Guest Bro David™ Posted May 10, 2005 Share Posted May 10, 2005 I wish I was single again... <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Well just keep on wishing. Just don't pray. God tends to ignore prayers like that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheya joie Posted May 10, 2005 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 13 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 2,054 Content Per Day: 0.29 Reputation: 351 Days Won: 2 Joined: 03/15/2005 Status: Offline Share Posted May 10, 2005 I wish I was single again... <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I am single again. (widowed) I miss being married. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Bro David™ Posted May 10, 2005 Share Posted May 10, 2005 ((((((((((((((((((((Sheya)))))))))))))))))))) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jules Posted May 11, 2005 Share Posted May 11, 2005 This was an interesting topic to read. I haven't been with anyone since I've been a Christian over ten years ago. Life as a Christian is so totally different than what I knew so it's almost like growing up all over again the way I should have to begin with. Reading your posts, it's so interesting to see the different views. Especially from the men. I wasn't sure what to believe about if there were men out there that would want a real relationship without pushing for sex. I've sort of been afraid to try again even though I get lonely as being single because I really want to do it right in the eyes of God if I meet a guy who I may build a relationship with. Of course I'm not doing anything to go out and meet them either but I do wonder about these things. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and for being truthful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hmh Posted May 11, 2005 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 38 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1,790 Content Per Day: 0.25 Reputation: 27 Days Won: 0 Joined: 08/21/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 11/15/1968 Share Posted May 11, 2005 Believe me when I say this, just make sure if and when you do get married, the person truly is a Christian and not a "wolf in sheep's clothing." If you get any indication whatsoever that this person is going to be trouble, take a BIG step back and rethink what is happening. Don't let your emotions override or drown out what God is trying to tell you. Look before you leap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barnabas Posted May 12, 2005 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 20 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 58 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/11/2003 Status: Offline Share Posted May 12, 2005 i think you've missed the point! Dating as western society potrays isn't that good , but that does not exclude looking for a mate! The whole point of criticizing dating is to open up alternatives. if you don't pursue the alternatives then you are not serious about finding a mate! kissing and sex is not God's way is the point. Thus if you are interested in someone, be their friend! After your friendship develops then you could be ready to marry. So the first step is to find someone you are interested in to be just a friend and then do friend things....together with other friends. go to the zoo, shopping, sport, museum, church activities etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
truesunn Posted May 12, 2005 Group: Junior Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 7 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 67 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 2 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/17/2005 Status: Offline Birthday: 07/30/1975 Share Posted May 12, 2005 Especially from the men. I wasn't sure what to believe about if there were men out there that would want a real relationship without pushing for sex. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Amen. Now that I am 30, it's so difficult to find a "good one" that isn't already attached or has such great insurmountable emotional baggage. I just keep believeing that when it's time, God will provide Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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