Guest LadyC Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 A man is engaged to a woman who is in prison. They have been engaged for about 6 months. He met her while visiting someone else in prison. This man and his ex-wife are friends, and talk on the phone often. They live too far apart to see each other. Here is the question. He jokes with his ex-wife about sex a lot, and has said he would have sex with her if he went to visit her. He claims he is just joking so there is nothing wrong with it. His ex says he is cheating on his fiance before they are even married, and that if he is really just joking, he is at least treating both women disrespectfully. The fiance knows they are friends and talk, but doesn't know about the "joking". If MY fiance was doing this, he wouldn't be my fiance very long. Who is right? women are always right my question... WHY is his ex wife even still speaking to him? SHE has stated to the guy that he is treating both her and his fiancee with disrespect, so why is she allowing it to continue? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy Christian Posted October 19, 2007 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 23 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 198 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 57 Days Won: 1 Joined: 08/03/2006 Status: Offline Share Posted October 19, 2007 He's a fool for getting involved with someone in prison! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bolts Posted October 20, 2007 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 50 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 963 Content Per Day: 0.14 Reputation: 4 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/27/2005 Status: Offline Birthday: 07/10/1963 Share Posted October 20, 2007 A man is engaged to a woman who is in prison. They have been engaged for about 6 months. He met her while visiting someone else in prison. This man and his ex-wife are friends, and talk on the phone often. They live too far apart to see each other. Here is the question. He jokes with his ex-wife about sex a lot, and has said he would have sex with her if he went to visit her. He claims he is just joking so there is nothing wrong with it. His ex says he is cheating on his fiance before they are even married, and that if he is really just joking, he is at least treating both women disrespectfully. The fiance knows they are friends and talk, but doesn't know about the "joking". If MY fiance was doing this, he wouldn't be my fiance very long. Who is right? I don't think it is a question or 'who is right' but 'GETTING it right' Sometimes some men do turn to their ex for assurance. They have several questions before they get into a new relationship - stuff like: was I really such a bad guy? or, am I doing the right thing? or, was I so terrible in bed? etc etc etc.... Whatever his insecurity, he shouldn't rush into anything serious until he knows what he wants. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol R Posted October 20, 2007 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 27 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 705 Content Per Day: 0.11 Reputation: 7 Days Won: 0 Joined: 04/01/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 11/23/1958 Share Posted October 20, 2007 Run! Run! Run! Not that which goeth into the mouth defileth a man; but that which cometh out of the mouth, this defileth a man.Matthew 15:11 Very true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treasure Posted October 22, 2007 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 272 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 2,338 Content Per Day: 0.65 Reputation: 11 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/19/2014 Status: Offline Share Posted October 22, 2007 Run! Run! Run! Not that which goeth into the mouth defileth a man; but that which cometh out of the mouth, this defileth a man.Matthew 15:11 Fast! Fast! Fast! Away! Away! Away! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pjassmine Posted October 24, 2007 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 0 Topics Per Day: 0 Content Count: 4 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 08/06/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 01/21/1968 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Robots arms are flailing.yelling "WARNING WARNING WARNING 1) He has already commited adultry with his heart. 2) EX-wife....why are they talking about his fiance...they should be reconciling and getting back together. 3) Tsth said it best I think. Doesn't Paul tell us to ...RUN...... Oh!, one more thing.........please witness to this man if you can and try to set him straight. G-ds speed and Grace to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blien Posted October 24, 2007 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 346 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 3,050 Content Per Day: 0.50 Reputation: 46 Days Won: 3 Joined: 10/02/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/26/1982 Share Posted October 24, 2007 The answer my friend is right here in the Bible its a simple verse, New Living Translation Proverbs 26:18-19 18 Just as damaging as a madman shooting a deadly weapon 19 is someone who lies to a friend and then says, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tsth Posted October 24, 2007 Group: Royal Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 297 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 5,586 Content Per Day: 0.69 Reputation: 193 Days Won: 1 Joined: 04/09/2002 Status: Offline Share Posted October 24, 2007 My husband and I go over this verse often with our children: 1 Corinthians 15:33 Do not be misled: "Bad company corrupts good character." In His Love, Suzanne Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blien Posted October 24, 2007 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 346 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 3,050 Content Per Day: 0.50 Reputation: 46 Days Won: 3 Joined: 10/02/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/26/1982 Share Posted October 24, 2007 (edited) Suzanne! Thats really GOOD Advice right there. It saved me a lot when I was a kid and teenager, I tell it to my sisters all the time. Edited October 24, 2007 by Blien Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tsth Posted October 24, 2007 Group: Royal Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 297 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 5,586 Content Per Day: 0.69 Reputation: 193 Days Won: 1 Joined: 04/09/2002 Status: Offline Share Posted October 24, 2007 It works pretty good for adults too! In His Love, Suzanne Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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