Friendship w/ my youth pastors wife gone?

[cutiepie1497]

Okay so me and my youth pastors wife were really close this last summer. Well it seems like now it is completely gone. Everytime I think about it I cry my heart out. I adore her so much and I don't know what happened. Any advice for me on this would really be appreciated. Because it feels like now that she has a few of the youth that she is really really close with and I'm feeling jealous, bitter, angry, hurt, disappointed......plz offer suggestions on how to rekindle our friendship....(she will be 28 soon and I will be 16 soon if that matters)....

Also I just wrote this poem about it.....

Friends No More

Where did our friendship go?

I thought you enjoyed my company,

Or at least you acted like it,

To bad you were just faking.

I really thought we were friends,

That I could tell you everything,

But apparently there was a misunderstanding.

I miss the days when we laughed together,

Or when I poured my heart out to you,

But those days are no more.

I am saddened to see it go,

But maybe there is a deeper reason behind it.

I see you with your chosen few,

And wonder why I

[Constant]

Bring it to her.

[Mikeyjay]

You need to tell her how you feel!!!

[seraph]

Just tell her you need to talk and tell her how you feel Have you tried talking to her and asking if you two could hang out? It may not be intentional that she is hanging out less with you... it may just be that the other girls are wanting to hang out with her too... idk. Just ask her, "Hey, could we go get a coffee?" (or whatever) and then talk to her Just be straight up with her... let her know you miss spending time with her and you feel kind of jealous that others get to spend time with her... she should be cool with that.

[cutiepie1497]

I would be so embarressed to talk to her about this, ya know? I mean we havent had a heart to heart in almost a year. And what am I going to say? "Im jealous of the other teens and your relationship with them." ugh that would be horrible.

[yomotalking]

I agree......it would be so hard....

But maybe you should try it.......

Oh, I know how you'd feel...........

I would feel the same way if my youth leader reacted.

Oh......did you do something to break that friendship?

If you said or did something wrong.......maybe you should apologise........

Yomo

[seraph]

Well... I do inner-city youth ministry and my teens can come to me about anything... and yeah, sometimes they are embarassed... and sometimes even I am, lol... there have been times when they have told me things that were soooooooo hard to talk about but once they did, it wasn't as bad as they thought it would be and it even helped... I would hope she is the type of Christian you can talk to and who is following His will- if so, don't be afraid.... just pray and ask God to give you an opportunity to speak with her and to guide your words and even for God to guide her in how she reacts. If God leads you to speak to her it's all good- just keep focused on Him

[Scarletprayers]

I you don't want to tell her face to face, write out your poem and send it to her! Its not fair to her or you to get upset and possibly feel badly about her when maybe she doesn't even realize there is a problem!

And you need to get this off your chest as well!

Give her your poem!

[yomotalking]

I you don't want to tell her face to face, write out your poem and send it to her!  Its not fair to her or you to get upset and possibly feel badly about her when maybe she doesn't even realize there is a problem!

And you need to get this off your chest as well!

Give her your poem!

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"Written words are better than Words"

M.G.Young

[cutiepie1497]

I just wish she would come to me about it, ya know?