merius Posted January 18, 2022 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 4 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 6 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/16/2022 Status: Offline Share Posted January 18, 2022 I am seeking guidance. I asked God to intervene to stop my mother from continued harassment against my father and his fiancee as her goal is to be as malicious as possible. She is trying to get my father in jail and fired and harassing his fiancee. I am not sure if her clouded mind thinks. There is no talking her out of anything as that has been tried. What should I do? God has not answered. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrBear Posted January 18, 2022 Group: Senior Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 23 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 695 Content Per Day: 0.76 Reputation: 748 Days Won: 5 Joined: 11/10/2021 Status: Offline Birthday: 06/17/1973 Share Posted January 18, 2022 God always answers sometimes his answer is no, not being cruel because I myself was a pawn used by my mother to create havoc in the lives of my father and his new wife every other weekend she would get visitation and her face would light up she would laugh when I would tell her what I did to disrupt their happy home, I was only 9 years old and all I wanted to do was make mom smile, she used me, encouraged me to do my worst, she hated my dad for moving on after the divorce it drove him to drinking because she milked him for so much money, but the torment didn’t stop 🛑 She had a weapon to use ( ME) God always answers and in this case the answer might be no, no one but God knows his reasons, but be assured what you reap you will sow My dad still happily married to my stepmom about 40 years now, heavy in the Faith and prospered from the blessings our Fathet has provided for them— my mother on the other hand it didn’t work out to well for her sadly ,last I saw her she never went to the Lord, stuck in bitterness, living in desperate situations the family my brother and I finally got out of her clutches and she had no one to feed off of 😔 A sad existence and I pray for her, You too need to continue to pray 🙏, signs don’t happen overnight, and if we learn anything from the Bible .. Persecution has a way of making connections stronger , the Christians were persecuted and instead of dissolve it flourished 🥰 God had a plan, and he still does Sometimes we may not like the answer but he does answer, stand firm, be strong, keep in prayer,. And above all put your faith in the Father… he is the master planner, but don’t give up, reaping and sowing is very real to God SHALOM❤️ "I tell you that on the day of judgment people will have to account for every careless word they speak." - Matthew 12:36 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BK1110 Posted January 18, 2022 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 22 Topic Count: 88 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 6,888 Content Per Day: 2.42 Reputation: 9,635 Days Won: 4 Joined: 07/18/2016 Status: Offline Birthday: 11/10/1986 Share Posted January 18, 2022 If you have tried talking and witnessing, then there is nothing left but for you to pray daily for her and this situation and leave it in God's hands. We cannot change hearts and minds; only God can move in such a way. Keep praying daily to God changes your mother's heart. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Billiards Ball Posted January 18, 2022 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 3 Topic Count: 5 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1,502 Content Per Day: 0.66 Reputation: 662 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/05/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted January 18, 2022 16 hours ago, merius said: I am seeking guidance. I asked God to intervene to stop my mother from continued harassment against my father and his fiancee as her goal is to be as malicious as possible. She is trying to get my father in jail and fired and harassing his fiancee. I am not sure if her clouded mind thinks. There is no talking her out of anything as that has been tried. What should I do? God has not answered. God has answered! Be a faithful witness, defend your father and his fiancee with your knowledge and judgment. God asks born again Christians to faithfully witness truth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Who me Posted January 18, 2022 Group: Royal Member Followers: 5 Topic Count: 17 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 3,300 Content Per Day: 1.71 Reputation: 1,686 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/27/2019 Status: Offline Share Posted January 18, 2022 20 hours ago, merius said: What should I do? Keep out of it. I assume that you are still living at home with your Mother. Don't take sides, quietly support your Father, if asked merely say that your mother needs to let go of the past, ofher hurt feelings etc and move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnOrangeCat Posted January 19, 2022 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 5 Topic Count: 57 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1,413 Content Per Day: 0.27 Reputation: 1,833 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/24/2009 Status: Offline Share Posted January 19, 2022 12 hours ago, Who me said: Keep out of it. I assume that you are still living at home with your Mother. Don't take sides, quietly support your Father, if asked merely say that your mother needs to let go of the past, ofher hurt feelings etc and move on. I feel like this is largely it. The most you can do is give advice, support, and pray. When it comes to taking action your father is the one that needs to do it. He probably needs to explain this stuff to his boss and his fiancee , talk to the police about getting a restraining order if she's following him around or going to his workplace, change phone numbers, block her on social media and email, and then just cut her out of his life to the greatest extent possible until she curbs this sort of behavior. Anything less on his part is just leaving the door open for trouble. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Who me Posted January 19, 2022 Group: Royal Member Followers: 5 Topic Count: 17 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 3,300 Content Per Day: 1.71 Reputation: 1,686 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/27/2019 Status: Offline Share Posted January 19, 2022 13 hours ago, AnOrangeCat said: I feel like this is largely it. The most you can do is give advice, support, and pray. When it comes to taking action your father is the one that needs to do it. He probably needs to explain this stuff to his boss and his fiancee , talk to the police about getting a restraining order if she's following him around or going to his workplace, change phone numbers, block her on social media and email, and then just cut her out of his life to the greatest extent possible until she curbs this sort of behavior. Anything less on his part is just leaving the door open for trouble. You need to reply to the op,Not to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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