ladypeartree Posted July 1, 2011 Group: Royal Member Followers: 37 Topic Count: 542 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 33,035 Content Per Day: 5.05 Reputation: 23,853 Days Won: 236 Joined: 06/21/2006 Status: Offline Birthday: 02/23/1953 Share Posted July 1, 2011 now if I had read this BEFORE i posted in the ladies lounge I could have saved my fingers some work You WILL get through it but it is HARD and if it were not then your desire woudnt have been so great. You are a wonderful mum and one day your daughter will thank you for being so .. the fact that she likes people is testamony to that Wsh I could ese the hurt but no one can do that ..only time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jodetoad Posted July 1, 2011 Group: Junior Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 86 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 4 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/14/2011 Status: Offline Birthday: 02/06/1953 Share Posted July 1, 2011 In a podcast of Grace Upon Grace, the pastor talked about a Psalm, I don't recall which one, in which David praised God for saving his (Davids) tears. It was the custom at that time for people who lost a loved one to save their tears in a small vial and bury them with the deceased - archeologists have recovered such vials. David was saying that God knew and cared for each tear he shed. God knows and cares about your tears. God didn't make us to be unemotional machines. The idea that faith should eliminate grief just doesn't make sense. Maybe it's part of the pruning, I don't know. I'm very sorry you are going through this. Praying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mizzdy Posted July 1, 2011 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 173 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 3,911 Content Per Day: 0.66 Reputation: 212 Days Won: 10 Joined: 03/21/2008 Status: Offline Share Posted July 1, 2011 We are human! we feel pain, anger, the whole gauntlet of emotions and no where have I read where we are supposed to hold it all in, which is really bad for our health to start with! My heart goes out to you Candice! no one knows the true depth we each feel when we are faced with such things. I really don't know what else to say to you but go ahead and feel, cry, scream! do what you need to do to allow all those emotions to come out. And know that He is always there holding you up and loving you through everything. My prayers are with you my dear sister in Messiah. Mizz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 1, 2011 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Ptraying~! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nebula Posted July 1, 2011 Group: Royal Member Followers: 10 Topic Count: 5,823 Topics Per Day: 0.75 Content Count: 45,870 Content Per Day: 5.94 Reputation: 1,897 Days Won: 83 Joined: 03/22/2003 Status: Offline Birthday: 11/19/1970 Share Posted July 1, 2011 ...but we are ineligible for domestic adoption. I was wondering - does this include adopting older foster children or just for babies? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isaiah 6:8 Posted July 1, 2011 Group: Royal Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 426 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 3,633 Content Per Day: 0.58 Reputation: 222 Days Won: 13 Joined: 03/23/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/26/1978 Share Posted July 1, 2011 Rha ks for posting Andy o wonder if this has not been a factPr in the depressiony wife and I have been fighting lately ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~candice~ Posted July 2, 2011 Group: Royal Member Followers: 5 Topic Count: 955 Topics Per Day: 0.16 Content Count: 11,318 Content Per Day: 1.89 Reputation: 448 Days Won: 33 Joined: 12/16/2007 Status: Offline Author Share Posted July 2, 2011 Rha ks for posting Andy o wonder if this has not been a factPr in the depressiony wife and I have been fighting lately ! Yes, it's quite normal to face depression in these times Izzy. You and your wife are in my prayers. I KNOW the bitterness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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