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  1. Chrisy

    Wife fell out of love

    Hello. I'm not an expert on love but i'll try my best😁😁. First, i want you to go back those old days when u were young and "in love", when you proposed till you both said " I do". To me it's pretty obvious that u still love ur wife. And as a lady myself, i know she loves you too. But if we love each other why is this happening? Nice question. The thing is that you fell out of love not because you're not meant for each other but you don't have your First love. You don't act the way you used to and ofcourse you can't act like that forever. Here are some things I've learned that I'll love to share with you. 1. It takes two to tango. Marriage isn't about the hubby making the wife to like what he likes or do what he wants. It's about liking or doing what he wants cus u want him to happy even if you aren't. Little things like not listening, watching only YOUR fave shows and dirtying her new floor tiles can make a lady reconsider her love for u. I'm not saying you should change yourself. I'm mean that saying little things like"thanks for making dinner honey"or"I'm sorry"or"how's my lovely wife"or something can help a whole lot. 2. Do unto others as you'd like them to do unto you. If you act nice she's way more likely to act the same way than she would when dragged counselor's office. Plus she will do it wholeheartedly. It may not be that her faith is weak. She may just not want to pray with someone who's mean to her. 3. No one is perfect. I admire that you want to solve your marriage problems but you also have your numerous flaws. Walk a mile in her shoes for a change. Search for your flaws and pray to God to help you with them. It'll do a lot of good than pointing fingers at her. 4. Prayer is the key. God should be first in ur marriage. When u have problem in ur marriage go to God in prayer. Ask for wisdom to be a great husband. She may have been against ur faith in the past because she probably doesn't believe u actually were serious about it. But when she saw u were, she supported u. Does she see u read ur bible or is just a PHASE to her. Ask yourself " Am i really serious about my walk with God?". U can also aak her. And instead of forcing her to pray, you can pray a bit louder and if she wants to she can say Amen. U can pray for her when she's sick. And u should always pray for her. U can post little Verse Of The Day sticky notes. U can casually bring up what u learnt from the Bible or something. There are a lot of ideas. Be creative. 5. Actions speak louder than words. When you say you love her do you show it or you just say it. We believe mostly what we see. Do your actions prove your love. There are a lot of ways of showing ur love. The same goes for ur Christianity. Does she see Jesus in you. The Bible says by their fruits you shall know them. I've learnt that in evangelizing, your actions are more important than anything else. Do you go against what you preach if you do repent and also ask your wife for forgiveness. That's all i can say in this. I hope everything works out and you both have a blissful marriage. Hope this makes sense
  2. Chrisy

    For Everything

    I'm gladπŸ˜‡πŸ˜‚πŸ˜πŸ˜€
  3. Chrisy

    Books of the Bible

    I love all the epistles of Paul.
  4. Chrisy

    His Coming

    Thank you all for your wise words. May God continually bless you always and forever in Jesus Name. Amen
  5. Chrisy

    I need to be saved - Will someone please pray for me?

    What you said is true. There aren't much good churches. But don't just give up. I glad you're on WCF. Where you can fellowship with strong Christians. But i have to say that if you haven't found a church then you can consider my idea of having a house fellowship. If it isn't much πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‚ All the best
  6. Hello. I know it may sound dumb but I'm worried about rapture. It's not like I'm not born again. Iaccepted Jesus as my Lord months ago but i feel like I'm not exactly Christian material. I want to grow and a lot of people have told me that I've grown spiritually but i don't feel it. I feel like no matter what i do i sin and I'm scared that one day it'll be too late for Jesus to forgive me and I'll be left behind. That's why i do my best. I'm different from how i was but is it enough. When i sin in any way, i go to God in prayer but sometimes i feel he won't forgive me anymore. I know i shouldn't beat myself up all the time but i feel terrible because I'm hurting God. I mean all God has done had been for my good. He never hurt me. He even Died for me and this is how i repay him??? I don't blame God is he decides to leave me behind and today i just watched a Youtube video about rapture so i feel guilty. I wonder if I'll even go to heaven. I mean I've met a lot of highly spiritual Christians who when compared to me make me look like a rash. They know all the words, verses, stories and everything. I don't mean to sound jealous I'm just pointing out that to Jesus when he's selecting the godly i might not be picked. It's terrible to feel like this. I want to grow. I want to be ready for his coming. Please help. Any advice will be appreciated. Thank you. God bless you
  7. Chrisy

    What I should be doing..

    Welcome. You must be quite busy. I have no idea about how adult life is. So your story is pretty fascinating. And I'm sure you'll be an awesome dad. Maybe if God pleases, I'll write a bio for you😁😁😁. Just joking. Looking forward to ur posts. Chrisy
  8. Chrisy

    I need to be saved - Will someone please pray for me?

    Hello. Happy u found WCF. It's my fave christian forum. Nice to meet you, whether the devil likes it or not you're going to be just fine. And I'm not just saying it. I mean it. I know how you feel. I'm not saying that I've watched porn before but I've had my own personal sins that took me a long time to let go of. At first you don't even realize it's a sin. Not because it isn't but because you don't want it to be so you trick yourself into believing that it isn't one. (Sorry about how sappy i soundπŸ˜πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡) You may take a direct approach to justify yourself like: "I don't see where in the Bible God specifically said porn is a sin" Or a guilty "Is it even that bad? " Then a slightly guilty "Maybe I can just a little" Then to the angry " So what if i watch porn. It's my life anyway" To the very guilty "I'll just sneak a peek i promise" To the ultra defensive and bad mouthed " How is it my fault. Jesus never had porn in his time. " To the final resignation " I need help". I'm just saying my view ( i have never been in this position so I'm sorry if anything isaid is wrong in any way. It was through using the people i know as cases that i designed these approaches.) Whichever approach you went through its over. I'm glad that you know its a sin and that is the first step: Acknowledgement. Stop justifying it. Accept that it's wrong and that you don't want to sin against God anymore. Step two: Motive. Yes as a christian I'm encouraged and glad when people come to God but i want to ask and for you to all yourself "Why do i want to give up porn? ". Because motives matter. A good gift given with a bad heart is worse than being given nothing. Is it because someone kept nagging about how it's wrong or because you're afraid of being caught. Do you really know why it's wrong? Do you really feel that it's wrong or is it because you don't want to be mocked by Christians you meet. I'm not saying that it's right or that you should continue. Please understand that you have to believe that you are dirty to be made clean. Is it because people say it is? No it should be because you know that it's wrong and believe that it's wrong and need God's help to rid yourself if it. And that's when Salvation really takes place. Step three: Jesus. To be free you have to believe Jesus. It's hard for me to put it in words but you have to believe that Jesus is real. You have to believe that he will hear you when you call on him. That if you cry unto him, he will answer you and that simply put is called faith. The fact that you believe that God loves you and came to die for you. It's a popularly preached story but do you believe it. You're free to ask questions, that's what we're here for. And if you do believe them your ready for the next step. Step four: Confession. If you've followed the steps i gave them you are pretty much ready. Start with thanks for life and a chance to have a second chance. Then tell him about how you feel. You know. About porn. How you're sorry. Acknowledge him as your Lord and Savior. Just pray as you are lead. Once you've done this you are officially a child of God. So welcome to the FamilyπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Step five: Life in Christ. I can't say much apart from the usual read your Bible and pray every day. But i do advice you do read your Bible. It's not just some book. It's God's word. A christian who doesn't read his Bible is like a rich orphan who doesn't know his inheritance. Or like carrying a gun with no ammo. Useless. The Bible has God's say and promises. If you don't know Mathew 7:7 then you'll be afraid to ask. You can't say what you don't know. It gives you an insight into how God feels about different things. It holds his promises and it's our gift from him. Our own love letter. So in times when you sin because change doesn't happen overnight. You have a solid rock to rest in because he encourages us. As a Christian, you are not perfect. The difference is that Christ perfects you and as long as you have him, everything will fall in pleasant places for you. I'm not saying its easy. It's never easy and never will be. I'm saying its WORTH IT. That's all i can give you now. And i wish you all the best. About finding a church: How's that going? Do you have a good church now? If you do, Hooray. If you don't, don't despair. Sometimes church may not be everything. I'm not saying you should give up your search for a good church. I'm saying you should atleast fellowship with other Christians in the mean time. That's why the apostles went in pairs on journeys. To have each other's company. To correct each other and grow in the lord. I have an idea: if you can go to church then let church go to you. Before you think I'm crazy, listen. I didn't say start your own church. It doesn't even have to be a church. You can have a house fellowship with people like you who are new to Christianity and are zealots. You can have a trusted Christan friend who is firm in the lord. And you can share your experiences, failures and encourage and support each other. For where two or three are gathered God is there. You can preach your faith and win souls for God's kingdom. And expand your fellowship. I know it seems a bit too ambitious but i believe in you and in Jesus at work in you. I pray that God increases in you and that you grow in the lord. Wow! What a long write-up. I'd love to type more but i have room of homework to do. Hope it makes sense. God bless you, Chrisy.
  9. Chrisy

    For Everything

    HelloπŸ˜€πŸ˜. Wow it's been such a long time. I just want to thank God for all he has done for me. For my awesome parents, my lovely school and friends and neighbours. For my lil sis and my crazy bri who became a year older on Thursday. For everyone here at WCF. For the encouragement i receive here. Thank u lord 4 all this and more.
  10. Chrisy

    Hello, want to know God

    Hello and welcome. I'm sure you will love this show and feel free to post as much as you'd like😁😁. I know how you feel. It's easy to think of God as the "Super Righteous" type who only associates with the "holy". But that isn't true, God loves all of us even the sinners. God loves us so much he sent his son to us to show us how to get closer to him and feel his presence. He still loves you and will never give up in you and that's a promiseπŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡. As i said earlier, i know how you feel. Sometimes i wonder why God even cared (cus at that time i was a baby Christian and had trouble adjusting to the Christian way of life. The BEST way) and i kept on messing up and i felt terrible. I wanted to live right and feel God's presence in my life. I never really understood what they said about being loved because i didn't feel his presence. The Bible became a story book to me and i got frustrated because i felt "unclean". I felt judged and a little envious of those who feel him but I'm here to tell you that you CAN feel his presence. 1. Sin. Remember i told you i kept messing up. As i grew older, u began to see clearly that we all sin and no one is perfect. I felt i had to be. I felt Jesus would hate me if i made even the slightest form of sin. I criticized myself so much. But don't worry I'm fine now πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜. Here's how: 1a. Salvation. While i found out that I'm not perfect i also found out that nobody else was or is. Even the greatest prophets were afraid, Jesus was tempted and a whole lot more. I gained comfort because i believed and still believe that if others with their flaws could become close to God then i can too. 1b. God's Lamb. How did this people get to know God? Simple. Through his son. As i continued in my quest to draw closer to him, i found my answer in one name-JESUS. As i said Jesus was tempted like us. He was human after all but he NEVER sinned. (Note that). We never see that Jesus stole it, Jesus killed him or Jesus lied, which means he never sinned and if he did then it would have been recorded and if it wasn't recorded then it means that God lied and we all know God never lies. Anyway, if i wanted to never sin and draw closer to God then I'd have to investigate Jesus deeper. Jesus is extremely relateable and he's really humble. I mean Jesus was human, he went through everything we go through. He wept. He was tempted. He was just like us. Jesus isn't a brute who uses his title as The King Of Kings and Lord Of Lords to demand worship or reverence. He doesn't want to just be our master he wants to be our buddy, our pal and our bestie. And he's ready to help us if we are ready. Are you ready? He came to give us what we lost when Adam and Eve sinned. Eternal life with no strings attached. I mean Good had every right to give up on us and leave us forever but he DIDN'T. He loves us and couldn't bear losing us to sin. So he probably thoughtπŸ’­πŸ’­"What shall be done to save my beloved children? ". "I can't leave heaven and they can't see me since I'm a spirit and my glory is too great for them to see. They might go blind". Just then, Jesus walks in. "What's wrong Dad? " "Nothing dear son, I'm just wondering on how i can save your brothers and sisters from sub and death. There's nothing that can be done. None of them is without sin and no one is willing to give their life for them". After hours of brainstorming together, jesus says " How about i go? " "Are you sure son?" Good asked with unexplainable joy. " Yes dad I'm sure. I love them and if it's my blood they need to be able to live like us then I'm more than happy to" Jesus said. God replied "But it isn't going to be easy. You will have so much enemies and you will endure a lot of suffering and pain. Alot of them will not accept you and will hate anything related to you. Now son,tell me can you handle that? " "Yes father. For my family i will endure anything. Even if i can't save them all, i will train others to do so and we will save the others as a family so that can know you as our one and only father." Jesus replied. "Then go my son and save them". This is my imagination is how it was in heaven. Jesus and God love us and want to relate with us but our sins are in the way and God is holy and he wants us as his children to be holy. It's part of our DNA as Christians. Also, understand that in those times when you sign and want forgiveness, you sacrifice a pure lamb (Which is precious to you) to show you are sorry. But now look at this, How many lambs will be used as a sacrifice for the whole world when they sin? And it's not like we sin once a year, we can sin everyday. So if we all sacrificed a lamb for each sin then the lambs would have been extinct and that would have caused a whole lot of problems. But Jesus gave himself up as our lamb. He sacrificed himself so that we could be free from sin and since he never sinned he was perfect and that's exactly what our wonderful Jesus did. 2. Born Again. Since Jesus gave himself up for us. We can be accepted as God's children and have an amazing relationship with him. All we have to do is accept that we are all sinners, recognise that we need Salvation and accept Jesus as our lord and personal Savior. And then our lives will be changed forever. From that day onwards i walk with the assurance that God is my dad and just like Jesus i can talk to him anytime and be assured that he hears me. 3. Prayer. Since we are children of God we have his spirit in us. And if we need to feel his presence, we can always pray. Tell him exactly how you feel. If you feel alone or just anything. 4. Live like Jesus. As i said as a baby Christian, i struggled about being the best and being "good enough". Jesus took the weight off my shoulders. I didn't have to be perfect because Jesus perfects me. He cleaned me and made me superior to sin. So i can say no to sin and live like Jesus because he lives in me. And when i fall, he lifts me up. I don't have to pretend or try to be awesome in front of him because he loves me and helps me to be just like him. When i open up u feel his presence. He encourages me and I'm proud to say that i have grown in the lord and people see Jesus in me and that they can asks see him in you too. I hope i answered your questions and that my story helps you feel better and that you successfully get closer to God. Jesus loves you!! God bless you, Chrisy.
  11. Chrisy

    I'm a journalist seeking opinions

    Welcome. You're a reporter? Awesome! Questions? Great. This site is the best if thou wants to hear opinions from Christians. But i suggest the Bible. It's the greatest gift and has tons of versions that make it easy to read. God bless you. And if you still want to ask questions. Is be happy to help.
  12. Chrisy

    Hello am new

    Welcome Laura. I love this place too. There's so much to do. It's so fun. Wish you the best. I know it will be just as amazing to you as it is to me. Welcome AGAINπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‡
  13. Chrisy

    Depression support

    Hello. Sorry about the break up. Wish u many HAPPY memories in the future. God bless you and welcome to WorthyπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‡
  14. Chrisy

    a good catechism

    Hello. Welcome to WorthyπŸ˜ŠπŸ‘‘πŸ˜€
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    Thankyou God for joining me in this Group

    Nice greeting. Glad to have you around. Welcome to the FamilyπŸ˜πŸ˜€
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