Qnts2 Posted July 24, 2013 Group: Royal Member Followers: 3 Topic Count: 20 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 2,875 Content Per Day: 0.71 Reputation: 1,336 Days Won: 9 Joined: 03/13/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted July 24, 2013 I work in the computer field. The very last seconds, before I left on Friday on my wedding weekend, I changed my computer sign on from my maiden name to my married name. On Monday, I signed on with my married name. The Friday change made it hit home that this was my last time signing on with my maiden name and I was about to get married. On Monday was the first time I signed on with my married name, no more to go by my maiden name. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Diatheosis Posted July 25, 2013 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 34 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 370 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 91 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/26/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted July 25, 2013 One day I was praying and asking God how could I serve Him better, and then He said to me: "Marry her", so I immediately picked up the phone and made the arrangements, proposed after all was fixed. A strong indicator for marriage that would last. I guess one of the good things about being married is to goof around and without needing to act but be spontaneous. You can show who you really are without thinking if she's going to break up just like that. She knew what she would get Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Widor1 Posted July 25, 2013 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 6 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 140 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 105 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/10/2013 Status: Offline Birthday: 01/20/1987 Share Posted July 25, 2013 When I could correctly spell and sign my last name. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 When I could correctly spell and sign my last name. lol ~ Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD. Proverbs 18:22 For Twenty Years Carol Signed Her "Other" Full Name (Mine) On All My Pay Checks The Paychecks Were Mailed To Us And Because I Was Always At Work And Carol Really Needed To Cover Outstanding Checks She Did All Our Banking Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. Proverbs 31:5 So The First Day I Was On Vacation And Went In To Our Bank To Sign And Deposit My Check Because Of My Signature, The Cashier Demanded To See My Identification It Didn't Quite Match Up With Her Records, lol She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Proverbs 31-27-28 With A Razor Sharp Mathematical Mind And A B.A. Degree In Economics Carol Is My Fiscal CEO Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates. Proverbs 31:30-31 Old Fashion Marriages Seens To Be The Missing Link In The World Of Today's Financial Laws The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. Proverbs 31:11-12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coheir Posted July 25, 2013 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 3 Topic Count: 104 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 2,458 Content Per Day: 0.55 Reputation: 729 Days Won: 5 Joined: 02/09/2012 Status: Offline Birthday: 01/31/1950 Share Posted July 25, 2013 when i got in trouble for not calling to say I will be a little late Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nebula Posted July 25, 2013 Group: Royal Member Followers: 10 Topic Count: 5,823 Topics Per Day: 0.75 Content Count: 45,870 Content Per Day: 5.94 Reputation: 1,897 Days Won: 83 Joined: 03/22/2003 Status: Offline Birthday: 11/19/1970 Share Posted July 25, 2013 I have to say something. It saddens me that most people's memory of marriage hitting them are memories of annoyances and inconveniences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kali_Ko_Kat Posted July 25, 2013 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 37 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 7 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/21/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted July 25, 2013 (edited) Marriage is a BIG adjustment. For us women, we generally have to get used to a new last name. For 23 years I had a different last name. All of sudden I had a new one and that took some getting used to. I had told people what my last name was for years, then had to remember to give them my married name. When I signed papers and documents it took me a while before I stopped signing my maiden name.As for the little annoyances, those hit home when you move in together after the I Do's are said. I had no idea my new husband would leave the newspaper scattered on the table. He did not know I would want my books and some of my furniture or how I cook certain things. We did not live together before marriage so how would know about the quirks the others had?That was all part of the discovery process, learning more about each other, and working together to accept each other as we were-faults and all. Edited July 25, 2013 by Kali_Ko_Kat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chance Posted July 26, 2013 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 87 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 3 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/22/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted July 26, 2013 An interesting question asked elsewhere on the forum (from a mans point of view). I would like to hear from the "other half" as well as what more men might think. This was my short answer... Trying to get onto my own computer. Girl things hanging in the bathroom. Curtains that fit the windows. A new TV/stereo stand (I thought the one I had was acceptable - apparently I have no taste....) Wonderful smells coming from the kitchen. A refrigerator that no longer looks like a laboratory test is being run inside it. Having to share my favorite recliner. All good stuff..... The very second that I promised God that I do! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted July 27, 2013 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,992 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,690 Content Per Day: 11.78 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted July 27, 2013 Probably turned over in my bed and thinking oh my their is a man in my bed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyKay Posted August 1, 2013 Group: Royal Member Followers: 12 Topic Count: 385 Topics Per Day: 0.10 Content Count: 7,692 Content Per Day: 1.92 Reputation: 4,809 Days Won: 3 Joined: 05/28/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted August 1, 2013 It hit me right away. Like at the wedding reception. When it started getting late into the night and I realized that I just can't up and leave and go back to my little apartment and be by myself. Silly I know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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