If he wants to get that far away from me, well I guess I ain't worth having....so I guess I'm single again...sigh.... hold the phone!!! Back yourself up! I don't want to hear you say your not worth havin .. ya hear?! You ARE most definitely worth having hun. If he doesn't see that than he isn't worth having and doesn't deserve you. Besisdes ... if you mean so much and are so valuable to God .. don't you think He wants you with someone who will see your worth??? I know God has better for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anitarose Posted November 9, 2010 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 65 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1,066 Content Per Day: 0.16 Reputation: 26 Days Won: 0 Joined: 08/15/2006 Status: Offline Birthday: 02/02/1961 Author Share Posted November 9, 2010 at any rate, I am going to be "nice" to him...kill him with kindness, so to speak....make him feel guilty for, well....whatever he's supposed to feel guilty for.... Well I no longer have to worry about whatever he is to me, cause it's OVER....he's looking at getting a job with Raytheon on the polar ice cap. If he wants to get that far away from me, well I guess I ain't worth having....so I guess I'm single again...sigh.... hold the phone!!! Back yourself up! I don't want to hear you say your not worth havin .. ya hear?! You ARE most definitely worth having hun. If he doesn't see that than he isn't worth having and doesn't deserve you. Besisdes ... if you mean so much and are so valuable to God .. don't you think He wants you with someone who will see your worth??? I know God has better for you Look, time is running out for me. By the time God gives me someone, I likely won't be worth having; certainly not to have a child with...sigh... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nebula Posted November 9, 2010 Group: Royal Member Followers: 10 Topic Count: 5,823 Topics Per Day: 0.75 Content Count: 45,870 Content Per Day: 5.94 Reputation: 1,897 Days Won: 83 Joined: 03/22/2003 Status: Offline Birthday: 11/19/1970 Share Posted November 9, 2010 I've been single my whole life, never really had a boyfriend. I've dealt with the frustration by considering the positives of being single . . . especially when I hear the guy vs. girl jokes and husband vs. wife jokes. Boy do those make me glad I'm single!!!! Praying for the peace of God over your heart in this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 9, 2010 Share Posted November 9, 2010 Amen! Praying! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheya joie Posted November 9, 2010 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 13 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 2,054 Content Per Day: 0.29 Reputation: 351 Days Won: 2 Joined: 03/15/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted November 9, 2010 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swsavedbygrace Posted November 9, 2010 Group: Junior Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 5 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 100 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/07/2010 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/18/1984 Share Posted November 9, 2010 at any rate, I am going to be "nice" to him...kill him with kindness, so to speak....make him feel guilty for, well....whatever he's supposed to feel guilty for.... Well I no longer have to worry about whatever he is to me, cause it's OVER....he's looking at getting a job with Raytheon on the polar ice cap. If he wants to get that far away from me, well I guess I ain't worth having....so I guess I'm single again...sigh.... hold the phone!!! Back yourself up! I don't want to hear you say your not worth havin .. ya hear?! You ARE most definitely worth having hun. If he doesn't see that than he isn't worth having and doesn't deserve you. Besisdes ... if you mean so much and are so valuable to God .. don't you think He wants you with someone who will see your worth??? I know God has better for you Look, time is running out for me. By the time God gives me someone, I likely won't be worth having; certainly not to have a child with...sigh... You will always be worth having at any age friend! I am praying for you. You may not believe me but I'm right in saying you are of great worth in God's eyes, to your family and friends .. and that is what is important. A man doesn't define you. Like Neb said .. there are so many good things to being single. My younger sister feels worthless and feels like she has to have a man .. and it breaks my heart! We as women shouldn't have to feel this way. I am also praying God gives you peace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swsavedbygrace Posted November 9, 2010 Group: Junior Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 5 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 100 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/07/2010 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/18/1984 Share Posted November 9, 2010 Here's a thought I just had .. earlier you mentioned joining a convent ... instead of wanting to run away and hide ... why don't you just take your own journey at home? Start drowning yourself in God .. reading the Scriptures , praying, listening, worshiping ... spend as much time as you can with Him. You could set a certain length for your journey or just dive into Him and see how long the journey lasts (just a thought) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RGR Posted November 11, 2010 Group: Royal Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 512 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 8,601 Content Per Day: 1.13 Reputation: 125 Days Won: 2 Joined: 07/16/2003 Status: Offline Birthday: 12/04/1973 Share Posted November 11, 2010 *sniffs underarms* No, no stinkie!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wyguy Posted November 11, 2010 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 373 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 3,331 Content Per Day: 0.59 Reputation: 71 Days Won: 10 Joined: 10/15/2008 Status: Offline Birthday: 12/24/1965 Share Posted November 11, 2010 at any rate, I am going to be "nice" to him...kill him with kindness, so to speak....make him feel guilty for, well....whatever he's supposed to feel guilty for.... Well I no longer have to worry about whatever he is to me, cause it's OVER....he's looking at getting a job with Raytheon on the polar ice cap. If he wants to get that far away from me, well I guess I ain't worth having....so I guess I'm single again...sigh.... hold the phone!!! Back yourself up! I don't want to hear you say your not worth havin .. ya hear?! You ARE most definitely worth having hun. If he doesn't see that than he isn't worth having and doesn't deserve you. Besisdes ... if you mean so much and are so valuable to God .. don't you think He wants you with someone who will see your worth??? I know God has better for you Look, time is running out for me. By the time God gives me someone, I likely won't be worth having; certainly not to have a child with...sigh... Look. A woman's worth has nothing to do with whether she can have children or not. It's not her looks either. It truly is what is inside. It's her heart - her personality. All women reach a point when they can no longer have children, and looks always fade - no matter how much one invests in plastic surgery. My idea of a real woman is not some skinny model type with body parts made out of silicone. It's a "plain jane" with God given natural curves and the ability to carry on a decent conversation. One who is not defined by how others think she should be. One who loves God above all else. Who loves others unconditionally, and forgives easily. A down home gal who values family and friends, and is not hesitant to help when needed. One who is just as happy to snuggle on the couch and watch a movie, as she is having a night on the town. A real woman who is confident enough in herself to not be a slave to trends. One who gives love and accepts love equally. That's my idea of a woman. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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