creativemechanic Posted March 30, 2020 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 414 Topics Per Day: 0.12 Content Count: 1,273 Content Per Day: 0.36 Reputation: 518 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/22/2014 Status: Offline Share Posted March 30, 2020 Year ago beleive it or not. A co-worker suggested I look for women amongst the nursery class mother's at the school I taught at. Namely because ,that was the age alot of fathers ran off. I obviously didn't take it to heart but as time went on, being friendly with different parents I realised ... It actually happens. There were actually a few single mother's with 3/4 year olds. Other women i spoke to over the years spoke of being dumped while pregnant. Part of an explanation explanation i read was that when baby arrives, the child becomes the center of the mother's attention ( naturally). Some fathers cant take being replaced and look elsewhere or run off. Isn't it kinda sad how something so natural causes such disaster or how some people can become so self centres that they'd they'd that (the father's running off). It really kinda shows how far mankind can in some cases fall from God's plan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R. Hartono Posted March 30, 2020 Group: Royal Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 777 Topics Per Day: 0.34 Content Count: 6,955 Content Per Day: 3.05 Reputation: 1,985 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/15/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted March 30, 2020 (edited) 21 minutes ago, creativemechanic said: Namely because ,that was the age alot of fathers ran off. I obviously didn't take it to heart but as time went on, being friendly with different parents I realised ... It actually happens. There were actually a few single mother's with 3/4 year olds. Other women i spoke to over the years spoke of being dumped while pregnant. There r many factors that causes a man to leave his dream wife, laziness of doesnt want to clean the house or laundry or jealoussy or outrageous shopping, bad habit of drinking n smoking drugs , cannot cook etc. Edited March 30, 2020 by R. Hartono 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted March 30, 2020 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,994 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,692 Content Per Day: 11.75 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted March 30, 2020 There are a lot of single or divorced mothers and fathers out there with different circumstances. It is difficult to raise a child on your own because that is what I had to do. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frienduff thaylorde Posted March 30, 2020 Group: Mars Hill Followers: 17 Topic Count: 18 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 13,256 Content Per Day: 5.29 Reputation: 1 Days Won: 62 Joined: 07/07/2017 Status: Offline Birthday: 03/25/1972 Share Posted March 30, 2020 11 minutes ago, missmuffet said: There are a lot of single or divorced mothers and fathers out there with different circumstances. It is difficult to raise a child on your own because that is what I had to do. You are loved dear sister . and you are being prayed for as well . yep . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
creativemechanic Posted March 30, 2020 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 414 Topics Per Day: 0.12 Content Count: 1,273 Content Per Day: 0.36 Reputation: 518 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/22/2014 Status: Offline Author Share Posted March 30, 2020 1 hour ago, R. Hartono said: There r many factors that causes a man to leave his dream wife, laziness of doesnt want to clean the house or laundry or jealoussy or outrageous shopping, bad habit of drinking n smoking drugs , cannot cook etc. U assuming they are married or are living together Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R. Hartono Posted March 30, 2020 Group: Royal Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 777 Topics Per Day: 0.34 Content Count: 6,955 Content Per Day: 3.05 Reputation: 1,985 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/15/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted March 30, 2020 (edited) 51 minutes ago, creativemechanic said: U assuming they are married or are living together Living together without married is not allowed in Jakarta, people Will b questioned n evicted, divorces happened often in married couples when they found their newly married spouse were not their dream spouse, either laziness, drugs, alcohol addiction, smoking leaves, gambling, brutal sex, stingy or over consumptive, dirty n smelly, cursings habits, witchcraft etc. Edited March 30, 2020 by R. Hartono Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abrielle Posted March 30, 2020 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 8 Topic Count: 4 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 204 Content Per Day: 0.13 Reputation: 281 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/27/2019 Status: Offline Share Posted March 30, 2020 (edited) 11 hours ago, creativemechanic said: Year ago beleive it or not. A co-worker suggested I look for women amongst the nursery class mother's at the school I taught at. Namely because ,that was the age alot of fathers ran off. I obviously didn't take it to heart but as time went on, being friendly with different parents I realised ... It actually happens. There were actually a few single mother's with 3/4 year olds. Other women i spoke to over the years spoke of being dumped while pregnant. Part of an explanation explanation i read was that when baby arrives, the child becomes the center of the mother's attention ( naturally). Some fathers cant take being replaced and look elsewhere or run off. Isn't it kinda sad how something so natural causes such disaster or how some people can become so self centres that they'd they'd that (the father's running off). It really kinda shows how far mankind can in some cases fall from God's plan I have worked with single mothers and most of them were a lesson of humbleness to me. I also noticed that both men and women avoid them, they end up isolated or inside a circle of single mothers, with the same problems and not many solutions. When we are sensitive to this world's issues, it is better to put aside the bad, forget about the parents who left, they have their path; if you can see pain, bring something new to those who can use a hand. Most single mothers could use some help. The smallest gesture makes a huge difference. We may not take care of everyone, but when we are aware and available, God's puts us in the way of those who accept our help. You may not be put in the way of a single mother, but i know of men who changed their mind about leaving, after talking with a man like you. Speak always from a place of love. Some men are just afraid of not being enough, so they block facts and deny their reality, forgetting that by doing that are denying a father to a child who needs the only father they can have. Edited March 30, 2020 by Abrielle oh my grammar... :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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