LCE635 Posted February 12, 2012 Group: Junior Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 11 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 95 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 7 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/14/2009 Status: Offline Share Posted February 12, 2012 I have a very, very difficult daughter. I do realize that I am in part guilty for her behavior. Many, many times I have considered filling charges against her to the authorities when he used my credit card without my authorization . The reason I did not is because i spended about $ 60,000 on her college education and really don't want to put a record on her. If I do she will not be able to get a job and since I am a softy I will have to support her for ever. Good for him that had the guts to do what he did. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneLight Posted February 12, 2012 Group: Royal Member Followers: 22 Topic Count: 1,294 Topics Per Day: 0.21 Content Count: 31,762 Content Per Day: 5.23 Reputation: 9,762 Days Won: 115 Joined: 09/14/2007 Status: Offline Share Posted February 12, 2012 It wasn't very mature of her father to act that way. What would you of done? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winsomebulldog Posted February 12, 2012 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 20 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 732 Content Per Day: 0.14 Reputation: 113 Days Won: 5 Joined: 03/26/2010 Status: Offline Birthday: 04/30/1971 Share Posted February 12, 2012 I've been following the story since early yesterday, when he was still coming to terms with how viral the video had gone. He's a very humble and funny man. He admits openly that he regrets a few things about how he handled it. Though he also says he would do it over again and that the reason he shot the laptop was because the last time his daughter behaved in a similar manner he told her that if she ever did it again, he would "put a bullet in it" (the laptop). So when he found the Facebook post she'd made, he was faced with the choice to either uphold the promise he'd made her or not. He said he even called the girl's mother to ask her to convince him NOT to shoot the laptop. Then he read their daughter's post to her over the phone, and she told him to put a bullet in it for her. I know it was a dramatic act, but I agree that he had to follow through on his previous words to his daughter or lose her respect. If there's one thing that I remember about my mother, it was that she understood the importance of standing behind your word. If you tell a child that you will punish them in some way if they do something wrong, then never follow through on it, that child is going to learn that they can do whatever they want without fear of repercussion. Being a "good" parent isn't just about loving your child. It's about loving your child enough to discipline them when they need it. I really respect this man because he obviously loves his daughter enough to hold her accountable for her own behavior. Good for him. He may not see himself as a hero, but I call him one because more and more, it's become the norm for parents to be their children's friends so that their kids won't be "mad" at them. God bless him for being brave enough to not cave into that pathetic trend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~candice~ Posted February 12, 2012 Group: Royal Member Followers: 5 Topic Count: 955 Topics Per Day: 0.16 Content Count: 11,318 Content Per Day: 1.89 Reputation: 448 Days Won: 33 Joined: 12/16/2007 Status: Offline Share Posted February 12, 2012 You know what? That father ROCKS. Kudos to him. That child is spoiled rotten. Her attitude stinks big time. She publicly dissed her father and he responded just as publicly. Well done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muddycamo Posted February 13, 2012 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 4 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 50 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 7 Days Won: 1 Joined: 03/20/2010 Status: Offline Birthday: 04/23/1977 Share Posted February 13, 2012 We need more parents like him. GO DAD!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muddycamo Posted February 13, 2012 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 4 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 50 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 7 Days Won: 1 Joined: 03/20/2010 Status: Offline Birthday: 04/23/1977 Share Posted February 13, 2012 Fun-ny That Father was awesome, he gets my vote for "Father of the Year". The only thing I would of done different, I would of used a shotgun, it would of done a better job with visual effectiveness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Shalhevet~ Posted February 13, 2012 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 334 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 2,049 Content Per Day: 0.38 Reputation: 120 Days Won: 4 Joined: 08/13/2009 Status: Offline Share Posted February 13, 2012 It wasn't very mature of her father to act that way. I'm going to kind of agree with this statement. I think there are much more tactful approaches to teach the daughter a lesson. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~candice~ Posted February 13, 2012 Group: Royal Member Followers: 5 Topic Count: 955 Topics Per Day: 0.16 Content Count: 11,318 Content Per Day: 1.89 Reputation: 448 Days Won: 33 Joined: 12/16/2007 Status: Offline Share Posted February 13, 2012 Tactful? Why be tactful? His daughter was absolutely tactless on Facebook. And for what it's worth... this father has garnished respect from millions of parents worldwide. He's a hero and I hope more parents stand up against their kids ego's now because of him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Shalhevet~ Posted February 13, 2012 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 334 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 2,049 Content Per Day: 0.38 Reputation: 120 Days Won: 4 Joined: 08/13/2009 Status: Offline Share Posted February 13, 2012 Tactful? Why be tactful? Why be tactful? Well, because he's the grown up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matthitjah Posted February 13, 2012 Group: Royal Member Followers: 4 Topic Count: 1,285 Topics Per Day: 0.16 Content Count: 17,917 Content Per Day: 2.27 Reputation: 355 Days Won: 19 Joined: 10/01/2002 Status: Offline Share Posted February 13, 2012 Tactful? Why be tactful? Why be tactful? Well, because he's the grown up. What he did was an act of Love. Heb 12:6 For whom the Lord loves he chastens, and scourges every son whom he receives. Heb 12:7 If you endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chastens not? Heb 12:8 But if you be without chastisement, of which all are partakers, then are you illegitimate children, and not sons. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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