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Why God hates divorce - an alternate look


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1 minute ago, enoob57 said:

he is where God holds the responsibility toward!

Can you restate in plain English?

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The husband is where God holds the responsibility toward!

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22 minutes ago, mikefromwichita said:

Sooooooo, your claim is that the fault in a failed marriage routinely lies with the husband?

Mike, the post has nothing to do with marital-problem blaming. The author is speaking about divorce in the context of spousal abuse. 

I even made a personal note under the link with regards to genders. Did you see it?

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45 minutes ago, nebula said:

Mike, the post has nothing to do with marital-problem blaming. The author is speaking about divorce in the context of spousal abuse. 

I even made a personal note under the link with regards to genders. Did you see it?

Reality is that women are more likely to be abusive than are men, sooooo again why are you blaming ONLY men?

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36 minutes ago, nebula said:

Mike, the post has nothing to do with marital-problem blaming. The author is speaking about divorce in the context of spousal abuse. 

I even made a personal note under the link with regards to genders. Did you see it?

Agreed, but the idea of spousal abuse in our society has the tenancy to be directed to the husband.  Women can be just as, if not more abusive. The oly difference is that most of that type of abuse is emotional which fosters scars that are even more destructive than physical scars and last far longer.  I've always said that the best weapon in man's arsenal of fighting against women is his hat. Put on the darn thing and leave the house. Go to your minister. Go to a family therapist and create a visible record of the deterioration of the family life, so that if separation or divorce becomes the only viable option, there is something that can be pointed to. Keeping things bottled up is a surefire way of creating a powder keg just waiting to explode.

 

Note, I still think that Adultery is the only thing that God will allow a marriage to end for, which means that entering into marriage should not be taken quickly or lightly. This is a contract with God.

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8 minutes ago, mikefromwichita said:

Reality is that women are more likely to be abusive than are men, sooooo again why are you blaming ONLY men?

I don't know about him, but I know that wmen talk about their problems and men tend to go out an bark at the Moon. Men's egos have landed them in far too many instances that might have been prevented if he had reached out. Reaching out to God, first would be a given to me, but he should also need to reach out to the Church so that knowledge of any issues could verified if the incident escalates. I think the lions share of societies mindset for males always being at fault is that no one hears anything from the male perspective before the police is called in.

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31 minutes ago, mikefromwichita said:

Reality is that women are more likely to be abusive than are men,

Where did you get this information from?

 

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sooooo again why are you blaming ONLY men?

The writing is about divorce in the context of spousal abuse with relation to what is written in Scripture.

If you have a problem with what is written, go grip to to the author who actually wrote the words I inserted into the post.

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I feel like creating a poll:

How many different ways can this thread be hijacked?

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1 minute ago, nebula said:

I feel like creating a poll:

How many different ways can this thread be hijacked?

Two ways. The Liberal way and the Conservative way.

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