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Why the focus on just a few people functioning (up front) in our gatherings?


Vine Abider

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On 6/27/2023 at 11:28 AM, Vine Abider said:

I've been to Sunday gatherings with a variety of groups over the past 50 years.  I always enjoy getting with believers, no matter how they meet - the Lord is in us! But I've noticed almost everyone follows the same basic format: An up front stage where the focus is on a few people functioning.

In these Sunday assemblies, there is usually a "worship team" who plays music and sings on a stage, and then someone comes up front to give a message. In a few gatherings I've been to, sometimes interaction may be encouraged - members are directed, perhaps during a short break, to speak with the person sitting next to them.

But one thing almost never happens in nearly all places I've visited: Members are not encouraged to speak or otherwise participate (other than singing along with the worship team).

However, I've also been to gatherings where the meetings were more open and saints were encouraged to function.  That is, they were free to call a particular song to sing, or standup (at their seat) and share something that the Lord is touching is their heart with, or ask for prayer, or maybe just to share about something or someone who encouraged them to pursue Christ.  And then, after the ministry message was given, some would then share how they related to it or were touched.

To me this kind of functioning of the body is incredibly encouraging, nourishing and greatly builds-up one another! :emot-highfive:

I've heard some say that this only works in smaller gatherings, and while it's certainly true that a larger portion of members can share in smaller settings, I've also experienced this in much larger groups.

So two questions:

1. Where did we get this near universal format of focusing so much on a few people functioning up front?

2. Why is its practice so prevailing? 

ya might not notice it but .. it happens even in forums. 

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6 minutes ago, TheBlade said:

ya might not notice it but .. it happens even in forums. 

Really?  Are we focused on just a few people?

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1 hour ago, Vine Abider said:

Really?  Are we focused on just a few people?

Sometimes!

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Join our online studies! Only those part of the ministry can start topics in this forum, although anyone may reply to any topic started!

I think leadership is often more those leading or starting what others join in. But maybe that is not what you mean by focus on a few.

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10 minutes ago, Anne2 said:

Sometimes!

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Join our online studies! Only those part of the ministry can start topics in this forum, although anyone may reply to any topic started!

I think leadership is often more those leading or starting what others join in. But maybe that is not what you mean by focus on a few.

Jesus had His inner circle.

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2 hours ago, Michael37 said:

Jesus had His inner circle.

Yes, he did. LOL

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3 hours ago, Michael37 said:

Jesus had His inner circle.

And an inner triad: John, James, and Peter. 

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32 minutes ago, Solus Christus said:

And an inner triad: John, James, and Peter. 

@Solus Christus .... and Paul worked closely with Timothy and Silas also.

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4 hours ago, Anne2 said:

Sometimes!

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Join our online studies! Only those part of the ministry can start topics in this forum, although anyone may reply to any topic started!

I think leadership is often more those leading or starting what others join in. But maybe that is not what you mean by focus on a few.

Note that George dedicated a sub-forum specifically for members' bible studies. :emot-nod:

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10 minutes ago, farouk said:

@Solus Christus .... and Paul worked closely with Timothy and Silas also.

& Titus. 

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5 hours ago, Vine Abider said:

Really?  Are we focused on just a few people?

I don't think so. A forum is not an accurate representation of face-to-face life. It's just a forum.

In face-to-face life, I rarely speak. I speak only when poked, prodded, or when it's required on the job.

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