LadyKay

Well it would be strange coming from you being a man in all to say "I wish more men would run around without shirts". ROFL!

I don't like the assumption that a disagreement in the meaning of scripture is the same as ignoring it. I think that is what we have here. You think scripture says one thing, I think it saying something different. Then you say I am changing it to suite myself. Then I say the way I see it, you are changing it to suite your way of thinking. So in the end we should just let God be our guide in these matter.

I kind wish sometimes that a few of them would dress lusty. Sadly it is usefully just a fat guy with a plumper's butt. There isn't anything lusty about that. But you all do get to take your shirts off.

Just thinking off the top of my head. I don't think I have ever heard women complain about men dressing lusty

Just look at your wife or slap your face a few times. See if that helps.

I could maybe see this if they are aware of it. But sometimes there is no way of knowing what is going to give someone lustful thoughts. For some, seeing a women's leg my cause such thoughts to enter their head.

Yep! I did. And I found the humor in it. Although I think some people on are taking it way too seriously. That is why I got the pop corn out!

Oh now look what this has turn into. I'l go get the pop corn ready.

I see I have come in late to this post but for now I will say that was interesting. Now to scroll back through and see how many people I disagree with.

Apparently Mr. Trump doesn't. LOL As for me I think who really wants to know what I am doing through out my day. My tweets would look like this: Did laundry. Now doing dishes. Had left overs for lunch.

Anyone here read Mr. Trump's tweets on his Twitter? I don't have a Twitter account but I do read what Mr. Trump says on his. Just wondering if anyone here follows what he tweets?

Come sit next to me Joshu I got pop corn! Let's toss Mr. Trump into the mix and see what happens then !

I'm not that old!

Back in my 20's there was this older married guy at work who kept asking me out. I told him sure, and we can bring your wife along too. He didn't like that ideal.

Well they have to put the signs up in the restroom to tell employees to watch their hands and if you can't trust people to know enough to wash their hands well....you know. You know I am just joking. LOL

I would like to add that hardly ever get to go out to a restaurant. I end up staying at home and cooking.

This is all well and good but I would feel like the company is trying to parent me. But then it would depend on what the job was and who I was working for. If it was say a well know Pastor then I can see how they would put in such rules to avoid stories being spread that could destroy the work they are trying to do or what they have built. But I would have issue if say it was an ice cream factory that tried to place these rules upon me. So much depends on the reason behind it all.

Yeah that is my issue as well. I like the bath sprays though. They have a light sent so it does not over power me. I never was much of a girly girl with make up and perfume.

Well I hold the door for every one cause I think it is the Christian thing to do. Then at times I have become the "door holder" and I stand there while I watch a line of people go pass me cause I held the door open for one person. Oh well I say.

Well if anyone ask me. I don't think it is sexist. I think it is a personal issue between a husband and wife.

This whole topic just keeps getting stranger. Now we are debating body spray names and people named Calvin.

Calvin who?

Okay. I have never heard this one before.

You see the thing is is that it would not be an issue between me and my husband. Because I tell my husband everything. If I was to have dinner with another man (though I am not sure why I would but lets just say it was a co-worker and we went out for lunch) when I got home from work that day I would tell him "oh me and John went to Restaurant Name for lunch today". He would then most likely make a joke about it and we laugh and go on with life. Then if he was to start hearing rumors he would tell me about them and then both of us would be annoyed at the person running their month. If it was a friend they would no longer be a friend, or the friendship would take a hit not our marriage. If it was a family member they would be called out about the issue and told off by us for spreading stories. Cause this is just the kind of marriage we have together. So I understand that not every marriage is like that, which is why I said if you feel bad about having lunch with someone other then your spouse, then don't do it. What works for one marriage may not work for another. I'm not telling anyone what to do about such things. Only they know what is right for them and not to judge other people who don't share your views. Had I know this was a topic about married people having dinner together I would have never gotten into it. I thought it was about the appearance of evil. Now I am caught up in all this marriage and dinner debate.

It is always my intention to build and or help others on this forum. I don't ever log in here with the attitude of lets see who I can tear apart today. But I seem to get misunderstood a lot. Then I get caught up in the whole thing and lose myself altogether. I am an imperfect being.