Sower Posted September 8, 2017 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 14 Topic Count: 32 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 5,264 Content Per Day: 0.97 Reputation: 5,878 Days Won: 1 Joined: 07/09/2009 Status: Offline Share Posted September 8, 2017 2 hours ago, Denadii said: When your wife confronts you, do you feel attacked? Or just plain like, shes talking to a recalcitrant child? My wife very rarely has confronted me, and then, it was something troubling her and needing discussion. Never felt attacked, that word would not describe her actions. Your question asking does she sound like she is talking to a "recalcitrant" child DEF having an obstinately uncooperative attitude toward authority or discipline, does not apply to her position towards me. No, she doesn't sound that way, however, I think you are implying you have thought you wife has. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denadii Posted September 8, 2017 Group: Senior Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 12 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 503 Content Per Day: 0.21 Reputation: 120 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/03/2017 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/20/1948 Author Share Posted September 8, 2017 34 minutes ago, Gary Lee said: My wife very rarely has confronted me, and then, it was something troubling her and needing discussion. Never felt attacked, that word would not describe her actions. Your question asking does she sound like she is talking to a "recalcitrant" child DEF having an obstinately uncooperative attitude toward authority or discipline, does not apply to her position towards me. No, she doesn't sound that way, however, I think you are implying you have thought you wife has. No. I'm not talking about me or my wife. I've known and worked with this guy for years. He's a very sensitive person and his wife is a very special woman too. I do like them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heleadethme Posted September 9, 2017 Group: Royal Member Followers: 15 Topic Count: 13 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 3,371 Content Per Day: 1.35 Reputation: 3,268 Days Won: 5 Joined: 07/10/2017 Status: Offline Share Posted September 9, 2017 7 hours ago, Denadii said: I believe the guy has a thyroid problem and he also has sleep apnea. Both can cause personality changes, according to what I can find on it, and the the thyroid can cause the crazies. Poor dufus seems to be on a losing streak. He needs to learn 1 Peter 2:24 and needs to learn to walk in it. Okay, not helpful then, sorry. But she does need to forgive him, whatever the cause.......and having a good idea that it was due to a medical problem should make it easier to forgive. It's too bad this has been dogging them for 25 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heleadethme Posted September 9, 2017 Group: Royal Member Followers: 15 Topic Count: 13 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 3,371 Content Per Day: 1.35 Reputation: 3,268 Days Won: 5 Joined: 07/10/2017 Status: Offline Share Posted September 9, 2017 " But the supposed event still gets in the way because you never apologized for it or repented of it. " Wondering why he hasn't at least apologized........a person can and should certainly apologize and express regret for hurting someone without remembering it, once they find out they did it. But anyway, one never knows what goes on in marriages sometimes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted September 9, 2017 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,992 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,690 Content Per Day: 11.78 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted September 9, 2017 There are many in this world who will not say " I am sorry please forgive me". Is it pride or fear or ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denadii Posted September 9, 2017 Group: Senior Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 12 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 503 Content Per Day: 0.21 Reputation: 120 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/03/2017 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/20/1948 Author Share Posted September 9, 2017 40 minutes ago, Heleadethme said: Okay, not helpful then, sorry. But she does need to forgive him, whatever the cause.......and having a good idea that it was due to a medical problem should make it easier to forgive. It's too bad this has been dogging them for 25 years. Yeah. LOL Satan is a putz. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denadii Posted September 9, 2017 Group: Senior Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 12 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 503 Content Per Day: 0.21 Reputation: 120 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/03/2017 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/20/1948 Author Share Posted September 9, 2017 (edited) 5 hours ago, The_Patriot2017 said: I have a hard time imagining a man not remembering something as big as physically hurting another, regardless if he was sick or not. I can see a misspoke word or something of that nature but not physical contact. Unless perhaps the woman waited 25 years to bring it up...then one has to wonder why she waited 25 years... LOL I can see that you've never been really sick. A bit of delirium would be one thing, but when the mind is twisted by illness......I would not want to be there. Edited September 9, 2017 by Denadii Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Patriot21 Posted September 9, 2017 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 28 Topic Count: 338 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 15,710 Content Per Day: 2.45 Reputation: 8,526 Days Won: 39 Joined: 10/25/2006 Status: Offline Birthday: 02/27/1985 Share Posted September 9, 2017 Just now, Denadii said: LOL I can see that you've never been really sick. A bit of delirium would be one thing, but when the mind is twisted by illness...... oh, trust me ive been sick before. and the only time where I can say i did things that I dont remember is when they put me under to pull 13 teeth. literally, put me under. but ive been way sick before, and im sorry but short of that, i think id remember physically hurting someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 9, 2017 Share Posted September 9, 2017 1 minute ago, Denadii said: LOL I can see that you've never been really sick. A bit of delirium would be one thing, but when the mind is twisted by illness......I would not want to be there. Mental illness sick! In that case,he needs to be on meds. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denadii Posted September 9, 2017 Group: Senior Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 12 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 503 Content Per Day: 0.21 Reputation: 120 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/03/2017 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/20/1948 Author Share Posted September 9, 2017 3 minutes ago, Blueyedjewel said: Mental illness sick! In that case,he needs to be on meds. Why? His thyroid is under control. Are you suggesting a lobotomy? LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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