ISO a new church

[ray]

Hello! I'm in ISO (In Search of) a new church? what are some things I should look out for?

Thanks

ray

[Guest Called]

I would look for a church that has a clear vision, where the people are friendly and there is an aptmosphere of love and unity. I would make sure the pastor is preaching holiness and not watered down doctrine and that the church is on fire for God and that they recognize the Holy Spirit and His gifts. That is just my opinion, but it may give you some ideas.

[gop_jeff]

The ideal church should be firm in its belief in Jesus and in the Bible. It should also be a church where you feel comfortable attending, in terms of people, worship style, size, etc., which of course is up to the individual - my ideal church is going to be different from yours because of that. But as long as their teachings are correct, and the people in the church are dedicated to following Christ, you should be all right! :t3:

[barracuda]

Hello! I'm in ISO (In Search of) a new church? what are some things I should look out for?

Thanks

ray

I asked the very same question a few years ago when I was ISO a new church. Here were my former pastor's answers...

1. Does the Church love all people?

Especially those not like themselves.

2. Does the Church know it's purpose, mission?

3. Are they Christ centered and Biblical?

4. Do they reach out to the community w/ the love of Christ--

not just w/ words but action?

5. Do people of the congregation laugh?

I highlighted #5 specifically because my present church seems to not have a sense of humor. The pastor's are so afraid of offending anyone with their behavior that they end up hiding in their offices and speaking so little to people outside of services. They are so scared of gossip that there is actually no communication going on at all. And a lot of things you find out about after the fact. Certain events just happen and everyone talks about it after the fact and I am like, "When was this"? Totally clueless.

A church must really express itself outwardly in love. I am involved in a great teaching church where the word is vibrantly taught and shared. But the love is not there. Sure, there is fellowship, but there doesn't seem to be geniune love shown towards others. If you are outwardly loving all who come, then the laughter will come.

Just my two cents.

[stevehut]

Ray,

Why are you looking for a change?

And where do you live?

[ray]

Stevehut said

Ray,

Why are you looking for a change?

And where do you live?

There are many reasons. Unfortunatly change is difficult regardless the circumanstances. Although I did not want the change to occur there seems to be no option. Well of course there is always an option but for situation it is just best to move on. I'm actually starting to feel happy about the change although I leave many good friends behind after 40 years in one place. One of the reasons I stated in another post called forgiveness.

I live where ever my Lord leads me.

ray

[BoldlyProclaimingChrist]

Keep in mind that no matter what church you find, there will never be one exactly to your specifications. Expect some small differences when scouting a new church. The first thing I would do is get their Statement of Faith. I would attend to make sure that they are not compromising the Word at all. I personally do not like huge churches because in my experience, they have too many programs and activities, hi-tech powerpoint presentations complete with all the bells and whistles, a rockin' Christian band reminiscent of secular music today, and I personally think all of this detracts from the main purpose for being there....the Word. I also look for balance somewhat meaning do they preach longer than the music and announcements? Or not? I think it should be a little unbalanced in favor of teaching. But that's just my preference so please - no underhanded comments from anyone is necessary. Again, this is just my preference.

Of course always pray before you atttend and ask the Lord to give you heightened discernment.

[ted]

Check out the church's "fellowship" night food!

t.

[stevehut]

I live where ever my Lord leads me.

Ok, how about this...Where do you live today? City, state? Maybe I can recommend a place...

[stevehut]

5. Do people of the congregation laugh?

I highlighted #5 specifically because my present church seems to not have a sense of humor. The pastor's are so afraid of offending anyone with their behavior that they end up hiding in their offices and speaking so little to people outside of services.

*hehe* yup.