Nitish Posted September 2, 2012 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 3 Topic Count: 75 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 126 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 53 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/04/2009 Status: Offline Birthday: 04/15/1990 Share Posted September 2, 2012 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 3, 2012 Share Posted September 3, 2012 Amen~! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Agapelove Posted October 18, 2012 Group: Removed from Forums for Breaking Terms of Service Followers: 0 Topic Count: 5 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 133 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 43 Days Won: 1 Joined: 07/07/2012 Status: Offline Birthday: 09/13/1968 Share Posted October 18, 2012 Brother Nitish.... You are so honest is so very beautiful, you are just normal brother and you are not alone in this desire for flesh, I feel stop beating your self up....you are without a woman and you self satisfy but God knows your heart. I disagree with much that is said here but I will say you will have to have tp learn self control, and one day you will see that God loves you just as you are ! Love sis x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JTC Posted October 19, 2012 Group: Royal Member Followers: 18 Topic Count: 200 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2,795 Content Per Day: 0.64 Reputation: 1,502 Days Won: 1 Joined: 06/25/2012 Status: Offline Birthday: 07/26/1952 Share Posted October 19, 2012 Brother Nitish, I absolutely agree with you. But are you aware that today many girls and young women also struggle with lust? They just aren't as vocal about as we are. But I'm asking them to be so. Girls and you women, please tell us what we do that fires up your lust for us. Maybe it isn't so much how we dress, but I'll bet that's part of it. Tell us men , what you would prefer we men didn’t do because it makes it harder for you to keep your mind on God? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MorningGlory Posted October 19, 2012 Group: Royal Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1,022 Topics Per Day: 0.16 Content Count: 39,193 Content Per Day: 6.09 Reputation: 9,977 Days Won: 78 Joined: 10/01/2006 Status: Offline Share Posted October 19, 2012 Brother Nitish, I absolutely agree with you. But are you aware that today many girls and young women also struggle with lust? They just aren't as vocal about as we are. But I'm asking them to be so. Girls and you women, please tell us what we do that fires up your lust for us. Maybe it isn't so much how we dress, but I'll bet that's part of it. Tell us men , what you would prefer we men didn’t do because it makes it harder for you to keep your mind on God? As a single woman I definitely look at men. I really can't think of anything a man could do that would make me think lustful thoughts though; I would have to be in liove with a man to think in those terms. I believe that, for most women, it's the desire to feel secure that drives the hunt for a man. Of course if he looks like George Clooney all bets are off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OldShep Posted October 19, 2012 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 20 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 934 Content Per Day: 0.20 Reputation: 137 Days Won: 6 Joined: 07/20/2011 Status: Offline Birthday: 02/12/1950 Share Posted October 19, 2012 Nice find Nitish, may the Lord Keep you pure for your wife, if your not already married. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nitish Posted October 21, 2012 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 3 Topic Count: 75 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 126 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 53 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/04/2009 Status: Offline Birthday: 04/15/1990 Author Share Posted October 21, 2012 I really didn't post this video to hurt anyone, just shared how it's hard for guys like me in this area...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MorningGlory Posted October 21, 2012 Group: Royal Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1,022 Topics Per Day: 0.16 Content Count: 39,193 Content Per Day: 6.09 Reputation: 9,977 Days Won: 78 Joined: 10/01/2006 Status: Offline Share Posted October 21, 2012 I really didn't post this video to hurt anyone, just shared how it's hard for guys like me in this area...... After reading all of the posts, Nitish, I don't believe you have hurt anyone. You just made us all think....and that's a good thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LadyC Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 sadly, i believe most (if not all) young women are keenly aware of the affect their immodest attire has on men. i disagree that 'if they only knew' the thoughts that men were thinking, that maybe they'd reconsider what they wear. the truth is, and it's a depressing truth, if they are NOT getting that reaction from men, the young woman feels like she's failing. the good news is we grow up. not soon enough to help the young men guard their hearts against their struggle, but we do, eventually, learn the value of being a proverbs 31 kind of woman. JTC, as for what young men do to cause young women to stumble, i don't think it has much to do with what they wear. it's more in the actions. i think it's much easier for guys to NOT behave provocatively. girls are conditioned from childhood to attract the attention of men. guys have to work harder at it. they have to go out of their way. it's hard to describe, because it can be in the way they lock eyes with a girl. or it can be in a seemingly casual touch. or in the way they say something to the one they're attracted to. it's almost more like an artistic talent that guys have to develop... it's more subtle. girls are all over the place. they're just out there. everything about the way they dress, glance, touch, speak, is screaming for attention. i really enjoyed the video, nitish. i actually wish i had heard this years ago. like i said, back then i knew the affect i had, and that's what my goal was, i may have reconsidered if i'd realized there were actually GOOD guys out there that i was hurting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
He giveth more grace Posted October 21, 2012 Group: Royal Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 123 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 2,049 Content Per Day: 0.32 Reputation: 267 Days Won: 9 Joined: 10/22/2006 Status: Offline Share Posted October 21, 2012 I want modesty, I really do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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