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omg i know this is wrong, but i went to school about a week ago and i have a major crush on my chem teacher. he said hes in his 30's but he looks like maybe 27. the other day we did an expierment and i asked him a question omg he was staring at my "chested area" and i know he was cuz when i said the question he was like oh yes... and then answered it. i dunno, but i think he likes me too. im just afraid to make a move cuz one ppl in my class could fine out and two maybe he just likes to stare and not really like me and three hes married. i dunno what to do cuz i really like him a lot... maybe if we kept it on the dl ya know, but i have a bf as well. i dunno should i make a move, cuz i keep having these fantasies with me and him and i think he is too, i can tell by his voice.

but than yesterday (friday) he asked to talk to me after class which i have it 3rd hr so it was kind of odd cuz he knows i have class right after. he gave me a piece of paper with his phone number well it looked like a cell number and i was kind of suspicous he said i could call him if i have a ? about a problem/equation thing so i didnt think anything of it. he also said i could call him chad and now that i think about it more i really think he wants to persue this. i figure of we can keep it on dl it should be fine. i really like him more than just physical and i know he feels the same way about me now.

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oh, oh, oh!

please don't act on this. your first statement was right... it's completely wrong. you know that it's wrong, and he knows that it's wrong.

if you truly like him, and he really likes this, y'all should let this go. if you act on your lusts, it will hurt more people than you can imagine.


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Your 16 he is 27-30? hmmm... for some reason this guy sounds weird... Like um sick weird... i alway hear of these kind of movies on Life time and the outcome isn't pretty. and all the movies on life time are true stories...

If i were you i would... i don't know it just looks fishy...


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shorti,

with as much love as I can put into this response, stop.

He cares nothing for you, only his lusts. He will hurt you bad. I know you are confused about the subject, but ask yourself a few questions.

Is he willing to give up his career for you?

Is he willing to give up his marriage for you?

Is he willing to go to prison for you?

If the answer is truly yes to either of these, is this the type of man that God has in store for you?

These three things are exactly what is going to happen if you fall deeper into this.

Please talk to someone you trust and get things into perspective. This man is not going to stop with just you and has probably hurt others in that school.

May God put a hedge of protection around you in the coming days.

t.


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Shorti, here's the best advice I have for you: switch classes. Take the class from a fat, old lady!!!!!


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Shorti, here's the best advice I have for you: switch classes. Take the class from a fat, old lady!!!!!

LOL :huh:

Leonard said that with much love!!! :il:


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Dear Shorti,

This is just my opinion. You don't have to accept it if you don't like it. DISCLAIMER: I am not a christian.

It is inappropriate and against the law in most states for a 30 year old to be having a physical relationship with a 16 year old. It is also inappropriate for a teacher to bring about such a relationship with a student (no matter what age). Likewise, it is inappropriate for a person to act on their fantasies with a teacher, or a married person, or a person that already is committed to a bf/gf.

There is a difference between fantasy and trying to make an inappropriate fantasy reality. IMHO, the former is OK, the latter is definitely not OK.

Regards,

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Here are a few words that come to mind:

UNDER-AGE

CRIME

LAWSUIT

My brother has prosecuted men like your chem teacher. Don't fantasize or romanticize that which is sin. It's illegal. It's sin. Period. Flee.

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I had a teacher like that one time. Handsome as he could be and every girl in the class thought he liked them. So there you go. More than likely if he's noticing you, he's also noticing the rest of the girls in the class. The age difference in my experience with that teacher was about the same as what you indicated. He probably knows he's cute and knows other girls think he is too. His ego is what is driving him. He's too old for you. Be sure and listen to what Tess had to say about it, cause it's true. You don't want to go there.

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SHORTI STOP!!!

No way does this guy like you in the way you are hoping. Everything everyone else has said is 100% true. Listen to them please.

Every girl has a crush on her teacher at one time or another, that is quite natural. What is un-natural is him displaying inapropriate affection for you.

Love

YSIC

Faithie :hug:

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