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Chrisy

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    Facebook

    Good oneπŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡
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    Modest attire

    Welcome to worthy. People mostly learn things and may not always be easily convinced. Is you want to motivate others: 1. Pray ur way in: prayer prepares you. It makes the heart of those being talked to ready to listen. Prayer opens you too how God feels. It shows you (through the Holy Spirit) what to say so you don't get nervous. 2. Get a pal:if you hope to motivate others,you have to first have a relationship with them. Be friendly. Be more focused on being a good friend than on nagging them on what and what not to wear. Because that are more likely to take you seriously when they trust and respect you. 3. Be patient: change doesn't always happen immediately so be patient. 4. Don't be too judgemental: people get defensive when they feel judged or when they feel you're trying to make them feel inferior. So when you try to motivate others remember that we all are sinners and talk to them with respect, love but with a firm voice. 5. Be a person of modesty yourself: I'd you really want to be effective, you must learn to practice what you preach. Cus people don't go to robbers to save their money so they surely won't listen to u when you preach about modesty in a fishnet blouse and mini skirt. Always listen to the Holy Spirit. Never feel that any one is any less in God's eyes. To God, people are people. It's only a Pharisee that will consider themselves higher than everyone. And that's why they are ineffective. I pray that you never develop such an attitude. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. How this made sense. All the best, Chrisy
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    Facebook

    Why facebook when you have WCF??πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‡
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    Marilyn C In Hospital

    I'll pray. Ofcourse. Please send my regards.
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    His Coming

    God bless you all. You're the bestπŸ’πŸ˜πŸ˜
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    Wife fell out of love

    Hello. I'm not an expert on love but i'll try my best😁😁. First, i want you to go back those old days when u were young and "in love", when you proposed till you both said " I do". To me it's pretty obvious that u still love ur wife. And as a lady myself, i know she loves you too. But if we love each other why is this happening? Nice question. The thing is that you fell out of love not because you're not meant for each other but you don't have your First love. You don't act the way you used to and ofcourse you can't act like that forever. Here are some things I've learned that I'll love to share with you. 1. It takes two to tango. Marriage isn't about the hubby making the wife to like what he likes or do what he wants. It's about liking or doing what he wants cus u want him to happy even if you aren't. Little things like not listening, watching only YOUR fave shows and dirtying her new floor tiles can make a lady reconsider her love for u. I'm not saying you should change yourself. I'm mean that saying little things like"thanks for making dinner honey"or"I'm sorry"or"how's my lovely wife"or something can help a whole lot. 2. Do unto others as you'd like them to do unto you. If you act nice she's way more likely to act the same way than she would when dragged counselor's office. Plus she will do it wholeheartedly. It may not be that her faith is weak. She may just not want to pray with someone who's mean to her. 3. No one is perfect. I admire that you want to solve your marriage problems but you also have your numerous flaws. Walk a mile in her shoes for a change. Search for your flaws and pray to God to help you with them. It'll do a lot of good than pointing fingers at her. 4. Prayer is the key. God should be first in ur marriage. When u have problem in ur marriage go to God in prayer. Ask for wisdom to be a great husband. She may have been against ur faith in the past because she probably doesn't believe u actually were serious about it. But when she saw u were, she supported u. Does she see u read ur bible or is just a PHASE to her. Ask yourself " Am i really serious about my walk with God?". U can also aak her. And instead of forcing her to pray, you can pray a bit louder and if she wants to she can say Amen. U can pray for her when she's sick. And u should always pray for her. U can post little Verse Of The Day sticky notes. U can casually bring up what u learnt from the Bible or something. There are a lot of ideas. Be creative. 5. Actions speak louder than words. When you say you love her do you show it or you just say it. We believe mostly what we see. Do your actions prove your love. There are a lot of ways of showing ur love. The same goes for ur Christianity. Does she see Jesus in you. The Bible says by their fruits you shall know them. I've learnt that in evangelizing, your actions are more important than anything else. Do you go against what you preach if you do repent and also ask your wife for forgiveness. That's all i can say in this. I hope everything works out and you both have a blissful marriage. Hope this makes sense
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    For Everything

    I'm gladπŸ˜‡πŸ˜‚πŸ˜πŸ˜€
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    Books of the Bible

    I love all the epistles of Paul.
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    His Coming

    Thank you all for your wise words. May God continually bless you always and forever in Jesus Name. Amen
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    I need to be saved - Will someone please pray for me?

    What you said is true. There aren't much good churches. But don't just give up. I glad you're on WCF. Where you can fellowship with strong Christians. But i have to say that if you haven't found a church then you can consider my idea of having a house fellowship. If it isn't much πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‚ All the best
  11. Hello. I know it may sound dumb but I'm worried about rapture. It's not like I'm not born again. Iaccepted Jesus as my Lord months ago but i feel like I'm not exactly Christian material. I want to grow and a lot of people have told me that I've grown spiritually but i don't feel it. I feel like no matter what i do i sin and I'm scared that one day it'll be too late for Jesus to forgive me and I'll be left behind. That's why i do my best. I'm different from how i was but is it enough. When i sin in any way, i go to God in prayer but sometimes i feel he won't forgive me anymore. I know i shouldn't beat myself up all the time but i feel terrible because I'm hurting God. I mean all God has done had been for my good. He never hurt me. He even Died for me and this is how i repay him??? I don't blame God is he decides to leave me behind and today i just watched a Youtube video about rapture so i feel guilty. I wonder if I'll even go to heaven. I mean I've met a lot of highly spiritual Christians who when compared to me make me look like a rash. They know all the words, verses, stories and everything. I don't mean to sound jealous I'm just pointing out that to Jesus when he's selecting the godly i might not be picked. It's terrible to feel like this. I want to grow. I want to be ready for his coming. Please help. Any advice will be appreciated. Thank you. God bless you
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    What I should be doing..

    Welcome. You must be quite busy. I have no idea about how adult life is. So your story is pretty fascinating. And I'm sure you'll be an awesome dad. Maybe if God pleases, I'll write a bio for you😁😁😁. Just joking. Looking forward to ur posts. Chrisy
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    I need to be saved - Will someone please pray for me?

    Hello. Happy u found WCF. It's my fave christian forum. Nice to meet you, whether the devil likes it or not you're going to be just fine. And I'm not just saying it. I mean it. I know how you feel. I'm not saying that I've watched porn before but I've had my own personal sins that took me a long time to let go of. At first you don't even realize it's a sin. Not because it isn't but because you don't want it to be so you trick yourself into believing that it isn't one. (Sorry about how sappy i soundπŸ˜πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡) You may take a direct approach to justify yourself like: "I don't see where in the Bible God specifically said porn is a sin" Or a guilty "Is it even that bad? " Then a slightly guilty "Maybe I can just a little" Then to the angry " So what if i watch porn. It's my life anyway" To the very guilty "I'll just sneak a peek i promise" To the ultra defensive and bad mouthed " How is it my fault. Jesus never had porn in his time. " To the final resignation " I need help". I'm just saying my view ( i have never been in this position so I'm sorry if anything isaid is wrong in any way. It was through using the people i know as cases that i designed these approaches.) Whichever approach you went through its over. I'm glad that you know its a sin and that is the first step: Acknowledgement. Stop justifying it. Accept that it's wrong and that you don't want to sin against God anymore. Step two: Motive. Yes as a christian I'm encouraged and glad when people come to God but i want to ask and for you to all yourself "Why do i want to give up porn? ". Because motives matter. A good gift given with a bad heart is worse than being given nothing. Is it because someone kept nagging about how it's wrong or because you're afraid of being caught. Do you really know why it's wrong? Do you really feel that it's wrong or is it because you don't want to be mocked by Christians you meet. I'm not saying that it's right or that you should continue. Please understand that you have to believe that you are dirty to be made clean. Is it because people say it is? No it should be because you know that it's wrong and believe that it's wrong and need God's help to rid yourself if it. And that's when Salvation really takes place. Step three: Jesus. To be free you have to believe Jesus. It's hard for me to put it in words but you have to believe that Jesus is real. You have to believe that he will hear you when you call on him. That if you cry unto him, he will answer you and that simply put is called faith. The fact that you believe that God loves you and came to die for you. It's a popularly preached story but do you believe it. You're free to ask questions, that's what we're here for. And if you do believe them your ready for the next step. Step four: Confession. If you've followed the steps i gave them you are pretty much ready. Start with thanks for life and a chance to have a second chance. Then tell him about how you feel. You know. About porn. How you're sorry. Acknowledge him as your Lord and Savior. Just pray as you are lead. Once you've done this you are officially a child of God. So welcome to the FamilyπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Step five: Life in Christ. I can't say much apart from the usual read your Bible and pray every day. But i do advice you do read your Bible. It's not just some book. It's God's word. A christian who doesn't read his Bible is like a rich orphan who doesn't know his inheritance. Or like carrying a gun with no ammo. Useless. The Bible has God's say and promises. If you don't know Mathew 7:7 then you'll be afraid to ask. You can't say what you don't know. It gives you an insight into how God feels about different things. It holds his promises and it's our gift from him. Our own love letter. So in times when you sin because change doesn't happen overnight. You have a solid rock to rest in because he encourages us. As a Christian, you are not perfect. The difference is that Christ perfects you and as long as you have him, everything will fall in pleasant places for you. I'm not saying its easy. It's never easy and never will be. I'm saying its WORTH IT. That's all i can give you now. And i wish you all the best. About finding a church: How's that going? Do you have a good church now? If you do, Hooray. If you don't, don't despair. Sometimes church may not be everything. I'm not saying you should give up your search for a good church. I'm saying you should atleast fellowship with other Christians in the mean time. That's why the apostles went in pairs on journeys. To have each other's company. To correct each other and grow in the lord. I have an idea: if you can go to church then let church go to you. Before you think I'm crazy, listen. I didn't say start your own church. It doesn't even have to be a church. You can have a house fellowship with people like you who are new to Christianity and are zealots. You can have a trusted Christan friend who is firm in the lord. And you can share your experiences, failures and encourage and support each other. For where two or three are gathered God is there. You can preach your faith and win souls for God's kingdom. And expand your fellowship. I know it seems a bit too ambitious but i believe in you and in Jesus at work in you. I pray that God increases in you and that you grow in the lord. Wow! What a long write-up. I'd love to type more but i have room of homework to do. Hope it makes sense. God bless you, Chrisy.
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