ladypeartree Posted May 27, 2011 Group: Royal Member Followers: 37 Topic Count: 539 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 32,851 Content Per Day: 5.03 Reputation: 23,550 Days Won: 227 Joined: 06/21/2006 Status: Offline Birthday: 02/23/1953 Share Posted May 27, 2011 Give praise that you are YOU and not him List all the things that you have gained from these experiences ... yes I know but if you had NOT had them there are things that you would have done n a different way and thus lost out on some blessings Realise that all you have lost are things that are of THIS earthly life and by holding onto hurts you are losing blessings for eternity KNOW that you are loved and that you do not HAVE to hurt yourself by holding onto that anger THEN pray for God to HELP you to forgive even when you feel it is too hard to do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
awomanafterHim Posted June 14, 2011 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 6 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 25 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 2 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/30/2011 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/22/1976 Share Posted June 14, 2011 Wow I know this feeling all to well; I can identify with u about this on so many levels and I hate to sound clique but like everyone before me said pray and ask for forgiveness so that u can heal I had to do the same thing to forgive my husband for his adultery and acts of domestic violence towards me and our child so I know about hurt stay strong and pray I'm praying for u as well! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treasure Posted June 14, 2011 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 272 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 2,338 Content Per Day: 0.65 Reputation: 11 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/19/2014 Status: Offline Share Posted June 14, 2011 Forgiveness is a tough thing to do. I can tell you for certain that God knows your heart. He understands that you want to forgive this person and are trying to do that. Leave it to Him and the forgiveness with come. Remember to keep Him as your center of focus or the fact that you haven't reached the point of forgiving this person could turn to bitterness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomerhunks Posted August 8, 2011 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 0 Topics Per Day: 0 Content Count: 2 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/06/2011 Status: Offline Birthday: 12/06/1982 Share Posted August 8, 2011 Pray to God to help you overcome the hate that you are feeling right now, and for the other person as well although it may be hard for you or perhaps you are having a hard time to pray for him because of the pain and indifference you feel for him. But remember that through prayers, we can put our minds and heart at ease. Just keep on praying and God will surely bless you after you overcome this. God bless! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isaiah 6:8 Posted August 8, 2011 Group: Royal Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 426 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 3,633 Content Per Day: 0.58 Reputation: 222 Days Won: 13 Joined: 03/23/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/26/1978 Author Share Posted August 8, 2011 Thanks all! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ztys09 Posted September 6, 2011 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 0 Topics Per Day: 0 Content Count: 2 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/06/2011 Status: Offline Share Posted September 6, 2011 Hi. Um I need to ask something. Do you think we should confess our sins to another person? If so I need someone to confess too.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fez Posted September 7, 2011 Group: Royal Member Followers: 3 Topic Count: 683 Topics Per Day: 0.12 Content Count: 11,128 Content Per Day: 2.00 Reputation: 1,352 Days Won: 54 Joined: 02/03/2009 Status: Offline Birthday: 12/07/1952 Share Posted September 7, 2011 Hi. Um I need to ask something. Do you think we should confess our sins to another person? If so I need someone to confess too.... I think it is scriptural and a good thing to do. However, make sure the person you are talking to is someone you can trust, like your pastor, or a seasoned believer who can give you scriptural advice and pray with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ztys09 Posted September 7, 2011 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 0 Topics Per Day: 0 Content Count: 2 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/06/2011 Status: Offline Share Posted September 7, 2011 Hi. Um I need to ask something. Do you think we should confess our sins to another person? If so I need someone to confess too.... I think it is scriptural and a good thing to do. However, make sure the person you are talking to is someone you can trust, like your pastor, or a seasoned believer who can give you scriptural advice and pray with you. see here is the thing. I am the youth pastor at my church and I used to have addictions and would do things a Chirstian shouldn't do. then I go delivered. God stated blessing me and then I became Youth Pastor which is what I always new my calling was. well lately satan has been fighting me and I ended up giving in to temptation...several times. I know no sin is greater then the other and I know God can forgive me but will HE? If I confess? Pray for me please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nebula Posted September 7, 2011 Group: Royal Member Followers: 10 Topic Count: 5,823 Topics Per Day: 0.75 Content Count: 45,870 Content Per Day: 5.95 Reputation: 1,897 Days Won: 83 Joined: 03/22/2003 Status: Offline Birthday: 11/19/1970 Share Posted September 7, 2011 Hi ztys - God forgives. That isn't the problem. It's only when you stop caring that there's reason to worry. He will discipline you. But that's for love, and to get you purified. Unfortunately, we have to really really hate the sin - that is, hate it more than we enjoy it. Do you have one or more people you trust who can act as a support for you to help you overcome? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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