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Hey everyone,

i am very upset over everything i am about to tell and just need your help

here is the story....awhile back i went out with a guy who was alittle to handsey

and i guess then i couldnt see what i was doing was wrong but some how my mom

found i kissed this person on church grounds (i know horrible but i changed myself)

anyway we were forced to break up i hardly ever see him and when i do he is

the same person i new almost a year ago (and that is not a good thing)

i see him at wal mart cursing and using the lords name horribly and i told myself

about two weeks ago if i ever saw him somewhere or some how got to talk to him

online i would witness to him and tonight i heard from him i was so happy i was almost

crying, so i decieded it would be better for me to ask my mother to speak with him

just about Christ and she said no i begged and pleaded with her but she did not give

and i know i am the only one he will actually listen to me because he thinks he loves me

and he is rude to other people who try to witness to him and after she said no i was so sad

what should i do? should i still try to wittness to him or have in the back of my mind that he is going to

hell if i dont do anything? Please write back with any suggestions....sorry this was so long i had to tell someone

-Danielle

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why not witness to him. Dont be surprised though if you find a different person in him.. i surely wouldnt trust him if i was you.

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It may be difficult to keep emotions and motives straight. You may be a witness, but God can also bring someone else across his path to influence him. His relationship or lack thereof his between him and God. You are not responsible for his choices. You are not his messiah. Be a witness, but do not compromise your convictions.

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Thank you

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I would say witness to him and then leave it all in the Lord's hands...I know how you feel cause I've been there myself. We can speak the truth about Christ but it is the Holy Spirit that does the drawing and convicting Amen!

Bless you

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I guess you are right

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so i decieded it would be better for me to ask my mother to speak with him

just about Christ and she said no i begged and pleaded with her but she did not give

and i know i am the only one he will actually listen to me because he thinks he loves me

and he is rude to other people who try to witness to him and after she said no i was so sad

what should i do?

Danielle,

As hard as it is to leave it right now, if your mom told you not to talk to him, you should obey your mom. You can pray that the Lord would either change you mom's mind, or that He would send someone else to witness to your friend who he will listen to.

Your mom has your best in mind in her decisions, and I am sure she is just afraid that you will be pulled back into a bad situation. When you have lived in such a way that she knows she can trust your judgement, she will probably give you more leeway. Trust is earned, not just given. If you sneak behind her back, even if it is to witness, you will make her think you are not to be trusted.

You friend's salvation is not in your hands, it is in the Lord's. Pray for him to send someone who can do the job. :unsure: I will be praying too. Let us know how this goes.

IR :il:

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