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This was a HUGE discussion my church about a year or two ago? We discussed whether forgiveness means that you forget what someone did to you and move on or does it mean that you don't forget, accept the person as they are but be more careful about how you deal with them. What are your thoughts. :rolleyes:

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This was a HUGE discussion my church about a year or two ago?  We discussed whether forgiveness means that you forget what someone did to you and move on or does it mean that you don't forget, accept the person as they are but be more careful about how you deal with them. What are your thoughts. :)

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Personally, I don't think we forget after we have forgiven. I think we remember the painful things in our lives so that we can help others who may be going through the same thing.

2 Corinthians 1:3-7 :)

Not forgetting does not mean that you haven't forgiven.

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I don't believe that forgiveness means that you won't remember any wrong-doing that has been done to you. Forgiveness means having no hatred against anyone and moving on. But, it does not mean that you are to be a door-mat for abuse either. I agree with you that we should be very careful and wise in our relationships. :)

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For example: Say I tell a friend something in confidence and agreement that it will stay between the two of us. Now let's say that the friend blabs it all over town. Just because i forgive him doesn't mean i should forget all about the offense and tell him a few more secrets for good measure. I certainly dont think we are required to forget, but we should not hold it agaist them/carry animosity/hard feelings towards them.

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I certainly dont think we are required to forget, but we should not hold it agaist them/carry animosity/hard feelings towards them.

Exactly! :)

When these things happen, I think that's when it would be considered that you haven't truely forgiven.

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A saying I like to live by is "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me..." I believe we need to behave with caution after trust has been broken. That doesn't mean that we resent the person, though...basically I'm saying that I agree. :)

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