Well i guess your talking about being judged by other people.
It used to bother me, when I was younger. It would sting, and depending on the situation, i would feel the need to challenge the person on why they are judging me, or to give them another point of view.
But now, to be honest, it doesnt bother me much at all. This is because I am only accountable to my God, he is the only one whome can judge. I practice virtues of faith, love, compassion, generosity. I feel a closeness with God, and am accoutable to him. Why should i fear the judgment of man? Who can judge but God only?