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Sooo... I like...no REALLY like this guy.. his name is Josh and he is a Christian as well. We like the same kinds of everything and he even likes potatoe chips in his ham sammichs!! He has a passion to learn more in God (gave himself over to God in May) I've told him of my struggles and recent battle with food.. he understands! Thing is... he hasn't given any hint whether he likes me. He said I'm the first person in a long time to make him feel wanted, needed and he likes that but hasn't said if he likes me. Infact we haven't so much as touched skin. We went to the movies today and he didn't so much as ACCIDENTLY touch my hand...NOTHING!

I think I should just tell him but I don't want to look like a idiot and lose atleast a friend...but I don't want to JUST be friends...

Guys: why are men so blind?

Women: what do you think I should do to not look like an idiot but also possibly save the friendship if I fail?

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There is nothing better than marrying your best friend. My husband and I were friends for two years before we moved up to the 'dating' stage. Don't rush it, don't look desperate, just take it for what it is and it will grow into something amazing in it's own time. My husband and I weren't even aware that we liked each other that way. His dog knew before we did. The longer you can be friends the better and stronger the next step will be when it happens.

I have been with my husband for over 20 years and it just keeps getting better and better. Why? I think because I married my best friend and nothing was ever rushed.

But . of course, this is all just my personal opinion:)


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Sooo... I like...no REALLY like this guy.. his name is Josh and he is a Christian as well. We like the same kinds of everything and he even likes potatoe chips in his ham sammichs!! He has a passion to learn more in God (gave himself over to God in May) I've told him of my struggles and recent battle with food.. he understands! Thing is... he hasn't given any hint whether he likes me. He said I'm the first person in a long time to make him feel wanted, needed and he likes that but hasn't said if he likes me. Infact we haven't so much as touched skin. We went to the movies today and he didn't so much as ACCIDENTLY touch my hand...NOTHING!

I think I should just tell him but I don't want to look like a idiot and lose atleast a friend...but I don't want to JUST be friends...

Guys: why are men so blind?

Women: what do you think I should do to not look like an idiot but also possibly save the friendship if I fail?

thanks

Being a Guy, were affraid of rejection! Yes, just like women, we have feeling too lol. Depending on the type of guy there are numerous things that you must keep in mind.... Hes probably very nervous, he doesnt want to take things too fast because quote "he hasnt felt this way in a very long time," I could continue on about what stopping him from asking you out but I will get to the chase. He certainly likes you. Its very hard to get most if not all men to open up. If he has already told you how he kinda feels about you, your doing pretty good. Another thing I must add is since he told you how he kinda feels, what did you say to that? As men, we drop a few "hooks" to see if a woman is interested. Maybe you did bite and maybe you didnt all I know is yo need to bite harder LOL.... From a males prospective, he likes you

~Good luck and God bless


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Lol thanks Jacob, when Josh told me his kind-of-feelings, I asked him what it is he would like in a woman, he said "you have exactly what I'm looking for"..But then quickly turned back to his food.. I just smiled and watched him Lord knows I'm also nervous (been hurt bad before) so... I suppose taking things slow is best, I'm going at his pace. He likes to do MMA Fighting and he invited me to see him fight tonight in just a few hours. He said he would also teach me self defense and boxing, I believe he was flirting when he said "not all girls can punch you have pretty hands, you sure you dont want to break a nail?"...I punched him a good one and he laughed...I love his laugh! :) Gosh I'm just stuck as to what to say to him tonight (he isnt too talkative) and I don't want the car ride to be dead silence...I suppose the lord will provide my heart with the words he needs to hear. Pray for him also that he has a safe fight and doesn't get too hurt..

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It's complicated! It sounds like he is telling you he likes you.

Want some advice as to the next step?

As him to teach you some self defense. In a controlled environment, with other people about....


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So, lastnight on the ride home I told Josh how I felt, I just out right said it I turned off the radio and said "Okay, Josh I don't exactly know how you feel but I can't hold it in any more"... He looked at me weird but I continued with " Josh, you have been a great friend for a long time, I love that we can talk about anything but lately you've been really nervous and I know you like me and it's okay to not have the words. But, I do and I need to say this and if you don't want to hang out anymore then fine... Josh, I like you a lot and have for a while and I would really like to take this further, slowly but further".. I took a long breath and that man just smiled and took my hand... I sat there a bit purturbed but happy to have his hand in mine... and guess what!!! He kissed me good night when I dropped him off back home! I was soooooo speachless :)


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So, lastnight on the ride home I told Josh how I felt, I just out right said it I turned off the radio and said "Okay, Josh I don't exactly know how you feel but I can't hold it in any more"... He looked at me weird but I continued with " Josh, you have been a great friend for a long time, I love that we can talk about anything but lately you've been really nervous and I know you like me and it's okay to not have the words. But, I do and I need to say this and if you don't want to hang out anymore then fine... Josh, I like you a lot and have for a while and I would really like to take this further, slowly but further".. I took a long breath and that man just smiled and took my hand... I sat there a bit purturbed but happy to have his hand in mine... and guess what!!! He kissed me good night when I dropped him off back home! I was soooooo speachless :)

lol Good deal!!! Hurray lol

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So, I'm kinda frustrated... Josh said he does like me and wants to go out but he isn't over his Ex yet (she left him which caused him to attempt suicide a few months ago) so I was shocked but told him I am very patient and can wait while he figure out what he needs to. He invited me to another fight yesterday, he got hurt I went to the hospital with him (he broke his nose) He is okay though, on the ride home I told him he looked goofy with the big bandage on his face which got him to laugh a little... he kissed my cheek before he got out but it's confusing...he says he wants to move on but wanting to and being ready to are two different things... pray for him, healing physically and spiritually. his poor nose is pretty bad.. but he won the fight! :)


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my wife had feelings for me looong before I had any for her, in fact it was a good 7-8 months before I started really getting romantic towards her. She waited for me to make the first move, and it was a wise choice-if she had made the first move, i prolly woulda run the opposite way lol. With that being said, youve told him your feelings, let him process them and give him space to breath. It sounds like there might be somethin there. Now, dont mistake that for saying stay away-still hang out, be his best friend, what Im saying is, let him make the next move. Just my .02 cents. :D


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my wife had feelings for me looong before I had any for her, in fact it was a good 7-8 months before I started really getting romantic towards her. She waited for me to make the first move, and it was a wise choice-if she had made the first move, i prolly woulda run the opposite way lol. With that being said, youve told him your feelings, let him process them and give him space to breath. It sounds like there might be somethin there. Now, dont mistake that for saying stay away-still hang out, be his best friend, what Im saying is, let him make the next move. Just my .02 cents. :D

Well your 2 cents is worth something lol.... As Pat said, all you can do is wait. He shows that he likes you, but if he feels that his heart belongs to someone else, that's a difficult place to be. Just be there for him, and he will come around.... Good advice Pat :)
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