StartingToday Posted May 19, 2009 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 20 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/18/2009 Status: Offline Share Posted May 19, 2009 I k Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Believer1997 Posted May 19, 2009 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 66 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 6,363 Content Per Day: 1.12 Reputation: 119 Days Won: 9 Joined: 11/07/2008 Status: Offline Share Posted May 19, 2009 huh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StartingToday Posted May 19, 2009 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 20 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/18/2009 Status: Offline Author Share Posted May 19, 2009 SHOOT! ops that wasn't suppose to go through!!!! Is there a way to delete? LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angels4u Posted May 19, 2009 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 55 Topic Count: 1,664 Topics Per Day: 0.20 Content Count: 19,764 Content Per Day: 2.38 Reputation: 12,164 Days Won: 28 Joined: 08/22/2001 Status: Offline Share Posted May 19, 2009 I k Point of return hopefully?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StartingToday Posted May 19, 2009 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 20 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/18/2009 Status: Offline Author Share Posted May 19, 2009 I k Point of return hopefully?? LOL not quite, debating whether to post or not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest TheChief Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 Point of no return (in) marriage - "I DO..." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angels4u Posted May 19, 2009 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 55 Topic Count: 1,664 Topics Per Day: 0.20 Content Count: 19,764 Content Per Day: 2.38 Reputation: 12,164 Days Won: 28 Joined: 08/22/2001 Status: Offline Share Posted May 19, 2009 I k Point of return hopefully?? LOL not quite, debating whether to post or not I know talking about your marrige isn't the easiest thing to do, but there are a lot of caring Christian who might be able to give you good advice???? Love you YSIC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Believer1997 Posted May 19, 2009 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 66 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 6,363 Content Per Day: 1.12 Reputation: 119 Days Won: 9 Joined: 11/07/2008 Status: Offline Share Posted May 19, 2009 Point of no return (in) marriage - "I DO..." Unfortunately a lot of people say that but instead mean "I Might".... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StartingToday Posted May 19, 2009 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 20 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/18/2009 Status: Offline Author Share Posted May 19, 2009 Point of no return (in) marriage - "I DO..." Unfortunately a lot of people say that but instead mean "I Might".... Thats not a fair statement, not all situations are the same Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest TheChief Posted May 19, 2009 Share Posted May 19, 2009 Point of no return (in) marriage - "I DO..." Unfortunately a lot of people say that but instead mean "I Might".... Thats not a fair statement, not all situations are the same If the couple enters into marriage as the covenant which God intended it to be, the "MIGHT" would be irrelevant, as the union would be held as a sacred commitment before the Lord. Unfortunately, any couple entering into a marriage with a "Plan B" probably will need it, as they see a readily available exit strategy to the hard times that invariably will develop during any marriage. Things such as "we've fallen out of love," "I/we messed up, she/he is not the one God intended me to be with," "I/they committed adultery so we have to get a divorce," "He/she is abusing me (place way here) so I deserve to be free... Thankfully, the rate of divorce across the board has actually declined (to about 49% - Christians and nonchristians are at about the same rate). Thing is, marriages require HARD WORK. "Happily ever after" is the stuff of Hollywood; real marriage requires a daily commitment (and recomittment) between the couple and the Lord through both the highs and the lows. It is not a 50% shared deal, it is a 100% contribution on the part of both parties and a determination that, regardless of what happens, the marriage is worth saving. Adultery? The Bible PERMITS (but does not REQUIRE) divorce (Matthew 5:32; Mark 10:11, 12). Abuse? Separation certainly, for the good of the children and the person being abused (1 Corinthians 7:10, 11) but divorce is not mentioned as a remedy. Not "meant to be together? "Fallen out of love?" What about the vow/commitment/covenant you made before God (Mark 10:9). This post probably will not be popular, but that's ok, sometimes truth really does hurt, even when offered in love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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