Guest LadyC Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 another thing to ponder... how you handle this situation, in other words how you treat your daughter now and from this point forward, will deeply influence how she values herself and what kind of mate she will eventually choose. abandoning her now will drastically increase the odds that she will choose a mate later in life who will treat her as though she is worthless, because that's how she would view herself in a relationship of any significance. so handle with care... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn33 Posted February 5, 2015 Group: Junior Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 4 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 87 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 31 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/30/2014 Status: Offline Share Posted February 5, 2015 Marriedguy, There is so much good advice on this this post. Do not abandon your daughter. You are far,far more than a sperm donor. I am praying for your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petula Posted February 6, 2015 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 8 Topic Count: 3 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1,499 Content Per Day: 0.43 Reputation: 1,665 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/17/2014 Status: Offline Birthday: 03/31/1955 Share Posted February 6, 2015 Please listen to the excellent advice you have received. I was badly injured in an accident ,my beautiful christian husband of 20 years left me and 3 children17,13 and 4 years. He began a new life and a new family ,rarely seeing our children. That was 18 years ago. GOD has been with us amazingly,but, each of my children struggle with their self worth Each has had dread full problems because of abandament,but I praise GOD for his many miracles in their lives and he has never abandoned us. I beg of you , hold tight to your daughter. Get counseling, Praying ..GOD bless you all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tigger398 Posted February 6, 2015 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 6 Topic Count: 562 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 2,074 Content Per Day: 0.31 Reputation: 648 Days Won: 2 Joined: 11/01/2005 Status: Offline Birthday: 05/31/1966 Share Posted February 6, 2015 Please I'm saying from experience a daughter needs a father. You don't want to miss out on birthdays and graduations or wedding. Someday you will have grand children. Let me say this children will grow up real fast. Then you will say wow I missed it. Just be there. You might regret it. Cause a child is a gift from above. Maybe your wife and daughter can have a girls night out. Just the two of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Zion* Posted February 6, 2015 Group: Royal Member Followers: 16 Topic Count: 154 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3,245 Content Per Day: 0.78 Reputation: 2,397 Days Won: 9 Joined: 12/09/2012 Status: Offline Birthday: 05/11/1984 Share Posted February 6, 2015 Please I'm saying from experience a daughter needs a father. You don't want to miss out on birthdays and graduations or wedding. Someday you will have grand children. Let me say this children will grow up real fast. Then you will say wow I missed it. Just be there. You might regret it. Cause a child is a gift from above. Maybe your wife and daughter can have a girls night out. Just the two of them. Not if she already feels so threatened by an innocent child. I would keep an eye on her at all times while she's around your daughter. You know what people are capable of, and this woman does not seem to fear God or have any desire of His commandments/guidance or she wouldn't be acting like this in the first place. I don't want to scare you, but I'm just saying... better to be safe than sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
appy Posted February 6, 2015 Group: Royal Member Followers: 23 Topic Count: 133 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 2,864 Content Per Day: 0.61 Reputation: 2,596 Days Won: 2 Joined: 08/07/2011 Status: Offline Share Posted February 6, 2015 The new wife is NOT a Christian and does not want to get to know the daughter. She wants the daughter out of his life completely. She is very insecure and needs to speak with a counselor about her fears if this marriage is to work. I think it would be good if we prayed for her to experience repentance and salvation and also that she not only is willing to seek counseling, but continue counseling sessions as needed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Zion* Posted February 6, 2015 Group: Royal Member Followers: 16 Topic Count: 154 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3,245 Content Per Day: 0.78 Reputation: 2,397 Days Won: 9 Joined: 12/09/2012 Status: Offline Birthday: 05/11/1984 Share Posted February 6, 2015 By the way Tigger, I didn't mean to disagree with you per se, you have a good heart and you want the best Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted February 6, 2015 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,993 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,691 Content Per Day: 11.75 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted February 6, 2015 Your wife is very selfish and jealous.You need counseling if your wife will go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alien224 Posted February 7, 2015 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 8 Topic Count: 82 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1,762 Content Per Day: 0.38 Reputation: 869 Days Won: 2 Joined: 08/09/2011 Status: Offline Birthday: 02/24/1964 Share Posted February 7, 2015 Praying. I kind of know the feeling as I have an adult special needs child. Men want me to abandon him. They are very helpful and supportive at first but as soon as we spend any time together the first thing they want me to do is "get rid of him" so single I guess I will stay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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