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how much weight would i lose if i didnt eat for a month or so? would i notice a visible difference? would my pants be looser? i ask this because i wear 1 in juniors but some of the are tight, not bad but not as comfortable as they have been. I really want to wear 0's.....if i can help it. and i just bought a cute bikini which i love and looked great in but im still fatter than some of my friends. please help

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1's? 0's?

If you are talking about clothes in the US, you are not fat!

When I was in high school, I wore a size 13 and you could see only muscle and bone on me.

Todays society places a wrong emphasis on being thin. So much emphasis on it, that anoxeria and bulemia are rampant among people. Instead of wondering about your weight, and if you are too fat, please remember what matters to the Lord...and what will matter to those who genuinely care for you--your heart. If you truly think you are fat, then speak to your doctor about losing weight. Not eating for a month is NOT the way to lose weight.

Here is something to think about. Women who are anoxeric, that is, they dont eat and are very skinny, tend to develop facial hair. Im not talking about a few strands, Im talking about fuzzy fur on the face almost like an animal. That is gross! Better to be a few pounds overweight than have fur on your face.

Let me repeat. If you believe you are overweight, please talk to your doctor and have him or her put you on a sensible diet and exercise program. Any fad diets, or quick weight loss starvation diets will hurt you in the long term.

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ive had anorexia and bulimia, they balanced each other so i didnt lose a lot of wieght, when i started eating i gained it back but am a steady 88-90 lbs

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ive had anorexia and bulimia, they balanced each other so i didnt lose a lot of wieght, when i started eating i gained it back but am a steady 88-90 lbs

Little Sister, if you are over about 4' 11" then you are already too thin. Please! You will definitely harm yourself by fixating so on 'fat' at 88-90 lbs.

Your thread title really says it all: "...I hate myself!" You are punishing yourself for some real or imagined sin. You 'hate' yourself? Do you think you are better than God; WHO LOVES YOU? What possible right have you to 'hate' one whom God loves? Little Daughter of Zion; LOVE YOURSELF, as God also loves you.

May the Lord protect you from self-harm.

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im 4 foot 10 lol....

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im 4 foot 10 lol....

Oh please stop, cutiepie! You are making me feel OBESE!!!! :)

If you wear a size 1 (not even a real size in my book) you ARE NOT FAT. If your friends weigh less, they have even more of a problem than you do.

As Leonard said, God loves you, honey. You are a daughter of the Creator and his precious treasure. You are deserving of the best life has to offer. Whatever horrible things happened to you to make you hate yourself DO NOT DETERMINE WHO YOU ARE. They are what happened to you.

We all love you, cutiepie. Try to see yourself thru God's eyes for a change.

You will see a beautiful child.....a precious jewel.

Love you,

Fiosh

:)

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actually everyone taller than me and weighs more are wear size 3 and up...but they are still skinnier, in my eyes anyways.

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I wish I could hug you but the little emot will have to do... :P

You are loved cutie.. :D

If your friends are saying things to make themselves look better then forgive them but do not get caught up in their foolishness...

If you are a Christian you can forgive them and you can rise above the call of the human nature to want to be better than the next person...

human nature wants to rise up in me and make me "top dog"..

I look better than you do..

I talk better than you do..

I am smarter than you..

If this is what is happening sweetie do NOT buy into it..

No one can MAKE you feel bad about yourself..

they can say things to hurt you but you do not have to accept it...

Do not accept that you are less than acceptable to God or to your brothers and sisters in Christ..

Ayin Jade gave you some solid advice hon... :thumbsup:

so did the others.. :rolleyes:

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I realize that this is a serious issue for you but geeze'o'pete's, A size 1?

Me and my huge size 14 are gonna go drown my sorrows in a gallon of ice cream.

Ugh!

This thread makes me just feel soooo fat!

Accept yourself how God made you.

Size 0 is unhealthy and unrealistic.

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Saw a sign once that read

"God, if you won't make me skinny, please make my friends fat."

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