Figure of eighty Posted March 26, 2022 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 242 Topics Per Day: 0.12 Content Count: 1,562 Content Per Day: 0.77 Reputation: 877 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/15/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted March 26, 2022 So today is my daughter's bday. Plans got rearranged bc my refund came late and i did a little bday celebration at my house but were gonna take her out to a cute baby play area later. Now, i didnt invite the dad to my house bc he said some really nasty things to me. But he will be invited to the baby play area and will be able to take her home. I feel he shouldve been there but idk i feel i shouldnt have to tolerate disrespect. What do you think?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladypeartree Posted March 26, 2022 Group: Royal Member Followers: 37 Topic Count: 540 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 32,867 Content Per Day: 5.04 Reputation: 23,578 Days Won: 228 Joined: 06/21/2006 Status: Online Birthday: 02/23/1953 Share Posted March 26, 2022 people will treat you in the way that you accept being treated ...do you want your daughter to be treated like that ? If not then it is only YOU that will teach her by your actions even more than by your words what is right and what is wrong 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Figure of eighty Posted March 26, 2022 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 242 Topics Per Day: 0.12 Content Count: 1,562 Content Per Day: 0.77 Reputation: 877 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/15/2018 Status: Offline Author Share Posted March 26, 2022 (edited) 26 minutes ago, ladypeartree said: people will treat you in the way that you accept being treated ...do you want your daughter to be treated like that ? If not then it is only YOU that will teach her by your actions even more than by your words what is right and what is wrong Not at all. Thats why i didnt allow him in my house. However she is his daughter. I dont want to be petty and be a difficult coparent. He will be able to come to the indoor play area and take her home and be with her. Im just trying to be fair while also having boundaries. You know? But you're right. I would stand by my daughter if she did the same and was treated the way i was. Edited March 26, 2022 by Figure of eighty 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnOrangeCat Posted March 26, 2022 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 5 Topic Count: 57 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1,412 Content Per Day: 0.27 Reputation: 1,833 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/24/2009 Status: Offline Share Posted March 26, 2022 It seems fine to me. Sounds like you're being pretty reasonable about it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted March 26, 2022 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,992 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,690 Content Per Day: 11.79 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted March 26, 2022 1 hour ago, Figure of eighty said: So today is my daughter's bday. Plans got rearranged bc my refund came late and i did a little bday celebration at my house but were gonna take her out to a cute baby play area later. Now, i didnt invite the dad to my house bc he said some really nasty things to me. But he will be invited to the baby play area and will be able to take her home. I feel he shouldve been there but idk i feel i shouldnt have to tolerate disrespect. What do you think?? Self respect is important. If the man was verbally abusive to you then you made a good decision in not inviting him. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Figure of eighty Posted March 26, 2022 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 242 Topics Per Day: 0.12 Content Count: 1,562 Content Per Day: 0.77 Reputation: 877 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/15/2018 Status: Offline Author Share Posted March 26, 2022 1 hour ago, missmuffet said: Self respect is important. If the man was verbally abusive to you then you made a good decision in not inviting him. It is important. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TreeFivew Posted June 26, 2022 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 17 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 160 Content Per Day: 0.22 Reputation: 45 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/23/2022 Status: Offline Share Posted June 26, 2022 I know this post is from a few months back, but I looked for a verse for a situation such as yours. I thought this was interesting: Romans 14:19 So then let us pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding. In my opinion, you pursued what made for peace in that moment. You seemed to avoid what could’ve been conflict. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HAZARD Posted June 26, 2022 Group: Royal Member Followers: 11 Topic Count: 320 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 6,830 Content Per Day: 0.84 Reputation: 3,570 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/16/2002 Status: Offline Share Posted June 26, 2022 (edited) On 3/27/2022 at 1:30 AM, Figure of eighty said: So today is my daughter's bday. Plans got rearranged bc my refund came late and i did a little bday celebration at my house but were gonna take her out to a cute baby play area later. Now, i didnt invite the dad to my house bc he said some really nasty things to me. But he will be invited to the baby play area and will be able to take her home. I feel he shouldve been there but idk i feel i shouldnt have to tolerate disrespect. What do you think?? No, If he disrespects you you can decide when and where you want him to be involved in yours and your daughters life. Colossians 3: 21, Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged. The Bible tells us that God loves His daughters and the children that they bear. Whenever God gives one of His daughters to a man, He desires that the man love, care, protect, and provide for her. In no way does the Scripture teach that women and children be considered second rate or inferior to men. God finds them so special that He asks for special care to be given them; care that only Biblically-based men can provide. It is without a doubt that women are quite capable of taking care of themselves. However, God created men and women to be physically different. And due to the physical nature and strength that God gave men, He has charged them with the provision and protection of their families. However, the physical nature and strength of a man are to be managed with grace and gentleness. Edited June 26, 2022 by HAZARD 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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