thehopefulcry2 Posted February 23, 2010 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 24 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 90 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 27 Days Won: 3 Joined: 08/16/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/02/1984 Share Posted February 23, 2010 Im 25 and I have been feeling so strongly that I need a child. Not want. NEED. I dream about it, think about it, it consumes me. I learned today the Lust is just not sexual, it is anything thing you want really badly and cannot have. (right now I cannot have that) I feel so empty. I just wish I could stay asleep and dream about being pregnant and having a baby. I cry and it feel depressed all day. Im so happy in my dreams... like finally. I want it so bad it feels like Im being emotionally stabbed when I wake up. What do I do? Is this normal? I feel so lost. Please help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fraught Posted February 23, 2010 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 105 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1,741 Content Per Day: 0.28 Reputation: 28 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/23/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 07/30/1959 Share Posted February 23, 2010 Oh. I feel for you. I don't know if it's normal or not but I believe it is important to examine any desire. Try to fully and truthfully analyze WHY you want this. Remember that you are in charge of your own emotions so take some time to think logically about it and figure out why you feel this way. That approach has helped me in the past with some things. And, of course, even just talking about it like you have might help also. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nebula Posted February 23, 2010 Group: Royal Member Followers: 10 Topic Count: 5,823 Topics Per Day: 0.75 Content Count: 45,870 Content Per Day: 5.94 Reputation: 1,897 Days Won: 83 Joined: 03/22/2003 Status: Offline Birthday: 11/19/1970 Share Posted February 23, 2010 It's normal for a woman to want to have a baby. The best thing you can do is ask the Lord what He would have you do with this desire. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jmlusa2000 Posted February 23, 2010 Group: Royal Member Followers: 5 Topic Count: 53 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 823 Content Per Day: 0.15 Reputation: 217 Days Won: 6 Joined: 02/01/2009 Status: Offline Birthday: 10/13/1981 Share Posted February 23, 2010 God has a plan for you. Put all your trust in Him. I will be praying for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgedrw81 Posted February 23, 2010 Group: Royal Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 7 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1,823 Content Per Day: 0.33 Reputation: 36 Days Won: 2 Joined: 04/10/2009 Status: Offline Share Posted February 23, 2010 Praying Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trusting Jesus Posted February 23, 2010 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 66 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2,050 Content Per Day: 0.34 Reputation: 22 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/12/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 09/09/1952 Share Posted February 23, 2010 Wanting a baby is not unusual especially for a person your age. Remember that God will fill your every need and it you cannot have a baby right now, submit to His will. I was 38 when I had my baby, and she really was/is worth waiting for. The love you will have for a baby when the time is right can be used now to love other babies. Could you volunteer in your church nursery? Or maybe teach Sunday school to youngsters? I would suggest that you find something to fill your mind -- a new hobby, or studying something new. <>< ><> Nathele Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagleswings Posted February 23, 2010 Group: Senior Member Followers: 5 Topic Count: 91 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 613 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 7 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/09/2005 Status: Offline Birthday: 04/02/1959 Share Posted February 23, 2010 Praying for you......Not my will be done oh Lord but thine.....I take it your not married...and if not... then maybe one day you will and have lots of children too....I don't know.. don't want to give you false hope...but doing the will of God is truely the only pathway that makes us happy...really joyouslyl happy and content.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vlad Posted February 23, 2010 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 5 Topic Count: 5 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 470 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 171 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/02/2009 Status: Offline Birthday: 04/07/1946 Share Posted February 23, 2010 Praying! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Blien Posted February 23, 2010 Group: Royal Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 346 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 3,050 Content Per Day: 0.50 Reputation: 46 Days Won: 3 Joined: 10/02/2007 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/26/1982 Share Posted February 23, 2010 Im 25 and I have been feeling so strongly that I need a child. Not want. NEED. I dream about it, think about it, it consumes me. I learned today the Lust is just not sexual, it is anything thing you want really badly and cannot have. (right now I cannot have that) I feel so empty. I just wish I could stay asleep and dream about being pregnant and having a baby. I cry and it feel depressed all day. Im so happy in my dreams... like finally. I want it so bad it feels like Im being emotionally stabbed when I wake up. What do I do? Is this normal? I feel so lost. Please help There is a book I've been reading called God is a Matchmaker by Derek Prince. It talks about his two experiances on how he got married and God's method in it.. very very insightful. Please take a look at it. It will help. But we've all been through this. The devil is attacking you to feel depressed, this is NOT from God. Just hang tough, I know how hard it is and I will pray for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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