silviawang Posted March 12, 2017 Group: Senior Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 128 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 825 Content Per Day: 0.12 Reputation: 153 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/16/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2017 4 minutes ago, Temp said: i did not say all Chinese or Indians social psychologists would tell you it is proven fact that culture is one of the major environmental factor contributes to a person's attitudes and hence their behavior but it is not the only factor of course anyway, Silvia seems to agree with me, and she know something about Chinese culture. lastly, i respect the fact that it is not about the original OP you have started so I will stop here. i am not "know something about Chinese culture. "" i am the chinese Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silviawang Posted March 12, 2017 Group: Senior Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 128 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 825 Content Per Day: 0.12 Reputation: 153 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/16/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2017 2 minutes ago, Temp said: you said you have been there for 12 years? i thought you might be born in another country and went back to China? or maybe it is opposite? either way, it is just mine personal experience, more with Indians than Chinese but many Indians i have came across are very scary and love to destroy and engage in destroy people's reputation over small things but one person's experience does not make it facts though i came across this article recently by an Indian who seems to have issues with his own culture as well i will stop here because i don't want to offend OP I were born in china and raised in china and living in china Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silviawang Posted March 12, 2017 Group: Senior Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 128 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 825 Content Per Day: 0.12 Reputation: 153 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/16/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2017 12 minutes ago, Temp said: also have you had a chance to compare your culture to Western culture? The Western culture? If y mean the Christian culture,yes,I were been called in 2003,and after that year,I try my best to pursue GOD,the GOD y westerners believed in for 2000 years If y mean the Greece ,Rome I do not know how to say , the only thing I study deeply is the Greek philosophy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silviawang Posted March 12, 2017 Group: Senior Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 128 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 825 Content Per Day: 0.12 Reputation: 153 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/16/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2017 13 minutes ago, Davida said: Sounds like over time you've gained some objectivity and personal insight. It is what happens after we leave our family of origin we gain some perspective to see what was and what is. It sounds very hard for a woman in the Chinese culture, very controlled. in the traditional Chinese culture ,the situation of the woman was far more tough than the Muslim woman in their society, far more tough! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silviawang Posted March 12, 2017 Group: Senior Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 128 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 825 Content Per Day: 0.12 Reputation: 153 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/16/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2017 See the picture? Even 100 years ago,the majority of Chinese woman should disable their foot in this way,bcs the men thought that with this ,their wives is incapable to commit adultery Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silviawang Posted March 12, 2017 Group: Senior Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 128 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 825 Content Per Day: 0.12 Reputation: 153 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/16/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2017 Hope y guys will not have the nightmare Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silviawang Posted March 12, 2017 Group: Senior Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 128 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 825 Content Per Day: 0.12 Reputation: 153 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/16/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2017 27 minutes ago, Temp said: noted the term I used I did not say " Christian culture" i said "culture that is not rooted in Christianity" so does that mean A German B French C American or D All of above plus every other countries where Christianity used to the one and only religion, which means values of Christianity have seeped into many of those culture despite the fact many of them are largely secular now you tell me? so you have no reference point to make the comparison on whether or not Chinese are more slanderous than Westerners from countries that are rooted in Christian history and culture? yet you seem offended by mine suggestion? how can you be offended when you don't have the facts? Too huge the topic And let me tell y my conclusion to the west *************** Europe The main religion of it is the Catholic/Orthodox And the ethic of the Europe is not the Christianity,it looks like the Christianity But it is only”look like” The true DNA of them is the paganism(mainly the Aryan Religion) That means “justification by the good work of Mortal” ---------And do not totally surrender to GOD,and do not accept the Salvation is a free gift,is totally the grace from GOD All the pagan Religion are based on “justification by the good work of Mortal” So I think the ethic of the Europe is the mixed culture With the Christianity cloth covering the body and the paganism in heart *************** US The main religion of it is the Protestantism Yes,it is Biblical ethic *************** And even the Christianity cloth ,the Europe does not want to wear now The multiculturalism, the left wing is now the main ethic of the Europem As a Godly woman,of course I should blame it And to the US,I do not know why Donald Trump is win,if it bcs y guys still have some sincere toward GOD,I think maybe GOD still bless America Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kindle Posted March 12, 2017 Group: Royal Member Followers: 53 Topic Count: 88 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 4,064 Content Per Day: 1.36 Reputation: 3,748 Days Won: 8 Joined: 02/23/2016 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2017 45 minutes ago, silviawang said: Too huge the topic And let me tell y my conclusion to the west *************** Europe The main religion of it is the Catholic/Orthodox And the ethic of the Europe is not the Christianity,it looks like the Christianity But it is only”look like” The true DNA of them is the paganism(mainly the Aryan Religion) That means “justification by the good work of Mortal” ---------And do not totally surrender to GOD,and do not accept the Salvation is a free gift,is totally the grace from GOD All the pagan Religion are based on “justification by the good work of Mortal” So I think the ethic of the Europe is the mixed culture With the Christianity cloth covering the body and the paganism in heart *************** US The main religion of it is the Protestantism Yes,it is Biblical ethic *************** And even the Christianity cloth ,the Europe does not want to wear now The multiculturalism, the left wing is now the main ethic of the Europem As a Godly woman,of course I should blame it And to the US,I do not know why Donald Trump is win,if it bcs y guys still have some sincere toward GOD,I think maybe GOD still bless America 20 minutes ago, Temp said: Aryan? which countries are you referring to? true DNA? again noted what i said every other countries where Christianity used to the one and only religion, which means values of Christianity have seeped into many of those culture despite the fact many of them are largely secular now just because many of those countries are becoming more secular , does not mean their Christian history and culture have lost it influences on general societal values can you explain to me why there are so much issues with toxic goods and counterfeit goods coming from China, much more so than other countries? why is it Chinese tourists are known to be inconsiderate and cutting in line? the list just goes on and on those things happens in Western Countries as well, but no where near the same magnitude those things don't just happen by accident either it is quite clear to me you took offense to mine so called "China bashing" but all i am doing is stating facts anyway i will stop here no point continuing the conversation if we can not have a real one that is based on facts As a Christian i don't like it when mine fellow countrymen are commiting evil against others whether or not it impacts me personally is irrelevant that is why it really rubs me the wrong way when i see other Christians get into this tribe mentality and getting defensive about these kind of thing regardless what the truth is but in end of the day God gives all us freewill and we can use it anyway we like as long as we bear in mind we all have to answer to Him someday that is all Please let us stay on topic. We don't want to derail HF's thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwikphilly Posted March 12, 2017 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 96 Topic Count: 307 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 18,136 Content Per Day: 4.63 Reputation: 27,817 Days Won: 327 Joined: 08/03/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2017 Quote This is not what my OP is about, as the mummy's boy syndrome crosses racial lines and is part of human nature, not dictated by people groups. Blessings His First Well,every Italian guy I ever knew was/is a "Mamas boy"I see it as a good thing as they do treat their wives with as much respect as they do mama(in what I've seen/know) The mama knows her place as a woman,mother & will protect her children like a lioness with her cubs and usually she will pass on her wisdom to her "new daughter".......I know how the Americans think of a "mommas boy" & it seems to have a negative implication.......kind of like hanging on his mothers apron strings.......personally,I've always paid close attention to family units,if there is mutual respect in the home with much love then its a good measuring cup for starters.....I would assume we are already talking about Christians,right? With love-in Christ,Kwik Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted March 12, 2017 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,991 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,689 Content Per Day: 11.81 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted March 12, 2017 21 minutes ago, kwikphilly said: Blessings His First Well,every Italian guy I ever knew was/is a "Mamas boy"I see it as a good thing as they do treat their wives with as much respect as they do mama(in what I've seen/know) The mama knows her place as a woman,mother & will protect her children like a lioness with her cubs and usually she will pass on her wisdom to her "new daughter".......I know how the Americans think of a "mommas boy" & it seems to have a negative implication.......kind of like hanging on his mothers apron strings.......personally,I've always paid close attention to family units,if there is mutual respect in the home with much love then its a good measuring cup for starters.....I would assume we are already talking about Christians,right? With love-in Christ,Kwik Good point kwik. I have always been told to look at the way a prospective husband treats his mother. Does he respect her? How does he treat her? If there is an unhealthy relationship going on between the mother and son that is something the woman can pick up before she says "I DO". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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