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So I met this woman and we clicked like never before. Long story short she is married but they recently were separated. He cheated on her.   She forgave him and got back with him for the kids sake and not really for herself. 
She says he works long hours but he doesn't have to. She thinks he's cheating because he's always hanging out with a female co-worker. Anyways,  we talked as friends and we ended up becoming really close and one thing led to another and we slept together.   So we both felt guilty and decided to back off and not even see each other.  But we still text and talk. 
We talk about being together but she doesn't want to just leave her marriage.  
I feel like a hypocritical fool.  What recommendations do you have for us at this point?

I can't seem to reply on this website when people reply. So I'll post my reply here. ....

 Ok. So what if time goes by and she happens to get divorced? Should i allow her back into my life?

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Welcome.  The answer is a no brainer.  Run!  Never communicate with her again.  

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It's NOT worth it to continue.  She's NOT going to leave her family.

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cobalt is right....  walk away from the situation...

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