Some may have you to believe that if you love your Father, Mother, or siblings, children, or wife ( husbands, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. are in this context apparently okay ) that you are not a Christian. I would ask them by what Spirit do they teach this ?
Was not His NEW commandment to " Love one another, as I have loved you " ?
He laid down His life, suffered on the cross for sins He did not commit. He did this out of obedience and love. I think the key word here is " more ".
Can I place my faith or hope for salvation in any of these folks ? No ! Can I place my faith or hope for salvation in any of you ? No ! Should you place your faith and hope in me ? Absolutely not !
( sorry, done editing now. have a 3 month-old baby to take care of, and at my age, it's a challenge ! LOL )