I am not sure this is the best advice. Had I told my daughter that she and I would have missed out on the biggest blessing life has to give. The circumstances were different in her situation, but let me tell you, she married the daddy who was not a christian ( she wasn't really at that time either). After going thru 7 years of struggling, her and her husband are now born again believers, filled with the Holy Spirit and the youth pastors at their church. They went through many trials before getting there, but God had a plan. Oh yes, they also have 3 more children. All 4 of their kids have very specific calls on their lives, and mommy and daddy are raising them and preparing them to walk in their giftings and callings.
So I say, pray about it, really seek the Lord and His will.
I will be praying for you!! Oh yea, the babys name is Grace and she is 7 now.