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May I ask, what is your son's health challenge, please?  

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3 minutes ago, missmuffet said:

Yes, Florida would be a good choice. 

@missmuffet A lot of ppl prefer Florida's climate............

(As long as they can avoid the tornados..... :) )

Florida is very much a beach state.....................................

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4 minutes ago, Not of the World said:

May I ask, what is your son's health challenge, please?  

Hi; if you scroll back I think the OP's son was underweight at birth...

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31 minutes ago, Not of the World said:

Based on your earlier post, if you move to India and attempt to convert your son to Christianity, then your ex-husband will then be able to legally take custody of your son, correct?  Are you sure about that?  Have you consulted an attorney in India?  

I presume it would be no issue for you to teach your son the words of Christ in Canada.  I obviously don't know the particulars to your situation but it seems unfortunate that you might take your son to India where the laws are (apparently) different and unfavorbable for raising your son to be a follower of Christ.  I hope there is a way that you can help your son with his health IN CANADA so that you can also raise him up to be a follower of Christ.  

Yes, my lawyer told me, and I've also done reading online to confirm. I also am scared of telling him, because if he forbids me to give my son meat or not teach him Christianity, it will be a direct disobedience. Please pray for me - it will really help. All I want is to do God's will and bring up my son as a man of God.

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14 minutes ago, farouk said:

Hi; if you scroll back I think the OP's son was underweight at birth...

Yes, he was iugr + premature+ low birth weight mainly because I was stressed out and malnourished during pregnancy. My spouse forbid me eating meat, even eggs. I could not keep any vegetarian food down.

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3 minutes ago, GerdaHannah said:

Yes, he was iugr + premature+ low birth weight mainly because I was stressed out and malnourished during pregnancy. My spouse forbid me eating meat, even eggs. I could not keep any vegetarian food down.

Great verse there from Isaiah, reminding believers to keep looking up, even as we may face big challenges day by day............

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7 minutes ago, GerdaHannah said:

Yes, he was iugr + premature+ low birth weight mainly because I was stressed out and malnourished during pregnancy. My spouse forbid me eating meat, even eggs. I could not keep any vegetarian food down.

Ok, I have prayed for you.  

You really need to speak to your attorney.  Have you told the attorney about how your husband restricts your son's diet and have you gotten an opinion from your son's pediatrician?  Have you spoken to social workers?  I believe these are the types of discussions that you should be having.  Write down and DOCUMENT everything.  Good luck and God bless you and your son!  

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1 hour ago, GerdaHannah said:

Yes, my lawyer told me, and I've also done reading online to confirm. I also am scared of telling him, because if he forbids me to give my son meat or not teach him Christianity, it will be a direct disobedience. Please pray for me - it will really help. All I want is to do God's will and bring up my son as a man of God.

@GerdaHannah I think it would be unwise to move back to India since the Indian courts would side with your ex-husband.   You don't need any more stress.

Remember, in Canada and the USA....you will be protected from your ex-husband by our laws.    He cannot force you to withhold meat from your ill son.  The Western courts would consider that as child abuse, especially if the meat is necessary for your son's health.

If you feel your ex-husband could become dangerous, you should talk to the police department to see what your options are.    

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2 hours ago, farouk said:

@missmuffet A lot of ppl prefer Florida's climate............

(As long as they can avoid the tornados..... :) )

Florida is very much a beach state.....................................

Yes, that is a problem. 

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3 hours ago, farouk said:

@missmuffet A lot of ppl prefer Florida's climate............

(As long as they can avoid the tornados..... :) )

Florida is very much a beach state.....................................

You forgot the humidity, hurricanes, and mosquitoes . . . and the occasional iguana dropping on your head. Don't get me started on the great big snakes . . .  :laugh:

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