Emotional change. How do you deal with yourself?

[Will Hill]

i have caused trouble here with my temper and i have said things i shouldn't have said without thinking. i apologize to anyone who i have hurt. Please help me deal with my anger issues and snappy talk. I don't want to do this kinda thing anymore. I need help on how i can do better. please help me as I feel down and lonely with this. What do i do??

[Guest LadyC]

we ALL go through that. sometimes i get so mad i just wait for the moderators to delete my post. other times i'll edit my own post after posting it. still other times, and this one is important, (and one i've seen many other people do also), i'll post an apology for my attitude... or send a pm of apology.

the best thing to do though, when you feel yourself getting all bent out of shape, is to take a break from the board for a day or a week or even longer if necessary. otherwise you'll find your anger spilling out at your friends and family.

[Guest]

i have caused trouble here with my temper and i have said things i shouldn't have said without thinking. i apologize to anyone who i have hurt. Please help me deal with my anger issues and snappy talk. I don't want to do this kinda thing anymore. I need help on how i can do better. please help me as I feel down and lonely with this. What do i do??

Will - You Are So Loved!

Will - Beloved of The Lord!

The LORD hath appeared of old unto me, saying, Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee. Jeremiah 31:3

Sad Soul

Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted in me? hope thou in God: for I shall yet praise him for the help of his countenance. Psalms 42:5

Shout

Let them shout for joy, and be glad, that favour my righteous cause: yea, let them say continually, Let the LORD be magnified, which hath pleasure in the prosperity of his servant. Psalms 35:27

The LORD bless thee, and keep thee:

The LORD make his face shine upon thee, and be gracious unto thee:

The LORD lift up his countenance upon thee, and give thee peace.

Numbers 6:24-26

Love, Joe

[Gerioke]

i have caused trouble here with my temper and i have said things i shouldn't have said without thinking. i apologize to anyone who i have hurt. Please help me deal with my anger issues and snappy talk. I don't want to do this kinda thing anymore. I need help on how i can do better. please help me as I feel down and lonely with this. What do i do??

Will - You Are So Loved!

Will - Beloved of The Lord!

The LORD hath appeared of old unto me, saying, Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee. Jeremiah 31:3

Sad Soul

Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted in me? hope thou in God: for I shall yet praise him for the help of his countenance. Psalms 42:5

Shout

Let them shout for joy, and be glad, that favour my righteous cause: yea, let them say continually, Let the LORD be magnified, which hath pleasure in the prosperity of his servant. Psalms 35:27

The LORD bless thee, and keep thee:

The LORD make his face shine upon thee, and be gracious unto thee:

The LORD lift up his countenance upon thee, and give thee peace.

Numbers 6:24-26

Love, Joe

I like your style

[Will Hill]

ty to your help and this will bring it up for others to help.

[Guest praizum318]

i have caused trouble here with my temper and i have said things i shouldn't have said without thinking. i apologize to anyone who i have hurt. Please help me deal with my anger issues and snappy talk. I don't want to do this kinda thing anymore. I need help on how i can do better. please help me as I feel down and lonely with this. What do i do??

Hey bro.!

It's all good... we all have tongues and to speak life to all those who have listening ears all the time isn't quite realistic.

Let's break it down to the best of my own understanding.

I have a verbally abusive dad come to understand... he seems to be the only one in the family who reserves the right to be angry, complain, or just have a bad day.

While the rest of us suffer for protecting his stress levels, some very bad things come about.

Scriptures talk of how the tongue can speak life or death to all those around you with listening ears, and as far understand the sword of the spirit(tongue) can be double-edged and it's a very very very important aspect our identity to learn to control, because out of our mouths comes every sort evil or good that is our hearts.

Renew our minds by feeding them healthy beliefs, which for the most part is extremely difficult to do if your couch potato or saturating your mind with pretty much anything other than the word of life, from the author of life, and creator of life.

My suggestion to you is simply get to understand yourself, analyse your motives for doing or sayig the things that you know are wrong, and train yourself to develop healthy attitudes/beliefs. They say it takes 21 days of primarily working on and imprinting a new belief or habbit into our minds. After that keep going, and find other beliefs that has to be renewed to what is true and noble, praise worthy, and good.

I've not yet obtained my goals in life either bro. so take heart nobody's perfect; otherwise Christ wouldn't have had to die the debt for all of us. We all fall short so there's no feasable reason for us to beat ourselves up, just do what you can, and leave the rest to Jesus.

Love ya bro. and may GOD Bless You!

[Guest John Cole]

Hi All,

I am new to this board, but have experience in using message boards, I also understand about the emotional tangles. I can be very snappy and get angry with someone for something trivial. I think the best advise I was ever given to help with my anger and snappy messages and chat, was this:

Write your message in a word processor on your computer. Look at it, read it, edit it, save it. Come back to it 24 hours later, re-read it, edit it. Do this all week,iIf you still feel the same a week later post. If not, delete it, nothing lost. But I guarentee this, what you end up with will be more positive and sound less aggressive so much so it may even seem pointless.

I hope this is some help.

John

Where there is faith, there is love,

Where there is love, there is peace,

Where there is peace, there is God.

Where there is God, there is no need.